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dammyjay93(m): 10:04am On Jun 24, 2016
Hello romancelanders! I'm going to be generating a whole lot of controversy with this; earlier this week I was discussing with a babe and we got to talk about rape, she castigated men as being the main evil not being able to control their desires and all but to some extent I disagreed with her. NOTE: I'm an advocator for capital punishment for rapists (I don't condone it in any way), but a lady in this 21st century knows how perverted this generation is, in fact rape is an age-long vice.

Now see this case that I happen to be aware of: I used to have this close friend - a lady, i don't know if i'd address her as daring, adventurous or just plain stupid, she was a chronic night-crawler and to worsen matters she was fond of going to these clubs, places you have complete strangers all by herself no friends, nothing! I knew it was only a matter of time before this girl got raped or worse, tried my best to talk her out of it, she often laughed it off. I left the city and one way or the other we lost with each other for about 2years, we later hooked up on Facebook and we got talking, one of those chats and she recounted her rape ordeal to me (unsurprisingly though).

Some ladies knowing fully well the way these things work still leave a lot to chance; I have no sympathy for women who are dumb enough to go to a random guys hotel room at 3 am in the morning, get drunk/take drugs and the scream rape or can we really blame a kongified dude that sees a chick on slitted miniskirt and blouse so transparent you can see her nipples?

Before we jump inside conclusion lets have in mind that there are two sides to a coin; some girls would have sex with a guy, not like it and later scream rape. and a final word of advice for the ladies; while rape is condemnable, there are conscious efforts that can drastically reduce the chance of getting raped: don't walk alone at night, if you're going to get drunk at a club have at least a friend with you, etc..

Over to you guys cc@fynestboi, ivyy, juhan, cutehector, twaci, refiner, tallesty1, smellymouth

What are your views?
WAGAZ: 10:06am On Jun 24, 2016
cruzita(f): 10:09am On Jun 24, 2016
undecided
dammyjay93(m): 10:10am On Jun 24, 2016
what have you got to say undecided
cruzita:
undecided
ErnieSmallzz(f): 10:16am On Jun 24, 2016
ok, so what are u trying to say now? undecided That the ladies are to be blamed for any Rape case?

Ok, but what of those guys that rape girls of 2-7years? The girls should be blamed 2?
undecided
foolinlove(f): 10:22am On Jun 24, 2016
RAPE IS THE FAULT OF THE RAPIST 100%.

Rape can only be prevented if rapists stop raping.
sinaj(f): 10:27am On Jun 24, 2016
A man goes into the room, sees a 5yr old on d bed sleeping with just pant on and rape her.




Whose fault u gonna say it is? undecided
ForeverYoung197(f): 10:28am On Jun 24, 2016
I have no idea what your friend's been tripping. but May the rape session will give her a great lesson that she will never forget.
Taiyescott(m): 10:38am On Jun 24, 2016
sinaj:
A man goes into the room, sees a 5yr old on d bed sleeping with just pant on and rape her.




Whose fault u gonna say it is? undecided
Who Else But D Man 4 Behaving Lyk A Goatie..

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BoboFashion(m): 10:43am On Jun 24, 2016
Rape is rape... such a dastardly act.

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Taiyescott(m): 10:44am On Jun 24, 2016
The Rapist Takes All Blame, But In Cases Where A Full Grown Lady Dresses Indecently And Is Raped, I Believe D Blame Shud B Shared By Both D Rapist And D Rapee.. In Case Of Pedophiles, They Shud B Killed Instantly!

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henry11007(m): 10:47am On Jun 24, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
ok, so what are u trying to say now? undecided That the ladies are to be blamed for any Rape case?

Ok, but what of those guys that rape girls of 2-7years? The girls should be blamed 2?
undecided
the truth is 60 to 70 percent of rape is caused by ladies, because some of them dress half naked

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dammyjay93(m): 10:51am On Jun 24, 2016
Pedophiles are a different case! Those ones should be castrated...
ErnieSmallzz:
ok, so what are u trying to say now? undecided That the ladies are to be blamed for any Rape case?

Ok, but what of those guys that rape girls of 2-7years? The girls should be blamed 2?
undecided
dammyjay93(m): 10:52am On Jun 24, 2016
I second that
Taiyescott:
The Rapist Takes All Blame, But In Cases Where A Full Grown Lady Dresses Indecently And Is Raped, I Believe D Blame Shud B Shared By Both D Rapist And D Rapee.. In Case Of Pedophiles, They Shud B Killed Instantly!
joe4real12: 11:05am On Jun 24, 2016
A rapist deserves death sentence shikena.
foolinlove(f): 11:23am On Jun 24, 2016
Taiyescott:
The Rapist Takes All Blame, But In Cases Where A Full Grown Lady Dresses Indecently And Is Raped, I Believe D Blame Shud B Shared By Both D Rapist And D Rapee.. In Case Of Pedophiles, They Shud B Killed Instantly!

By this logic then anyone who gets robbed should also be partly to blame for the robbery.
Taiyescott(m): 11:50am On Jun 24, 2016
foolinlove:


By this logic then anyone who gets robbed should also be partly to blame for the robbery.
Rape and Robbery are two different cases and are to be approached differently. cool
foolinlove(f): 11:52am On Jun 24, 2016
Taiyescott:

Rape and Robbery are two different cases and are to be approached differently. cool

Don't wanna get robbed? Don't own anything.

Don't wanna get raped? Don't be a woman.

I'll have you know women in Saudi Arabia, covered up in sheets and stuff, still get raped.

Rape isn't about sex, it's about power.
Taiyescott(m): 12:05pm On Jun 24, 2016
foolinlove:


Don't wanna get robbed? Don't own anything.

Don't wanna get raped? Don't be a woman.

I'll have you know women in Saudi Arabia, covered up in sheets and stuff, still get raped.

Rape isn't about sex, it's about power.
Uhhhmn, so ur sayin some men rape women jex to show power?? women are actually the powerful ones..
foolinlove(f): 12:21pm On Jun 24, 2016
Taiyescott:

Uhhhmn, so ur sayin some men rape women jex to show power?? women are actually the powerful ones..

So my logic isn't flawed then? Men rape to gain back the power thay women hold. Or to exert their power over women. Because they feel like their power has been undermined by women.
Taiyescott(m): 12:50pm On Jun 24, 2016
foolinlove:


So my logic isn't flawed then? Men rape to gain back the power thay women hold. Or to exert their power over women. Because they feel like their power has been undermined by women.
Uhhmn, E Tire Me Ooo.. Jex D Way Ur Undermining My Power Nw Abi?? Bt U Av A Point Sha.. Lets B Frnds, Follow Me Back.
foolinlove(f): 12:53pm On Jun 24, 2016
Taiyescott:
Uhhmn, E Tire Me Ooo.. Jex D Way Ur Undermining My Power Nw Abi?? Bt U Av A Point Sha.. Lets B Frnds, Follow Me Back.

I'm not undermining your power, I can't help if I'm smarter than u wink
Taiyescott(m): 2:33pm On Jun 24, 2016
foolinlove:


I'm not undermining your power, I can't help if I'm smarter than u wink
K Dear, Jst Followed U Sha.
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