NewStats: 3,263,268 , 8,179,605 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 10:27 AM 5f6ac

Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.

So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.


Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?

We stepped into the new year, the first week ed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.

Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing

FTC.. Dedicated to all real niggaz reppin!




How about you buy her more stuffs, literally assume d position of a maga boyfriend, spend all ur hard earned cash on buying her chocolates and pata.


U don't know u dey spoil Market For other real niggaz...

Just so u know, d patas u buy today, niggaz will remove it tomao.




Make I free u small, stop doing like yemi my lover, where u shld have assumed d position of a boyfriend shld be in gestures(kissing, caressing... Anything dat disturbs her).... Not spending

Some gals don't do d toasting and yes parole





#zanga

Knock knock

Who's there?

Malo

Malo who?

Malo friend zonu mee malo friend zonu mee o, ah say make u come my house u dey calli me ur broda

nawa oooo seriously just don't ask her anything reduce the attention you giving too her I just hope you have bleep this girl cause na you go lose last last,another person they help you drill borehole.
The funniest thing is that the person drilling the borehole for you may not be up too your standard and the money you giving herself part of the money she's giving the guy chai,you Bleep up sha. girls yawerey gan don't even tell me she's a virgin oooo even is na secondary virgin she go need am one's In a while.

na why I no get bae just come and collect cassava ka ma pa de mo #DrillingSomeoneElseBae

I don't think you're rushing things, ask her.
I believe you've given her enough time.


But something is sure. After asking her, its either you leave the friend zone or you remain there

seriously op, you are expecting her to wake you up from sleep someday and tell you she is now ready for a relationship with you? only few ladies would do that bro!

Its your job to sit her down and list reasons to her why further delay won't favour you both on the long run.

I don't know why girls are like this. They will tell you they want to think about it when they really want you. I see the girl losing sha cos it seems OP is losing patience. Sharon gree for ur guy na

My Guy Is In Love! Frankly Speaking Girls Are Enigmatic, This Minute You See The Love In Their Eyes Next Minute You See The Love In Sky But Rest Assured, She Will

Maybe she saw ur unserious moniker KONJIKILLER. Truthfully she doesn't like you. I mean she doesn't feel anything for you. That's the friend zone.

cc lalasticlala mynd44

Lol, short of words, pls take this to the next level lalasticlala

Serious something, to hell with the gal, who geh time for rubbish

I'm waiting here for the experienced ones to talk so I can learn...

Stay with her bro, an expensive girl doesnt come cheap.

If you asked me, who would I ask?

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some people still get time for this kinda iranu?

Okay

Try Google alloo bro

Hmmm

How to use "Am" and "I'm' is a big deal for some folks.


Mod, correct yourself.

Just take it slow and steady with her

If you ask me who will i ask

So the mod actually used "I'm" in place of "am"

Rush in and rush out soon

Pls check out my signature for quality and durable furniture

Don’t expect a woman to tell you, “I like you being here" or "I want you to leave.”

Hmmm

Someone said it already. Buy her more stuff if she still hasn't said yes, buy her even more until you go broke. Thank me later

Eleniyan15:
nawa oooo seriously just don't ask her anything reduce the attention you giving too her I just hope you have bleep this girl cause na you go lose last last,another person they help you drill borehole

Bwahaha

......she likes u just gv her time

She'll say yes soon maybe on her birthday
BTW,it is supposed to be 'am I rushing her' instead of 'I'm I rushing her'