NewStats: 3,262,364 , 8,176,934 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 12:31 AM 3514m

Bro, if she has not changed by now, just ignore cos she may never adjust.

6am is late if you live in lagos and you work far away from your neighborhood. It is quite early in some other states.

As long as her lateness doesn't slow you down from heading out to work, you're good. Pray together at night.

JeffreyJamez:


Me thinks its early sef!....by 6am my sleep dey enter gear 5! ...and i resume work by 9am

...laziness!

netizenbuzz:
and this your question annoyed me sha. what is your business with when your wife wakes up? let me guess......so that she can attend to every of your needs early abi? And you think a virtuous woman should be up before 6:00am? If that is your definition of a virtuous woman then I think you are the problem not her. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is imminent. Is there a logical reason for her to be up before 6:00am? Like work? Or kids going to school? No? Then you have no point dear. That you can do it, or that other women can do it doesn't mean she should do it. She is not you and she is not them. And it does not mean she is not well-brought up. Leave her alone and stop trying to shape her into what you think is a virtuous woman. Is she hardworking, soft-spoken, God-fearing, decent, humble, etc...? Now that is what makes a virtuous woman. I always wondered why they sweep every morning in Nigerian homes when the house is clearly not dirty, I mean, you swept yesterday and even when something spilled, you swept it immediately. Why sweep a house that is not dirty just to create more chores for yourself? I was get a reply of it is how it is done or something along that line.....mtchew. I even thought you wanted to say she wakes up by 10:00am. mtchew!

See Ranting...
Marry this kind one put for house...na nagging everyday.

netizenbuzz:
and this your question annoyed me sha. what is your business with when your wife wakes up? let me guess......so that she can attend to every of your needs early abi? And you think a virtuous woman should be up before 6:00am? If that is your definition of a virtuous woman then I think you are the problem not her. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is imminent. Is there a logical reason for her to be up before 6:00am? Like work? Or kids going to school? No? Then you have no point dear. That you can do it, or that other women can do it doesn't mean she should do it. She is not you and she is not them. And it does not mean she is not well-brought up. Leave her alone and stop trying to shape her into what you think is a virtuous woman. Is she hardworking, soft-spoken, God-fearing, decent, humble, etc...? Now that is what makes a virtuous woman. I always wondered why they sweep every morning in Nigerian homes when the house is clearly not dirty, I mean, you swept yesterday and even when something spilled, you swept it immediately. Why sweep a house that is not dirty just to create more chores for yourself? I was get a reply of it is how it is done or something along that line.....mtchew. I even thought you wanted to say she wakes up by 10:00am. mtchew!

Summary of the whole ish .

tpiar:



The person you are referring to, who you saw or was told was doing this, is there any legally acceptable document proving you are married to this individual?


Because some people are married to or dating an individual in their head, and they come on the internet to insist they are in a relationship with someone who is physically unaware of their existence.

God bless u for this. Whenever guys tell me they are in a relationship,‎ I always ask them, is she aware or does she know?

Op hia wnts hz wyf 2 b lyk Nse Ikpe Etim in Mr. and Mrs. But criozly, sum men jxt lyk trouble..........

Nigeria men go make person fear marriage. Na wa, y do u wnt to impose ur way of life on her? Dis is d same my sister is doing n I hate it. Waking up by 3am to do wht kwa?

sevantex:
Is 6am particularly late for her?? Is there any special tin u want her to wake up early to do??. Pls allow her rest abeg, naija wahala too much so let d poor babe rest well.

Lmao...

Greetings to the house! Let me formally welcome myself to this great house
A virtues woman should at least wake up by 6am

Why do you wake up at 4am? you be thief?

sheilak:


I disagree

I know some families that leave chores for later

My type of family. Wake up, cook or not, eat, dress up for work and head for work

Which chores? Who is talking about chores here?

So, u don't even feed your kids b4 going to skul? I presume u don't cook what u give them to eat, u don't also prepare their luch pack aswell?

Do u know that d difference between 6am to 7.45 is 1hr45mins?

There is no way u are not going late for work or your kids are not going late for skul.

Assume the family doesn't have a car.

In your family, u must all be grown ups, and if u re married, den u don't have kids yet, u think preparing kids for skul is child's play. Skul run ain't easy.

