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There are different opinions, some men completely hate the idea and consider it un manly to help his lady with her handbag, other guys do it happily as it means nothing, I think it's cool

Guys, can you hold your lady's purse/handbag? Ladies how do you feel about youur boyfriend holding your purse?

Wetin do her hand?

A genuine love can it happen

She isn't physically challenged

ronald4lif:
Wetin do her hand?

very unromantic fellow.

A genuine love can make it happen

It depends on the OT of the man one is into, though there is nothing spectacular in helping ones woman with her bag especially when she is pregnant.

Lezzlie


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Mimzy


Lsofdk

Iamlegend

Creamish your views

nothing wrong in holding your girlfriend's bag.
y'all need to let go of that silly nigerian mentality.

Love give no room for logical reasoning. Whatever that pleases you to do willingly because of love, do it.

I don't like it. It makes the guy look weak & pathetic. I also judge the females who allow that as being princessy & lazy.

*It's sweet.
...and even more so when he doesn't do it out of necessity.

But his not caring about what onlookers might think of him is sexy!
His security in his manhood is sexy.

KnightMare7:
Lezzlie


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Mimzy


Lsofdk

Iamlegend

Creamish your views

I'll hold that bag if I'm in love with her and damn the world and societial conventions.

I have been holding female bags, since I have been able to hold bags.

BrideOfDracula:
I don't like it. It makes the guy look weak & pathetic. I also judge the females who allow that as being princessy & lazy.

What kind of a woman are you? Yuck

BrideOfDracula:
I don't like it. It makes the guy look weak & pathetic. I also judge the females who allow that as being princessy & lazy.

Rubish!!! Isn't that a throw back to the last century?

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
I have been holding female bags, since I have been able to hold bags.

hahahahaha ladies man

Lezzlie:
Rubish!!! Isn't that a throw back to the last century?

her post shocked me, she should be the only woman in the world who doesn't want her handbag carried by her love.

KnightMare7:
What kind of a woman are you? Yuck

A last century Beldame that time-travelled into the 21st century

KnightMare7:
What kind of a woman are you? Yuck

The kind who carries her own load. Yuck right back!

KnightMare7:
Lezzlie


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Mimzy


Lsofdk

Iamlegend

Creamish your views

IMO.. There is no big deal to it especially if they went out together and she's got loads of stuffs to carry.

The average African man will never ever do it..

Lezzlie:
Rubish!!! Isn't that a throw back to the last century?

Then call me Throwback Pearl because those are my beliefs.

KnightMare7:
her post shocked me, she should be the only woman in the world who doesn't want her handbag carried by her love.

I call it cyber readaptation; the need to put on a new guise for cyber conformity.

This is a girl who said she wouldn't dare Flatulate in her boyfriend's presence. So well mannered and ladylike but can't let her boyfirend handle her handbag even for convenience!!!

The contradiction!!!

BrideOfDracula:


Then call me Throwback Pearl because those are my beliefs.

I'm as masculine as there can be, and I have actually in actuality carried my girlfriend's handbag in public.

That's a rare twist of being macho to me, because my free hand is actually holding her arm as we walk.

You ain't much of a pearl

No can do. It's not among the list of tinz I do for bae.

I would love to see a naija guy do that for me though but men of nowadays don't have any sense of chilvary.. Smh

Wife:YES
Girlfriend: NO. Except where it's inevitable to lend a helping hand--especially where she's carrying two bags.
Dont get me wrong, not saying doing that for your girl is wrong but, why should i carry your bag when you are the custodian of it.

Lezzlie:
I'm as masculine as there can be, and I have actually in actuality carried my girlfriend's handbag in public.

That's a rare twist of being macho to me, because my free hand is actually holding her arm as we walk.

You ain't much of a pearl

You're right, I'm a whole jewelery box of precious stones

Well, I'm kinda traditional girl at heart so that doesn't jive with me.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
I have been holding female bags, since I have been able to hold bags.

mimzy:


IMO.. There is no big deal to it especially if they went out together and she's got loads of stuffs to carry.

The average African man will never ever do it..

African men need to upgrade asap, they are so way back, gush!!!

#team foreign men hahahahaha

OhMyG0d:
Wife:YES
Girlfriend: NO. Except where it's inevitable to lend a helping hand.

why should there be so much of a difference between wife and girlfriend, don't you love them both?

All these african men

mimzy:


IMO.. There is no big deal to it especially if they went out together and she's got loads of stuffs to carry.

The average African man will never ever do it..

who says?
most guys i know do that.