NewStats: 3,262,857 , 8,178,383 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 08:23 PM 665ob

Ok we know that a man represents the stronger gender but he is also human with emotions and vulnerability.

When a guy breaks a lady's heart people tend to curse and say stuffs like he is wicked,all men are the same,if he knows he won't..why waste her time and so on..

But in the case of the guy getting heart broken they say stuffs like "Be a man, there are many other ladies out there to choose from,don't tell me you are crying because a woman breaks your heart..."

Why is this so? Don't they know that considering a man's ego, it is harder for a guy when he gets heart broken by a lady he really wants and have invested his emotions and time on?
did he not see other ladies before settling with that one and what if he is not interested in any other lady except that one?
it becomes even most painful when the lady breaks your heart without prior notice and you start going bunkers talking to yourself and asking yourself funny questions.

I strongly believe that if you truly desire a lady and she breaks your heart and it happens to be the first time for you...na cry sure because if you bottle the emotions,you may react in a terrible way by harming yourself or the lady so its better to let out the pains and anger by crying out loud.

Please when next you see a guy sulking or even crying like a baby over a heart break just let him cry his heart out because we are humans too and it takes so much pain for a man to see the woman he truly wants in the hands of another man.

But I want any lady reading this to know that if a man ever shed tears because you opt out of his life,please go back to that guy because for a guy to break just a drop of tears for you,then that guy really desires you so why lose such for another who will most likely make you cry?

So guys let's drop our macho attitude and do a little confession...Have you ever been heart broken before? and how did you react? Did you cry?

Over to you guys.

that's exactly d same advice u'll giv to ur male siblings



but blv me if uve neva been heartbroken as a man u won't understand


wen it happens Beyonce won't even b enough for u


ifs not her at dat tym blv no other

taylor88:
that's exactly d same advice u'll giv to ur male siblings



but blv me if uve neva been heartbroken as a man u won't understand


wen it happens Beyonce won't even b enough for u


ifs not her at dat tym blv no other

Very true

Op,
I know You heartbroken and One Sissy is Trynna cheer u up by giving you those words of consolation.

Cheer up, There are plenty girls out there

What is heart Break.??

BiafraBushBoy:
What is heart Break.??

lmao...cme let me teach u nah

Toks2008:
Ok we know that a man represents the stronger gender but he is also human with emotions and vulnerability.

When a guy breaks a lady's heart people tend to curse and say stuffs like he is wicked,all men are the same,if he knows he won't..why waste her time and so on..

But in the case of the guy getting heart broken they say stuffs like "Be a man, there are many ladies out there to choose from,don't tell me you are crying because a woman breaks your heart..."

Why is this so? Don't they know that it is harder for a guy when he gets heart broken by a lady he really wants considering his ego?

Please when next you see a guy sulking or even crying over a heart break just let him vry his heart out because we are humans too and it takes so much pain for a man to see the woman he truly wants in the hands of another man.

show me the girl that messed with your heart. i will fight her

Vikky014:
show me the girl that messed with your heart. i will fight her

LOL! No girl do me strong thing o..i just dey ask

Toks2008:


LOL! No girl do me strong thing o..i just dey ask

lol. i trust u sha...hw r u doing?

Bleep love

Debbywills:
Op,
I know You heartbroken and One Sissy is Trynna cheer u up by giving you those words of consolation.

Cheer up, There are plenty girls out there

LOL! i actually cried in 2001 when a lady broke my heart and i loved her like kilode..

She had warned me that if i should ever date another lady,she will leave me and i kept to the promise.

But unfortunately she was the one who messed up because she thought i was dating a lady and without confirming or asking any questions,she just put an end to it...omo i nearly died.

Vikky014:
lol. i trust u sha...hw r u doing?

My only nairaland sweetheart i dey o.

Vikky014:
lmao...cme let me teach u nah

Really??... I see your siggy tho...
Have fun.

Toks2008:

My only nairaland sweetheart i dey o.

alright. enjoy urslf

BiafraBushBoy:

Really??... I see your siggy tho...
Have fun.

yes.

Toks2008:


LOL! i actually cried in 2001 when a lady broke my heart and i loved her like kilode..

She had warned me that if i should ever date another lady,she will leave me and i kept to the promise.

But unfortunately she was the one who messed up because she thought i was dating a lady and without confirming or asking any questions,she just put an end to it...omo i nearly died.

Some Ladies are like that.
That's sad, its all over now I guess?

I dunno, I'm trying To be like that Your Ex .... Enough of being soft. People do take me for granted

taylor88:
that's exactly d same advice u'll giv to ur male siblings

but blv me if uve neva been heartbroken as a man u won't understand

wen it happens Beyonce won't even b enough for u

ifs not her at dat tym blv no other

Lol. That's the pure truth there. No other babe will be good enough until you get over her.

People just have to give you tough love to ginger you from the doldrums of heartbreak that's why they say stuff like what Toks wrote.

I one babe who broke my heart then chai. I nearly kolo with sadness My guys just dey try encourage me, who sai, e nor work. That time sef, I was surrounded by fine fine single babes, but I was blind. My babe nor fine reach those girls o but na dat my babe gan gan I want. No other. I buried myself in work. With time, I got over her. Foolish love.

exactly same xcuse we give when caught cheatin.. WE ARE MEN

Vikky014:
yes.

Oya na, comman break it na...
As if you are the owner....
lol... *tongue out*

Heart break Weak guys everywhere

Vikky014:
yes.

Oya na, comman break it na...
As if you are the owner....
lol... *tongue out*

joe4real12:
Heart break Weak guys everywhere

It can happen to anybody. You'll be amazed.

Debbywills:


Some Ladies are like that.
That's sad, its all over now I guess?

I dunno, I'm trying To be like that Your Ex .... Enough of being soft. People do take me for granted

Please dont be like her o cos she realized how dumb she behaved about 8 months latter but then it was already late.. i had moved on with another lady..no time to check time.

lamentation of a broken hearted guy

joe4real12:
Heart break Weak guys everywhere

You need at least one heart break to be strong.. until then you really can't tell how weak or strong you are.

mumumugu:
lamentation of a broken hearted guy

I can bet that people like you will cry an ocean if jilted by the woman you love but will come online to start forming macho.

Hmm

Debbywills:
Op,
I know You heartbroken and One Sissy is Trynna cheer u up by giving you those words of consolation.

Cheer up, There are plenty girls out there

That's what everybody will say. If plenty keep breaking heart nko?

Toks2008:


You need at least one heart break to be strong.. until then you really can't tell how weak or strong you are.

I agree with u

Jay542:

It can happen to anybody. You'll be amazed.

well, it's possible

joe4real12:
well, it's possible

Yea. Goodmorning siir