Like I said, any day I wake up by 6am, I must be late, subtract 25-30 mins from 105mins, u have 75mins,(1hrs 15mins) who prepares breakfast,lunch, bath kids,clothe them and make sure they eat, take dem skul b4 going to work in 1hr15mins?

vybzkartel:



pray and do household chores

Oga.. i dont see how 6am is late for a humanto wakeup. Except you know theres somrthing you would be missing waking up that time. If she is a full house wife, then 6am is particularly fine! Studies show the 38 percent of women who sleep less than 7hrs a day grow fat!

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

What u shd do is Leave Her Alone!!!
How do u know she doesn't pray sef,are u her prayer messenger? Or are u a monitoring spirit

Some ppl sef

DrDauda:



Pour her cold water at d time u think is right for her to wake up. Thanks me later

Boy, are u normal?

.

@OP... buy 6 native fowl as pet, there is no how she won't wake when they crow by 5am except if she's possessed by spirit of Lassca( the spirit responsible for Sarah's late conception)

redcliff:


Oga.. i dont see how 6am is late for a humanto wakeup. Except you know theres somrthing you would be missing waking up that time. If she is a full house wife, then 6am is particularly fine! Studies show the 38 percent of women who sleep less than 7hrs a day grow fat!

did you just finish watching The Intern?

You are terrible!!!no be only 4:am . I wonder where you got your own definition of virtuous woman, I wonder what you would have done if sleep is actually for sale .

ladyF:

I don't even do major chores in the morning. Where is the time sef when you are rushing out? I'd rather work at night and be sure nothing is disturbing my sleep, it's not as if the sleep is even long.

Some people are selfish sha. She should wake up and be looking at his handsome face?

Lol...like you will be looking at my handsome face soon. Don't mind that man, awawi lasan lohun so. Let the kids be late, I would tell her to take them to school, by the time the heistress complain twice for late coming of the kids, no be me go dey complain say ladyF doesn't wake up early, na she go then wake me, " honey it's almost 6am ooo", I don wake since 4:15 dey prepare junior and tinuke food" .

Some things don't need trouble or unnecessary flogging. Solve them with common sense, that's how we know real men.

Mr. Advise seeker, you tactfully avoided mentioning what time your wife goes to bed to warrant waking up by 6am, which to me is not late if she's a stay at home mum/wife, who tends to the family all day long and probably doesnt get to nap during the day, and perhaps, not an early bird like me. This shouldn't have even appeared here, it's a minor issue you could have sorted out within the confine of your home. Geez!

sheilak:



I am the first of five children, I am a female and I have got four brothers

My mum was a teacher

I am not going to talk about my dad.



So there isn't anything you can tell that I don't know already: (. You can be set by 7:00 am if you do not have to cook foods like beans or do chores.

I don't live in Nigeria any longer however the logic still applies. But if you have to do chores, then you will have to wake up pretty early at 5 or 5:30

Babe abeg blow whistle, u don't preach wat u ve not practiced, anyone waking up by 7am in lagos has got no chores and probably ve a shop infront of his/her house....

Dear poster, what is wrong in waking up at 6am, you need to understand that your wife is different from you, where in the Bible did God tell you the exact time to pray, stop forcing your beleive on her pls, where the spirit of God is there is liberty(freedom), its good that you both pray together but when shes tired, leave her alone.A virtous woman knows how to sort her case with God, not wake up because her husband is awake, if she doesnt pray at all, dats a different case. we Christains are so used to procedures that we forget what God is saying in our situations, if you are spiritually inclined as you claim, then wait for the holy spirit to instruct you before you wake her up....thats why God told Isiah or so to stop following rules made by men..whatever thou findest in the Bible, apply it to your marriage..dazol

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

4am!!! Haba, she be BAT.. Better still, wake her up

menix:


Babe abeg blow whistle, u don't preach wat u ve not practiced, anyone waking up by 7am in lagos has got no chores and probably ve a shop infront of his/her house....

I didn't live in Lagos

Serves you peeps right

@op, I think waking up at 6am isn't too bad, especially if you have kids. Just learn to appreciate her for caring for the kids and doing chores. Also Let her know she deserves to rest.

sheilak:



I am the first of five children, I am a female and I have got four brothers

My mum was a teacher

I am not going to talk about my dad.



So there isn't anything you can tell that I don't know already: (. You can be set by 7:00 am if you do not have to cook foods like beans or do chores.

I don't live in Nigeria any longer however the logic still applies. But if you have to do chores, then you will have to wake up pretty early at 5 or 5:30

For advanced family or new family?

However don't use yourself as a yardstick to measure other people.

@least, your siblings can bath themselves,cloth themselves and even feed themselves.

