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A lot of female visitors who storm Lagos have romance at the back of their minds as they hope to meet the guy that would sweep them off their feet during their stay. Unfortunately, while single men are literally everywhere in the city, meeting quality single guys can be an arduous task. Everyone seems to be so busy, and the ones you manage to meet at bars and club may not exactly be what you would consider “quality”.
Truth is, finding eligible men in Lagos could be an elusive game if they are at a loss as to where to meet them. Jovago.com, Africa’s largest online hotel booking portal comes to the rescue with top 5 ways girls in Lagos who are serious about taking their destiny can meet quality eligible men.
Get your blood pumping at the gym
If you have a gym in your hotel or a sport center around you, take advantage of it. Most of the men in Lagos are fitness conscious and they like to spend quality time at the gym. Basically, you would be killing two birds with one stone: you get to exercise your body, get your blood flowing, and also create opportunities to run into the love of your life!
Most of the men you will meet at the gym would be attractive and responsible as their presence at the gym already shows that they value their health. And do not forget to go for an attractive sports gear as opposed to the normal sweat pants and T-shirt.
Attend weddings
Anyone who lives in Lagos can attest to the fact that wedding are the number one place to meet single quality guys. Forget the lewd assumption that single men at weddings just want to get laid, if you keep that in mind, you will not make progress. Most of the men actually come to wedding to look out for the girls who rush out for the bouquet when the bride throws it to the crowd, that way they know they already stand a chance.
Do not deny any invitation to a wedding, especially when it is a friend or someone of good reputation. Just ensure you look great, keep a smile and look approachable, dance like your life depends on it, and of course, fight for that bouquet when you see it high up in the air.
Go to church
A cross section of worshippers
Rather than sit in your hotel room or place of accommodation on the Sunday while visiting, why not get up, get dressed and head out to church? You never know who you would meet and what better way to meet a quality single guy than coming across him in the presence of the lord? There is none better than a man who has high regard for God and stays committed to his religion. There is a higher chance of things working out with him, as most of the single men in church are in search of opportunities for serious relationships. The bonus is that you get to meet someone who shares the same faith and moral grounding as well. Luckily, there are a number of churches around Lagos that you visit.
Take a stroll at a private beach
File photo: *Holiday makers at the Bar Beach.
Put meeting the perfect single guy on the side, visiting the private beaches or resorts in Lagos can be a rewarding experience on its own. From La Campagne Tropicana to Kampe Ikare, Atican beach or just Oniru beach, there are boundless opportunities to run into eligible men.
There are basically three kinds of guys you will see at the beach: those who are there alone, those with their group of male friend (their behavior will mark them out as single) and those who visit with their baes, girlfriends or wives. The first two are your best bet. Do not feel too shy to approach them and a strike up a conversation…most love stories begin with a few rods spoken.
Make your location visible online
A lot of people in Lagos meet their boyfriends and husbands online via social media apps like Instagram, Facebook or Snapchat Instamessage. In fact, this is the latest method of meeting single men in the city. Social media apps give s opportunities to find others with similar interests close to them. And so, unless your location is visible it might be difficult for guys in the area to see you and hit you up. Make your location visible the moment your feet touch the shores of Lagos and stay online.
If you do not have s on any of the social media platforms, search for online dating sites, there are some exclusive to Nigeria and even Lagos. You can check out profiles and photographs and connect with whoever appeals to you.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/05/top-5-ways-meet-single-guys-lagos/

Apart from gym, you can't meet me in any of those places...
Work
Home
Gym
next day
Work
Home
Sleep
The repetition continues.... lol

Lori titi oloda

Noted

While all the tips above might be helpful, the major fact is you'll never have a chance with any reasonable single guy if you:

1. WANT MONEY
2. HAVE AN UGLY FACE
3. HAVE A BAD CHARACTER/PERSONALITY
4. HAVE BIG BELLY
5. GO BACK TO NUMBER 1 since it's the most critical

We (parents and the society) need to educate girls more on being successful for them self, there's no better way of having high quality guys come your way than being really successful yourself.. look at most successful women today (academically or financially), they have the best guys in their own right.

Are ladies complaining that they ain't seeing single guys when they turn down all online punch lines for friendship

Ok

So , someone won't mind making money in lasgidi , rather to look for guys smh*

Come to Nairaland

A football viewing center.
Nairabet shop.

K

Shrine

1. STAND FOR ONE CORRECT HOTEL FRONT,IF YOU DONT MEET QUALITY MEN THERE,ABEG RE-EXAMINE YOUR FACE,KPEKUZ & BAKASSI.

lol, funny

Will pride allow a naija girl approach a man

In the bus nko ?

Go get a job

Dem go show plenty

Just ing by and saw a chance to comment on first page and i took it.

All na wash

Booyakasha:
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Bad Habit ! Stop saving space !

Not only single guys,eligible and responsible bachelors are scarce!

Social media? you can as well point out to us one way of getting eligible desperate guys chop off our boobs, abeg remove social media, social media hook ups are by chance n very rare, dealing with a faceless person is like playing nairabet. U hardly see a girl wit real profile info and guys are d worst now. I will

Vivly:
A football viewing center.
Nairabet shop.

Was that where you met your present boyfriend?

He must be one of those lazyass "get rich quick or die trying" delusional niggas. Eyah.

Banks... I'm sure Jadekitana will bear me witness✌

ok

BiafraBushBoy:
Apart from gym, you can't meet me in any of those places...

Me too! Wetin wan carry me go church of all places? Maybe if I wan fvck Olosho.

SITE: most guys work in a site this days...if you are humble and willing to grow with him...you will hit it...hey and site guys are most times well built too...so think twice about gym

NAIRALAND: Well what can I say...we full here it depends on y'all to catch us and reciprocate when we drop our lines...CaroLyner you don hear ooo

HOSPITAL: See em fine and responsible guys taking care of family and friends at the hospital... if you can comfort him then, he will take care of you well


so how many likes for me na abi I no try ni

bice

Vivly:
A football viewing center. Nairabet shop.

...lets meet there bae.