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Miztadynamix:


Obviously we had both had some drinks and had a really cool time. With the mindset that any virgin girl will always want to announce it load and clear, how was I to focus on that part when I wasn't even thinking anything in that direction. I wish you could really picture the mood that night, a true definition of irresistible lol... And you know how chilling the weather is, you won't understand. It just happened and it was so amazing. I am sticking to my bosses advices above, if she is ready to hang on I don't mind getting married to her. I have never met any girl that is so so cool before.

Awwww

Hmmm...be cautious! I've potted non-virgins, yet they bled.

How are u sure the blood wasn't a period thing. These women tell a lot of lies and should never be taken seriously by stories they tell. If you don't like her no more wrt distance. Then leave her early so she can find another man to tell lies to. Cheers

Oga, she was on her menstrual period and seeing that you are a JU guy, she told you a super story

Miztadynamix:
I will just cut the long story short and make it brief. I went on a business trip to the UK and during my stay I met a nice young Nigerian girl that we really clicked from the very first day we met. Along the line we got so close and all that, then on this particular night the moment really set in and trust me the senerio was just too irresistible that the shit happened then she left to her house.
The next morning I know I woke up feeling really fly after the most romantic moment I have ever had in my entire life lol (maybe because I hardly have time for ladies sha), I noticed some little stains of blood on the sheets and my heart skipped. Later that evening after the whole work stuff, we most deff got to see and then along the line I had to chip in the whole blood stains ish and trust me her response kept me dumbfounded. She opened up to me that she was a virgin and she actually gave me her virginity that night before. Like seriously it really touched me and I asked her why she didn't tell me because if she did there was no way I would have done anything knowing am most deff coming back to Nigeria. Then she said she has only dated one guy while she was in secondary school in Nigeria and she really liked him but he broke up with her before she left for UK just because she refused having sex with him and just wanted their relationship to grow without the idea of sex. Now then she said because of how much it hurt her when they broke up then, she really liked me from day one and we honestly clicked wella, she didn't want to loose me just like her first boyfriend which is why she just allowed us flow to that level without saying a word about it.

I am now back in Nigeria and we seem to be apart but just trying to keep up this whole distance relationship stuff but I am someone that hardly believe these distance relationship do work. Though am single and without any kid as well, I am thinking telling her to move on so that I dont make her feel tied down with a guy she is far away from and not yet sure when we going to meet again except she comes to Nigeria and it's so obvious that's till around December next year when she must have graduated.

Do you guys think it will be a wrong move to let her go?

please give me her number, email, Instagram ,Twitter in fact every thing about her make I complete the job since you don't want to hurt her

luorquay:

Give this Bros another bottle of wetin him dey take

Lol, fanta will do

You dont have to over think this matter or start to second guess yourself.

That one don follow yankee go. Saara banging.

#NoChurchInTheWild

Miztadynamix:


Obviously we had both had some drinks and had a really cool time. With the mindset that any virgin girl will always want to announce it load and clear, how was I to focus on that part when I wasn't even thinking anything in that direction. I wish you could really picture the mood that night, a true definition of irresistible lol... And you know how chilling the weather is, you won't understand. It just happened and it was so amazing. I am sticking to my bosses advices above, if she is ready to hang on I don't mind getting married to her. I have never met any girl that is so so cool before.

sounds like you really love her,being in a long distance relationship aint easy but its worth the try. You should talk to her and know if she is ready to hang on. Communication is the key,with that i think you can make it work.

Acheron:
Who believes this cöck and bull story. How would you deflower a girl without you knowing? You think say na easy job? So you just "shook" and it went in just like that and you think you deflowered her? Smh. Guy, she was probably menstruating.

Don't be naive. You didn't "disvirgin" her.

You think deflowering a girl is like drilling cement abi?

The hymen is thin and flimsy; sometimes perforated.

Take a book and read. Stop being naive. You have clearly never had sex

Miztadynamix:
I will just cut the long story short and make it brief. I went on a business trip to the UK and during my stay I met a nice young Nigerian girl that we really clicked from the very first day we met. Along the line we got so close and all that, then on this particular night the moment really set in and trust me the senerio was just too irresistible that the shit happened then she left to her house.
The next morning I know I woke up feeling really fly after the most romantic moment I have ever had in my entire life lol (maybe because I hardly have time for ladies sha), I noticed some little stains of blood on the sheets and my heart skipped. Later that evening after the whole work stuff, we most deff got to see and then along the line I had to chip in the whole blood stains ish and trust me her response kept me dumbfounded. She opened up to me that she was a virgin and she actually gave me her virginity that night before. Like seriously it really touched me and I asked her why she didn't tell me because if she did there was no way I would have done anything knowing am most deff coming back to Nigeria. Then she said she has only dated one guy while she was in secondary school in Nigeria and she really liked him but he broke up with her before she left for UK just because she refused having sex with him and just wanted their relationship to grow without the idea of sex. Now then she said because of how much it hurt her when they broke up then, she really liked me from day one and we honestly clicked wella, she didn't want to loose me just like her first boyfriend which is why she just allowed us flow to that level without saying a word about it.

