NewStats: 3,261,986 , 8,175,804 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 12:18 PM 236t4z

Many guys often make a forceful move to make a lady love them at all cost by going out of their ways just to please her.

They fail to understand that no matter the effort made to win a lady's heart, once she's not interested, she's certainly not interested (though I take exception to some of them who use it as a test). However, after failed gimmicks and tactics, some resort to bringing themselves low by begging a lady to please love them just to convince her of their genuine intentions.

So here are the things guys do to please ladies that reduces their self worth and value.

1. They borrow money and buy expensive gifts to impress a Lady

I hate the fact that some guys who can't feed to satisfaction borrow money to buy expensive gifts such as mobile phones, Brazilian hair, etc and borrow clothes from their friends just to impress a lady. If a lady cannot accept you when you are broke, then she is not in any way qualified to be your girlfriend let alone wife. Guys who do this have low self esteem problem and the earlier the better to fix this, in order not to be a future maga.

2. They use their friend's apartment to entertain a lady

That's why I like someone like Tosyne2much, despite the fact that he's living in a mud house at Ekiti, he doesn't form for a lady . The fact that a guy is living in a slum area or a "face me and slap you" apartment doesn't mean he has to deny his own house and instead use a friend's well tushed apartment to entertain her. If the lady later finds out that such guy is deceiving her, he is as good as gone in her life.

3. Frequently doing a lady's chores

Of course romance is very vital in a relationship but it should at least be done moderately. How do you explain a guy who frequently washes his girlfriend's undies, cooks for her, fetches water for her, run an errand for her and looses her hairs. On occasional basis, a guy can do this but when it becomes an everyday routine, the guy's value will dwindle.

4. They use their bonus airtime to bombard a lady with calls

Ordinarily, some guys are so economical that when they want to call a lady they usually set caller timer. When their money is being deducted for no reason they will open a thread to heap insults on MTN but when these dudes receive a bonus airtime from their respective service provider, they will bore a lady with disturbing/unwanted calls. They will call to the extent that MTN will be forced to ban them from making calls. Even when you are on bonus, at least try to make calls with moderation.

5. They send money to her bank to win her heart

I often blame guys who behave like stubborn he-goats as they don't take NO for an answer. Some of them cannot decode a common "NO" rather, they act like good samaritans and may even ask for the bank details of a lady they met few days ago . When they get scammed they will come to nairaland and start narrating their ordeal to those who never cared to listen and will be begging professor Lalasticlala to move it to the FP.. What a shame!

6. Unnecessarily hyping A Lady

She already knows she is beautiful so what's the point hyping her? It's very shameful that some guys often behave like dog on heat, heaping praises to ladies who accepted their friend request or ladies who reply their PMs. Some of them think these things will make a lady develop interest in them, not knowing they are only devaluing themselves.

7. They send unsolicited love messages to a lady they barely Know

I find it very funny when a guy sends unsolicited pm to a lady who he barely knows, telling her how much he is in love simply because maybe her profile picture is appealing to the eyes.. Love at first sight is lust but some guys believe they can play smart by declaring their obsession to a lady through mail.

8. They claim to be a business tycoon when they approach a lady

Some dudes will approach a lady for the first time and will start narrating when their containers will arrive at sea port; how they got employed in an Oil and Gas company. They do this to entice ladies who are out of their league to that she will not resist them. This is nothing but foolishness and will only degrade their value.

A thread of this nature will never me by... Since Oga Wristbangle has opened the floor, lemme follow his footstep


9. They use Buruntashi/Joystick Enhancer

I always shake my head in contempt each time I see guys patronizing Mallam for buruntashi and joystick enhancer just because they want to show to a lady that they cannot be joked with on the bed... After using these drugs, some of them will relegate and wave goodbye to the earth

10. They Borrow Boxers from friends to impress ladies

This reminds me when I used to borrow expensive boxers from friends when expecting a female visitor.. I'm glad I don that stage sha... Some dudes go as far as borrowing ridiculous things such as boxers so that when they want to bleep, they will flaunt the boxers to the lady just to show their high taste in fashion

hehehehe... wristbangle, which of them have you done?

come and lie now...

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now watch em guys avoid this post as though it's a disease carrier...: P

we have lot of them here..

even the op is typing at of experience







bangle! Am just kidding...

guys do des tins 2 get behind ladies panties....we will soon c d female version

typing from experience Master Bangle??

Funny post.

Lmao, @ business Tycoon.. •

nice post.

front page straight

Guy wey go borrow money to impress one mumu girl should be killed and buried

mhizenugu:
Lmao, @ business Tycoon.. •

Lol, seems a lot of guys have done this for you, right?

obiorathesubtle:
typing from experience Master Bangle??

Yes boss

agarawu23:
Guy wey go borrow money to impress one mumu girl should be killed and buried

. Bros, them still plenty 4 town oo.

PushPlay:
Funny post.

Lol, really! Never knew it's that funny

agarawu23:
Guy wey go borrow money to impress one mumu girl should be killed and buried

GBAMMMMM

Rent car to impress a lady.

wristbangle:

Lol, seems a lot of guys have done this for you, right?

Lol, sum lyk that,. Trust naija guys na ¤

I bet, only guys with low self esteem fall victim to "devaluation countdowns" as this

chyking a fine random babe, becomes a Big Deal, when you choose to make it One Biiiiiig Hell of A Deal

I gave one babe my salary once to impress her

oya make I kuku book space in case it make FP

at least the guys get laid

I Olusanya hereby decree life imprisonment for all guilty as charged for crime against common sense.

falconey:
I gave one babe my salary once to impress her

so wetyn we fit call u now*

waiting for a counter thread

They give her their mother phone number

falconey:
I gave one babe my salary once to impress her

awah la moooh

The guy list wey we dey see this days eh

tosyne2much:
A thread of this nature will never me by... Since Oga Wristbangle has opened the floor, lemme follow his footstep


9. They use Buruntashi/Joystick Enhancer

I always shake my head in contempt each time I see guys patronizing Mallam for buruntashi and joystick enhancer just because they want to show to a lady that they cannot be joked with on the bed... After using these drugs, some of them will relegate and wave goodbye to the earth

10. They Borrow Boxers from friends to impress ladies

This reminds me when I used to borrow expensive boxers from friends when expecting a female visitor.. I'm glad I don that stage sha... Some dudes go as far as borrowing ridiculous things such as boxers so that when they want to bleep, they will flaunt the boxers to the lady just to show their high taste in fashion

I know say you go make am reach 10.

I doubt if any guy in this 21st century does this

Olusanya333:
so wetyn we fit call u now*

The true lover

wristbangle:


. Bros, them still plenty 4 town oo.

I need them for my shrine ASAP

Some quarel with their family n even sale family asset just to.....