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Hello, I am really confused. My wife is denying me sex. We have not had sex for like one month. Sometimes we have sex like once in 2weeks or once in a month. Even at that, she allows just one round. She tells me she is tired. We are both working and I assist with the house chores. We have 2 kids. I do everything she wants, buy her gift, take her out but she says she is always tired. She doesn’t have health challenge. I even asked if I offended her in anyway and she said No.

I don’t know what else to do. I really love my wife. I don’t want to cheat on her. Pls advise me on what to do.

Thanks for taking time to read.

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/18/my-wife-is-denying-me-sex/

SmellingAnus...abegi tell us the factors why some women dont like sex?

QueenSuccubus:




SmellingAnus...abegi tell us the factors why some women dont like sex?

. Boo... Some of the reasons include...

1. Tiredness/stress like the op's wife said... If the husband is chanced , I think he should find a way of reducing the domestic duties from his wife either by assisting more or getting a househelp...

2. Lack of sexual education on the side of the man... Making love to woman involves making love to her mind before her body... Infact, you need to press the right buttons while she is at work ... It could simply be in form of a flirt text like ..." Honey, I will love to bathe you and give you a romantic massage when you get home"...

3. Distraction/anger/ .... Many women prefer to make love when the guy/husband is in good with them... In other words, a peaceful atmosphere with less stress from the man will make it easier for the woman to be more relaxed to have sex with her partner... A happy woman will be more willing to engage in sex with her spouse especially when the husband is the reason for her joy...

4. Not really sexually attracted to her husband.... Yes , even some that were sexually attracted to their spouses before marriage may end up losing such attraction due to several reasons which could range from the man's inability to financially care for the family, the man's habits that the woman finds disgusting etc..

5. Tired boo... Would have said more...

Get a side chick and be happy

OP sorry.

Your wife's honeypot is filled with your neighbor's cookie

But she told you she is tired?, wait till when she go dey okay...

IamAirforce1:
Get a side chick and be happy

after all adultery is meant for adults

IamAirforce1:
Get a side chick and be happy

I pity the lady that will make the biggest mistake of her life by allowing a thing like you in her life .

Op, dont mind those that will ask you to pray or bla bla. Its all communication. Are you boring in love making? Do you change styles? How good is your pre-Intimacy? Do you eat her?
Get her drunk a night and ask questions. A drunkard always tell the truth

oluwasma:
Hello, I am really confused. My wife is denying me sex. We have not had sex for like one month. Sometimes we have sex like once in 2weeks or once in a month. Even at that, she allows just one round. She tells me she is tired. We are both working and I assist with the house chores. We have 2 kids. I do everything she wants, buy her gift, take her out but she says she is always tired. She doesn’t have health challenge. I even asked if I offended her in anyway and she said No.

I don’t know what else to do. I really love my wife. I don’t want to cheat on her. Pls advise me on what to do.

Thanks for taking time to read.

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/18/my-wife-is-denying-me-sex/

Get a mistress.

Based on logistics na olosho sure bro

HateU2:
I pity the lady that will make the biggest mistake of her life by allowing a thing like you in her life .

Op, dont mind those that will ask you to pray or bla bla. Its all communication. Are you boring in love making? Do you change styles? How good is your pre-Intimacy? Do you eat her?
Get her drunk a night and ask questions. A drunkard always tell the truth

Talking from experience?

see comments above me..... Nigeria future is bleak, moral wise!

obontami:


Talking from experience?

Big head, I'm informed

See the normal advice from nairaland females cos they will soon be here.

Sit her down and talk to her" Tell her you love her. Also help with house chores.


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folarinmiles:
Based on logistics na olosho sure bro

folarinmiles olosho will cost you more

OKUCHI11:
afte all adultery is meant for adults

Hehehe

Tell me u ve not gotten to d street to chop wat shes denying u off nd sin

kill her n throw away her body into d lagoon..

Half of nairaland population need help, spiritual and psychological. You people are advising op that went to carry story from a blog. Maybe all the op needs is traffic in the blog. All me see on nairaland these days are stories from blogs and reactions from other social media platforms.

go and straff outside jo.... many girls d. and stop doing holi holi

HateU2:
Big head, I'm informed

I'm smarter when I'm drunk, it's like everything is in slow motion and I have the advantage of thinking fast I know other people who feel like this too, so a drunk may not always say the truth

give her time to sort herself

Baby that is the sign to Spice things up

You see ladies tend to get bored ... repetition .. same ish everyday routine especially when kids are involved
it must be tiring too likewise with you aswell.. so think its time you think of ways to spice up the relationship ( no kids involved ship them off to nana )
Think about when you first meant her start that courtship again

If e no work then do the needful ..

FelixFelicis:
I'm smarter when I'm drunk, it's like everything is in slow motion and I have the advantage of thinking fast I know other people who feel like this too, so a drunk may not always say the truth

We cant use us to jugde everybody nah. Some speak the truth when they are really really drunk

OP is a female, yet her wife denies her sex. smh

Punctual:
But she told you she is tired?,
wait till when she go dey okay...

something wey dey make someone cry you find time to dey laugh am.... Moral.... Moral bro

Oga she is cheating on u. Ask any married person when ever a married woman starts denying her husband konomi she is doing konomi outside

Thinking. . . Wetin we go com do now ooo.
Here is not where to discuss this sire. Sit her up and talk to her where she can hear, if she prefer you doing an outside job

oluwasma:
folarinmiles olosho will cost you more

Olosho get grade. Depending on your pocket. And even after sometime, olosho go dey give you discount and free Bleep day

maybe she has a side nigga that has been giving her 'head