I am now back in Nigeria and we seem to be apart but just trying to keep up this whole distance relationship stuff but I am someone that hardly believe these distance relationship do work. Though am single and without any kid as well, I am thinking telling her to move on so that I dont make her feel tied down with a guy she is far away from and not yet sure when we going to meet again except she comes to Nigeria and it's so obvious that's till around December next year when she must have graduated.

Do you guys think it will be a wrong move to let her go?

i will say this, girls especially virigins dont just allow a guy in like that. beisdes no way you would have been so drunk that you did not realise you were having sex with a VIRGIN.i do not trust girls of these days.
my opinion is that girl is and was not a virgin.
it was just too easy the way the gave her self to you.
it was just too easy.
my opinion and instincts though.
cheers.

UIA04:


Awwww

hmmmmmmm, that story kinda sound familiar right?

Miztadynamix:

The next morning I know I woke up feeling really fly after the most romantic moment I have ever had in my entire life lol (maybe because I hardly have time for ladies sha), I noticed some little stains of blood on the sheets and my heart skipped. Later that evening after the whole work stuff, we most deff got to see and then along the line I had to chip in the whole blood stains ish and trust me her response kept me dumbfounded. She opened up to me that she was a virgin and she actually gave me her virginity that night before. Like seriously it really touched me and I asked her why she didn't tell me because if she did there was no way I would have done anything knowing am most deff coming back to Nigeria.

Who is the liar between you and her

It takes two to tangle. The lady did choose to have sex, knowing well that the guy would eventually go back to Nigeria.

Bros modern technology has made everything easy that you don't feel your loved ones absence. You guys can Skype, make video calls, chat and much more, so if you truly love her forget the long distance stuff and make the woman you deflowered happy... She ain't gonna stay there for ever, so if you're married and you're traveling abroad you will divorce your wife cause of distance? Whenever my guy is outta the country we don't miss ourselves because of the modern technology, he can stay for years yet I feel nothing cause we're always glued like its real doing every stuff and it's fun... On a second note how could you deflower a woman with out knowing? were you dead drunk? did she ever tell you she was a virgin? well it's none of my business sha. all the best in your quest for true love...

not fair

Miztadynamix:


Obviously we had both had some drinks and had a really cool time. With the mindset that any virgin girl will always want to announce it load and clear, how was I to focus on that part when I wasn't even thinking anything in that direction. I wish you could really picture the mood that night, a true definition of irresistible lol... And you know how chilling the weather is, you won't understand. It just happened and it was so amazing. I am sticking to my bosses advices above, if she is ready to hang on I don't mind getting married to her. I have never met any girl that is so so cool before.

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Lol... Hope it was protected sex. Probably her menses was about starting or just ending and she couldn't wait for the place to dry enough.

If it wasn't protected do get HIV testing before you distribute your imported retro virus to innocent ladies.

If I were you I had be worried about her status if your encounter was unprotected .

And if truly she was a Virgin.... Most Probably not....Then you are now a Chief Virginity Officer. CVO.

I blame the girl...if you want to give it up,then give it up without expecting anything back in return, otherwise you are setting yourself up for massive heart break.

Anyway, she will learn the hardest that sex doesn't keep a guy since the OP is definitely going to dump her.

Badgers14:
Op, hold your 2 ears with your hand and listen

"Good" ladies are scare this days.... If you really have sth for her and you thing both of you are items... Hold on my brother...

Just talk to her about your concerns and you never know.. She might have a better plan on how to handle the long distance relationship...

Just , " COMMUNICATION" is key in every relationship..

Good luck my guy..

Cheers

Cc:mynd44, lalasticlala

Rightly said. Op, never feel you cannot workout this relationship if there is any form of love. You can meet your wife anywhere. Why not think about her faithfulness and also how she opened up to you. It is hard to get some ladies like her now. Be open to her if you luv her, if you are not sure of yourself, know the best way to break the news to her.

Miztadynamix:


Don't get too harsh my dear, I never said she didn't know everything from the onset. She knew everything and I mean everything including the fact I was obviously going back to Nigeria. The connection was just there, and yes I actually just felt it was a normal no strings attached kind of stuff because that's obviously the angle we took all through which is why I am still shocked she allowed it happen. Mind you, I not all about dumping her because I obviously like her scarra, but I just feel the guilt of tying her down in a long distance relationship when there are nice naija dudes there that are also capable of taking good care of her like I would have done. Hmmmm this is the first time am getting to understand the meaning of a complicated relationship.

HELLO NIGGA......SHE SHOULD BE THE ONE DOING THIS,NOT YOU...........WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT SHE WILL BE HURT?,YOU ARE KINDA CRYING MORE THAN THE BEREAVED...ALL I SEE IN THIS YOUR EPISTLE IS SHEER SARCASM....IF YOU CLAIM TO LIKE HER,THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE THE ONE TO REMIND HER THAT THERE ARE OTHER NIGERIAN DUDES AT HER END.............IF YOU DON'T WANT HER,THEN TELL HER...AND SAVE US THE STRESS.....AV A NICE DAY

How can you fvck a girl and not know if she's a virgin or not? You just took her word for it? Penetration is supposed to be difficult, cos she's supposed to be really tight down there. Moreover, she'd cry from the pain before the blood stains.

