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Attraction is the primal and basic
force in all relationship. If you’re
wife is dominating you and
nagging you then you have an
attraction problem. A mentally
healthy woman resents his
husband if she is able to dominate him through her nagging.
She will
To my fellow men, let’s not over
complicate things. If your wife is
nagging you 24 x 7 it means that
she is no longer attracted to you.
Plain and simple. The good news
is that you can bring back that
not respect you much more be
attracted to you if you don’t
eloquently handle her nagging.
this, a woman
considers a man’s faults and
infirmities as “cute” if she is ultra
attracted to him. That is why
people says “love is blind”.
The
reality is, it is ATTRACTION that
makes her overlook your faults.
The only thing that matters is how
badly does she want to have sex
with you. So first things first, your
goal is to make her ultra attracted
to you. It is useless to talk about
“love” and communication which
are on the top of the relationship
pyramid that every couples should
strive for at a later stage. But until
you have attraction problems you
need to focus on the basics first.
So let’s get it on!
1. Change how you see your
wife’s nagging. Realize that your
wife is feeling hurt, not anger.
Anger is a secondary emotion that
comes out when we are hurt. You
see the anger but you miss the
hurt. Because she is hurt she is
subconsciously “testing” you that
you are a strong, dominant man
who can protect her and make her
feel secured so she will not feel
pain. But because her attractionon
you is going down, you’ve noticed
that these dominance “tests” gets
worst everyday to the point that
she is screaming in her
subconscious… PROVE TO ME
THAT YOU ARE A MAN WHO
CAN PROTECT ME!
2. Be the rock she can build her
life and children’s future on. Be
emotionally stronger.
Be
emotionally in control. Once you
realize that your woman is hurt,
scared or insecure, you will also
realize that her nagging is not
against your person. She is testing
you, to confirm that you are her
“rock”. Do not go to a “defensive”
mode. You need to intentionally
refuse to be angry at her. Refuse
to argue and shout at her.
Even
you yourself feel tired, upset and
somewhat angry; you need to
control your emotion. Think about
James Bond. Emotional control is
the hallmark of a man who is the
king of his world, a man who is in
charge whom women are
attracted to.
3. Do NOT REACT, instead LEAD
her emotions. By changing your
perception on your wife’s nagging
and by being emotionally in
control… now you can LEAD her
emotions to what you want it to be.
You as the man should
INFLUENCE her emotions and not
your wife influence you.
If she is
upset, don’t be upset instead be
calm. If she feels hurt and scared,
don’t show that you are hurt;
provide protection and the feeling
of security. Why? Because YOU
ARE THE MAN. You are in charge
of everything in the relationship. If
you don’t take on this responsibility
she will, and that won’t lead to a
happy marriage. Bad for you, bad
for her.
4. Be DOMINANT and PLAYFUL.
In order to lead her emotion, you
should balance these two. Too
much dominance to the point of
being inconsiderate is bad. Being
playful or funny to the point of
being a clown won’t earn you
respect. But without these two,
you will not be able to stop your
wife’s nagging.
So if she starts
bitching, you see it as it is… it’s
just a test of how you will showto
her that you are dominant, that
you will be able to protect her, to
make her safe and ultimately to
make her Hot. You basically
LEAD her emotions by neutralizing
her bitching through your
dominance and you stir her
emotions by being playful in a
sexual way.
5. Set healthy boundaries and
enforce them. Boundaries are
basically things other people might
do to you that you will not tolerate.
“No, I will not let you do that shit to
me”, “Do not raise your voice at
me”.
These are examples of
boundaries that you enforce on
people you interact with. Thereby
you train other people (most
especially your wife) on how to
treat you.
6. Be a man of action. Talk kills
attraction. To be exact, “all talk
and no action kills attraction”. Don’t
be fooled that good
communication is “the” key to a
good relationship. Even the best
constructed, well mannered,
psychologically good reply to a
nagging wife is useless if you don’t
have ACTION! The more you
argue the lesser she is attractedto
you.
The more you make promises
you can’t keep, the lesser she is
attracted to you. Starting today you
should strive to be A MAN OF
ACTION. Example: if she steps
over one of your boundaries after
warning her that you will go outof
the house for an hour if she
continue violating your boundary…
you make sure that you actually
DO it! You go out of the house if
she continues to violate your
boundary! Take action, don’t just
talk and talk. Don’t bluff, don’t lie,
don’t apologize (unless you really
are dead wrong like Hitler), you
are the King of your marriage.
7. Be the best that you can be. If
you have real issues like
alcoholism, addiction, laziness and
other self destructive and
unproductive behavior, then you
need to work on those first. Don’t
fool yourself that you can
someday stop your wife from
nagging you if you are a bum.
Now if you don’t have those
issues, then good for you, you
have lesser work to do. Learn the
right attitude, skills and behaviors
that you need to become an
attractive man for your wife. It all
boils down in being a better
person each and every day and
staying there no matter what your
wife throws at you.
In order to stop
your wife from nagging and
bitching you, you should come
from a place of POWER. Poweris
sexy. And that power can be
attained by improving yourself on
all areas of life. She will notice
that, she will feel that and she will
be ATTRACTED to that power
which you have. Soon you will
notice less nagging and more sex.
But realize that she will never stop
testing every once in a while just
to check if you are still the strong
man.
cc lalasticlala

I don't think it is possible to stop a woman from nagging. So I didn't read the post

Op you're actually nagging too. This ur thread long my mama nagging.

