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There are some silly things some men do that are rather too childish considering their position as the head of the family

•Not eating their meal because they had a quarrel with their wives.

•Not talking to their children because they did something bad that requires correction

•Transferring their anger from an outsider to the of their family

•Beating their wives because they had a little quarrel

•Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house

•Acting all nice with people outside but when he comes home he acts like a tiger...and when you tell people outside what he does they find it difficult to believe it
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...and what the hell is 'cc lalasticlala'?

Lol, the way people mention lala these days ehn, it now seems like no thread (no matter how sensible) would make the front-page as long as lala is not called.

It's rather too childish in my own understanding.

@OP, you made great and salient points. Whether or not it makes the front-page, that shouldn't bother you. If indeed you want men to learn and change their ways, then post it, leave it at that, and move on.

1. A man who refuses to eat because there is a disagreement between him and his wife is not only childish, but also stupid, except if his money is not what is used to prepare the food. He can however be regarded as wise, if during the disagreement, the wife threatened to poison him.

2.No sane man will keep malice with his own kids because he's corrected by his wife.


3. Totally childish, well, poo.happens.

4. A man who beats his wife is an animal. Simple.

5. This is cool. It's called wisdom.
There is no way there won't occasionally be disagreement between couples, but the wise ones do not let visitors know when visitors are around. It's actually childish to let visitors know that you and your spouse is quarrelling.


6. The man is a chameleon.



My own childishness is when a man sits in fronts of television all through the day. while the wife is doing almost 10 different things simultaneously and the man is still complaining of lateness of his meal. Also, when a woman insists that men should be responsible for all the financial obligations in the family and such woman is still complaining of the authority over her.


Couples,
Let's all do unto ourselves what we want done unto us.

Acidosis:
Lol, the way people mention lala these days ehn, it now seems like no thread (no matter how sensible) would make the front-page as long as lala is not called.

It's rather too childish in my own understanding.

@OP, you made great and salient points. Whether or not it makes the front-page, that shouldn't bother you. If indeed you want men to learn and change their ways, then post it, leave it at that, and move on.

Thank u

greatgod2012:
1. A man who refuses to eat because there is a disagreement between him and his wife is not only childish, but also stupid, except if his money is not what is used to prepare the food. He can however be regarded as wise, if during the disagreement, the wife threatened to poison him.

2.No sane man will keep malice with his own kids because he's corrected by his wife.


3. Totally childish, well, poo.happens.

4. A man who beats his wife is an animal. Simple.

5. This is cool. It's called wisdom.
There is no way there won't occasionally be disagreement between couples, but the wise ones do not let visitors know when visitors are around. It's actually childish to let visitors know that you and your spouse is quarrelling.


6. The man is a chameleon.



My own childishness is when a man sits in fronts of television all through the day. while the wife is doing almost 10 different things simultaneously and the man is still complaining of lateness of his meal. Also, when a woman insists that men should be responsible for all the financial obligations in the family and such woman is still complaining of the authority over her.


Couples,
Let's all do unto ourselves what we want done unto us.

Noted

Start acting all aggressive especially when their team loses or when a match spoils their bettting ticket.....*SMH*

Amicable24:
There are some stilly things some men do that are rather too childish considering their position as the head of the family

•Not eating their meal because they had a quarrel with their wives.

•Not talking to their children because they did something bad that requires correction

•Transferring their anger from an outsider to the of their family

•Beating their wives because they had a little quarrel

•Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house

•Acting all nice with people outside but when he comes home he acts like a tiger...and when you tell people outside what he does they find it difficult to believe it
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Cc: Lalasticlala
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Titilayooni:
Start acting all aggressive especially when their team loses or when a match spoils their bettting ticket.....*SMH*

Sure, I forgot to add that... LOOOOOOOOL

Hmm

•Acting all nice with people outside but when he comes home he acts like a tiger...and when you tell people outside what he does they find it difficult to believe it

Spot on!

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This doesn't happen again in this 21st century.cnt say about the uneducated husband though

Op you're on point...

Why is this op describing her husband for us?

Please enough of the hasty generalisation!

If your husband treats you bad...Pele! All men are not that way!

In fact I've never met a man that does any of that! Shiorr!

The one I hate most is for husbands to transfer aggression from outside to their homes

Amicable24:
There are some silly things some men do that are rather too childish considering their position as the head of the family

•Not eating their meal because they had a quarrel with their wives.

•Not talking to their children because they did something bad that requires correction

•Transferring their anger from an outsider to the of their family

•Beating their wives because they had a little quarrel

•Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house

•Acting all nice with people outside but when he comes home he acts like a tiger...and when you tell people outside what he does they find it difficult to believe it
.


Feel free to add yours.. BTW, counter thread coming soon.. Make I wear live jacket dey wait

No sence

Why are you ranting?

G

Taryur3:
This doesn't happen again in this 21st century.cnt say about the uneducated husband though

You have no idea what is going in many homes.

women sef
You never gave points of what might possible make a man exhibit those characters.




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Men,,,

Not eating their meal because they had a quarrel with their wives

wives dey close legs to husband's advances because them quarrel or get small misunderstanding

Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house

what's wrong with this? Must you let others know what's going on in your house?

@op, but women are permitted to display such attitudes abii

Why the double standards

Do that a man is a human like you

What is good for the gander is good for the goose

What a woman can do, a man can do too

Shebi una want equality... This is where equality starts from

Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house


I don't agree with this, a sensible man does not wash his dirty linen in public

When he doesn't provide for the house (always acting broke) but immediately he sees someone with needs outside he GIVES

Oko a n fani adugbo,olohun maje ani

The best thing is to PRAY for God to give us our own MAN...
When such happens, all this you mentioned above won't occur.. The man, would be understanding, and tolerable... Don't just pray for a GOD FEARING MAN ALONE, a man could be Godfearing and still posses those characters..

Sometimes, we act like kids, we nag and complain... Its our husband's job to treat us right, to take care of us as his Daughter, and not the other way round..

A woman, should be his husband's wife, daughter, sister, friend, and a MOTHER..

No matter what a woman does, any man that lays his hands on a woman is an ANIMAL..

Bottom line, even if he's rich, tall and handsome, if he's not for you, don't marry him!! Better stick to that hardworking man that's meant for you and understands you.. Every hard working man will always be successful at the end

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Clap for yourself

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Amicable24:
There are some silly things some men do that are rather too childish considering their position as the head of the family

•Not eating their meal because they had a quarrel with their wives.

•Not talking to their children because they did something bad that requires correction

•Transferring their anger from an outsider to the of their family

•Beating their wives because they had a little quarrel

•Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house

•Acting all nice with people outside but when he comes home he acts like a tiger...and when you tell people outside what he does they find it difficult to believe it
.


Feel free to add yours.. BTW, counter thread coming soon.. Make I wear live jacket dey wait

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Cut all this crap of a thing. Its so annoying

Tobium1:
Acting as if everything is cool when there is a visitor in the house


I don't agree with this, a sensible man does not wash his dirty linen in public

It's usually a woman who wants to tell everyone what is happening in the home.

It's very uncouth and very unwise.