If all these didn't happen, my guy you've been hoodwinked. She desperately needed a man and looked for an emotional, sentimental angle to really hook you in, hence cooking up the spurious virginity claim. SCAM!!!

If you like her, go ahead and maintain the relationship. Long distance is not a big issue. Don't do it just cos she said she offered you her virginity on a platter, do it cos you really like her.

Miztadynamix:


Don't get too harsh my dear, I never said she didn't know everything from the onset. She knew everything and I mean everything including the fact I was obviously going back to Nigeria. The connection was just there, and yes I actually just felt it was a normal no strings attached kind of stuff because that's obviously the angle we took all through which is why I am still shocked she allowed it happen. Mind you, I not all about dumping her because I obviously like her scarra, but I just feel the guilt of tying her down in a long distance relationship when there are nice naija dudes there that are also capable of taking good care of her like I would have done. Hmmmm this is the first time am getting to understand the meaning of a complicated relationship.

How on earth can you not know that she was a virgin?

sashishalom:




i dont think you were so drunk to d extent of not realizing you were disvirgining a lady...or is there another meaning or method to being disvirgined??....

Am just saying i dont think she was a virgin...its my personal opinion but if your so sure i dont think u need another person to convince you on wad you really want...

Any lady can act cool to get what they want...

Cheers

You too dey talk shit... Nothing like disvirgin...
And if a girl is being deflowered like is there any particular noise you'll hear...

Be talking rubbish

Sheet really does happen mehn! Jeez! You are an azzzzzhole, just like the men before you were!

Pls, give her a soft landing. Pls...pls. Just let the whole distance thing take it's course. Gently withdraw. Oluyaradardamonkeyoshi.

Funny how they all think she wasn't a virgin.


The thing is scares now
Ladies pls keep yourselves

1 . I am 99% sure she is not a virgin . seeing little blood after sex is not a sign she is a virgin

2 . you see someone and quickly had sex WITHOUT 50naira Condom shows the kind of person you are ( bro don't tell me use it because I already new you did not ,WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU GOT HER PREGNANT? )

3. What happened at penetration would have helped you to know the kind of person she was

4. THERE IS NO WAY to earth a lady would give you her virginity just like that on first attempt bro no matter what she had ed through WHICH IS EVEN MANY YEARS AGO

5. You surely look unserious AND NOT SOMEONE IN LOVE

Acheron:
Who believes this cöck and bull story. How would you deflower a girl without you knowing? You think say na easy job? So you just "shook" and it went in just like that and you think you deflowered her? Smh. Guy, she was probably menstruating.

Don't be naive. You didn't "disvirgin" her.

Leave him to be fooling himself. My ex bled a little on the first and shorty was no V at that point.

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Acheron:
Who believes this cöck and bull story. How would you deflower a girl without you knowing? You think say na easy job? So you just "shook" and it went in just like that and you think you deflowered her? Smh. Guy, she was probably menstruating.

Don't be naive. You didn't "disvirgin" her.

@Miztadynamix,you didn't disvirgin her,you think you will just insert and blood will just come out,absolute lie,she was certainly mensurating,you cannot just PENETRATE A VIRGIN but before I reveal what she did, I need you to give a vivid explanation of
1:your D size(optional)
2:her arousal level
3:her reaction,b4 and after insertion.

Virginity experts propounding theories, while the okonkwos are yelling wife her on an of a night stand. Isorite .

Greenbullet:


@Miztadynamix,you didn't disvirgin her,you think you will just insert and blood will just come out,absolute lie,she was certainly mensurating,you cannot just PENETRATE A VIRGIN but before I reveal what she did, I need you to give a vivid explanation of
1:your D size(optional)
2:her arousal level
3:her reaction,b4 and after insertion.

Don't be ridiculous like you are a professional in virgin ish. I didn't pick her from the street. And incase you ain't reading and getting it right, I didn't need to just take off a skirt and insert the D. We didn't just f*** but made love, and if you know what that means, would it have been possible to kiss a lady inbetween her legs while she is in her period without knowing and common why will any down to earth lady allow you do that. I can see you roll with girls that you can have sex with without knowing she is on... Do girls move around when they are on without protecting themselves from the mess?

Skelewu:
How can you fvck a girl and not know if she's a virgin or not? You just took her word for it? Penetration is supposed to be difficult, cos she's supposed to be really tight down there. Moreover, she'd cry from the pain before the blood stains.

If all these didn't happen, my guy you've been hoodwinked. She desperately needed a man and looked for an emotional, sentimental angle to really hook you in, hence cooking up the spurious virginity claim. SCAM!!!

If you like her, go ahead and maintain the relationship. Long distance is not a big issue. Don't do it just cos she said she offered you her virginity on a platter, do it cos you really like her.

Eyah... When you get to the right age you will understand how it happens OK..