Mchew

Cutehector:
Mchew

smh

f

thesicilian:
I don't think it is possible to stop a woman from nagging.
So I didn't read the post

LOL try and read it, it will help u

Lordsamurai, please, separate your paragraphs clearly to make the piece beautiful for the eyes. You can indent the paragraphs or leave a space after every paragraph.

.

Copy and paste gone wrong

folksync:
Lordsamurai, please, separate your paragraphs clearly to make the piece beautiful for the eyes. You can indent the paragraphs or leave a space after every paragraph.

OK SIR

The OP is actually nagging

Too long

fellowship:
HMMM nice epistle @op i actually learnt a lot, lemme help u call lalasticlala and mynd44

hehehe thanks oga

Synzu:
Copy and paste gone wrong

and I was thinking it was only me

OP put the source

misspicy:
and I was thinking it was only me

OP put the source

there is no source, its my own copy

@Op sharap for writing nonsense

misspicy:
and I was thinking it was only me

OP put the source

The dude put his name behind the article, he already plagiarised it

misspicy:

and I was thinking it was only me
OP put the source

LORDSAMURAI:
there is no source, its my own copy

Lemmie help you

www.ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1128025


Pathological LIAR!

Synzu:




Lemmie help you

www.ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1128025


Pathological LIAR!

read in between the lines. its still my original copy, there are things u obviously dnt know abt me.

Synzu:


The dude put his name behind the article, he already plagiarised it

absolutely hilarious


been looking for a meme to depict this fuckery_

Synzu:



Lemmie help you
www.ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1128025

Pathological LIAR!

huh?
knew it,his brain cannot possibility string two lines of coherent words
Hi5

misspicy:
absolutely hilarious

been looking for a meme to depict this fuckery_

misspicy:

huh?

knew it,his brain cannot possibility string two lines of coherent words

Hi5

You seem to know this cretinous fccktard too well

LORDSAMURAI:
read in between the lines. its still my original copy, there are things u obviously dnt know abt me.

I know for a fact that you can't string two intelligent words together

Synzu:




You seem to know this cretinous fccktard too well

you bet

right from his days as Sweetorgasm,his style of trolling is unique(lies). I dare say I prefer mrcork's

i feel u bro..a

Mtcheew...

As if i get time to sit down dey listen to one woman wahala when i dey busy dey think of how to make money.

LORDSAMURAI:
Attraction is the primal and basic
force in all relationship. If you’re
wife is dominating you and
nagging you then you have an
attraction problem. A mentally
healthy woman resents his
husband if she is able to dominate him through her nagging.
She will
To my fellow men, let’s not over
complicate things. If your wife is
nagging you 24 x 7 it means that
she is no longer attracted to you.
Plain and simple. The good news
is that you can bring back that
not respect you much more be
attracted to you if you don’t
eloquently handle her nagging.
this, a woman
considers a man’s faults and
infirmities as “cute” if she is ultra
attracted to him. That is why
people says “love is blind”.
The
reality is, it is ATTRACTION that
makes her overlook your faults.
The only thing that matters is how
badly does she want to have sex
with you. So first things first, your
goal is to make her ultra attracted
to you. It is useless to talk about
“love” and communication which
are on the top of the relationship
pyramid that every couples should
strive for at a later stage. But until
you have attraction problems you
need to focus on the basics first.
So let’s get it on!
1. Change how you see your
wife’s nagging. Realize that your
wife is feeling hurt, not anger.
Anger is a secondary emotion that
comes out when we are hurt. You
see the anger but you miss the
hurt. Because she is hurt she is
subconsciously “testing” you that
you are a strong, dominant man
who can protect her and make her
feel secured so she will not feel
pain. But because her attractionon
you is going down, you’ve noticed
that these dominance “tests” gets
worst everyday to the point that
she is screaming in her
subconscious… PROVE TO ME
THAT YOU ARE A MAN WHO
CAN PROTECT ME!
2. Be the rock she can build her
life and children’s future on. Be
emotionally stronger.
Be
emotionally in control. Once you
realize that your woman is hurt,
scared or insecure, you will also
realize that her nagging is not
against your person. She is testing
you, to confirm that you are her
“rock”. Do not go to a “defensive”
mode. You need to intentionally
refuse to be angry at her. Refuse
to argue and shout at her.
Even
you yourself feel tired, upset and
somewhat angry; you need to
control your emotion. Think about
James Bond. Emotional control is
the hallmark of a man who is the
king of his world, a man who is in
charge whom women are
attracted to.
3. Do NOT REACT, instead LEAD
her emotions. By changing your
perception on your wife’s nagging
and by being emotionally in
control… now you can LEAD her
emotions to what you want it to be.
You as the man should
INFLUENCE her emotions and not
your wife influence you.
If she is
upset, don’t be upset instead be
calm. If she feels hurt and scared,
don’t show that you are hurt;
provide protection and the feeling
of security. Why? Because YOU
ARE THE MAN. You are in charge
of everything in the relationship. If
you don’t take on this responsibility
she will, and that won’t lead to a
happy marriage. Bad for you, bad
for her.
4. Be DOMINANT and PLAYFUL.
In order to lead her emotion, you
should balance these two. Too
much dominance to the point of
being inconsiderate is bad. Being
playful or funny to the point of
being a clown won’t earn you
respect. But without these two,
you will not be able to stop your
wife’s nagging.
So if she starts
bitching, you see it as it is… it’s
just a test of how you will showto
her that you are dominant, that
you will be able to protect her, to
make her safe and ultimately to
make her Hot. You basically
LEAD her emotions by neutralizing
her bitching through your
dominance and you stir her
emotions by being playful in a
sexual way.
5. Set healthy boundaries and
enforce them. Boundaries are
basically things other people might
do to you that you will not tolerate.
“No, I will not let you do that shit to
me”, “Do not raise your voice at
me”.
These are examples of
boundaries that you enforce on
people you interact with. Thereby
you train other people (most
especially your wife) on how to
treat you.
6. Be a man of action. Talk kills
attraction. To be exact, “all talk
and no action kills attraction”. Don’t
be fooled that good
communication is “the” key to a
good relationship. Even the best
constructed, well mannered,
psychologically good reply to a
nagging wife is useless if you don’t
have ACTION! The more you
argue the lesser she is attractedto
you.
The more you make promises
you can’t keep, the lesser she is
attracted to you. Starting today you
should strive to be A MAN OF
ACTION. Example: if she steps
over one of your boundaries after
warning her that you will go outof
the house for an hour if she
continue violating your boundary…
you make sure that you actually
DO it! You go out of the house if
she continues to violate your
boundary! Take action, don’t just
talk and talk. Don’t bluff, don’t lie,
don’t apologize (unless you really
are dead wrong like Hitler), you
are the King of your marriage.
7. Be the best that you can be. If
you have real issues like
alcoholism, addiction, laziness and
other self destructive and
unproductive behavior, then you
need to work on those first. Don’t
fool yourself that you can
someday stop your wife from
nagging you if you are a bum.
Now if you don’t have those
issues, then good for you, you
have lesser work to do. Learn the
right attitude, skills and behaviors
that you need to become an
attractive man for your wife. It all
boils down in being a better
person each and every day and
staying there no matter what your
wife throws at you.
In order to stop
your wife from nagging and
bitching you, you should come
from a place of POWER. Poweris
sexy. And that power can be
attained by improving yourself on
all areas of life. She will notice
that, she will feel that and she will
be ATTRACTED to that power
which you have. Soon you will
notice less nagging and more sex.
But realize that she will never stop
testing every once in a while just
to check if you are still the strong
man.
cc lalasticlala

PLAGIARISM!!!!
E-Theft Alert!!!

Why not credit the source where you copied it from.

Listen, friend, hand-written threads aren't a mandatory rule in nairaland.

Please get rid of this ugly compulsion of trying to ape others. You aren't cut out or designed by nature to bear heavy mental load.

You entertain us in your default clownish bearings, any strained effort in trying to come off as intelligent makes you look life Nairaland's chief bemedalled_idiot.

Sorry, I got carried away by my reprehension out of my love for you that I forgot to say thank you to the guys you stole their work from

http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1128025

Lezzlie:



PLAGIARISM!!!!
E-Theft Alert!!!

Why not credit the source where you copied it from.

Listen, friend, hand-written threads aren't a mandatory rule in nairaland.

Please get rid of this ugly compulsion of trying to ape others. You aren't cut out or designed by nature to bear heavy mental load.

You entertain us in your default clownish bearings, any strained effort in trying to come off as intelligent makes you look life Nairaland's chief bemedalled_idiot.

Sorry, I got carried away by my reprehension out of my love for you that I forgot to say thank you to the guys you stole their work from

http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1128025

its my copy dude

LORDSAMURAI:
its my copy dude

I didn't know you now write for CNN ireport!!!

Congratulations!!!