Why don't you talk about your dad? Probably not in the picture of people to be taken care of in the morning like preparing his breakfast, but OP is around as a father.


For your info, I am the 2nd child of my family, 1st left for UK for akademikz @ 16yrs (she is married now). And anytime we wake up by 6am, everyone in d house must go late to skul or work. I now live alone, and same thing applies.


Did I tell u dat my mum was also a second skul principal?

chigoizie7:

Which chores? Who is talking about chores here?
So, u don't even feed your kids b4 going to skul? I presume u don't cook what u give them to eat, u don't also prepare their luch pack aswell?
Do u know that d difference between 6am to 7.45 is 1hr45mins?
There is no way u are not going late for work or your kids are not going late for skul.
Assume the family doesn't have a car.
In your family, u must all be grown ups, and if u re married, den u don't have kids yet, u think preparing kids for skul is child's play. Skul run ain't easy.
Like I said, any day I wake up by 6am, I must be late, subtract 25-30 mins from 105mins, u have 75mins,(1hrs 15mins) who prepares breakfast,lunch, bath kids,clothe them and make sure they eat, take dem skul b4 going to work in 1hr15mins?

you can actually do all that in 1hr 15 minutes. it's called planning and multi tasking. and child spacing helps A LOT. if you have 4 years between kids, by the time younger one is old enough for school, egbon would be about 7 or 8. I have cousins that age and they do basic things themselves.

What are you making for breakfast, are you cooking ogbono from scratch that you can't rustle something up in 15 minutes...Not packing any lunch, they'll eat lunch at school, it's part of the fees.


I do my chores at night, so i can sleep well through the night let nobody come and tell me virtuous woman, so i should wake up 4AM.

it's like i'm going to add this to questions to ask future bae, i cannot go and enter one chance.

Look at all the work you listed that she has to do by herself and still go to work, like they're not your kids too. It doesn't matter if she gets back from work at 7, goes straight to making dinner, does house chores and prepare kids uniform, perform conjugal duties at the end of the day go to bed at 12 midnight, and then wake up 4AM.... because Proverbs 31.

Op you are still a kid if up till now you've not clearly understood ur wife. Just because she wakes up by 6am bcoms an issue for you. Virtuous is woman is what you want, may i ask you, are you a perfect man? C'mon, nobody is perfect. If she's not doing it right, accommodate and correct her with respect and love.

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

I can't deal, just can't. Where do you guys appear from? 6 am is too late for her to wake up. Hmm, you conveniently avoid saying what her day is like and when she goes to bed but you say she is not a virtuous woman. SMH!!!!

chigoizie7:





For advanced family or new family?

However don't use yourself as a yardstick to measure other people.

@least, your siblings can bath themselves,cloth themselves and even feed themselves.

Why don't you talk about your dad? Probably not in the picture of people to be taken care of in the morning like preparing his breakfast, but OP is around as a father.


For your info, I am the 2nd child of my family, 1st left for UK for akademikz @ 16yrs (she is married now). And anytime we wake up by 6am, everyone in d house must go late to skul or work. I now live alone, and same thing applies.


Did I tell u dat my mum was also a second skul principal?

Nope


Those days were usually days we have our baths before going to bed.

Wake up
Pray
Cook- (rice takes about 18-20mins)/dress up
Eat

blessedfavoured:


you can actually do all that in 1hr 15 minutes. it's called planning and multi tasking. and child spacing helps A LOT. if you have 4 years between kids, by the time younger one is old enough for school, egbon would be about 7 or 8. I have cousins that age and they do basic things themselves.

What are you making for breakfast, are you cooking ogbono from scratch that you can't rustle something up in 15 minutes...Not packing any lunch, they'll eat lunch at school, it's part of the fees.


I do my chores at night, so i can sleep well through the night let nobody come and tell me virtuous woman, so i should wake up 4AM.

it's like i'm going to add this to questions to ask future bae, i cannot go and enter one chance.

Look at all the work you listed that she has to do by herself and still go to work, like they're not your kids too. It doesn't matter if she gets back from work at 7, goes straight to making dinner, does house chores and prepare kids uniform, perform conjugal duties at the end of the day go to bed at 12 midnight, and then wake up 4AM.... because Proverbs 31.

Choi, u see wetin u cause now, I don mistakenly throw my phone on d floor while laffing and d screen don break.


Ur comments are funny, some elements of truth in it.


Oya bring money make I go repair my phone. because na ur funny coment cause am.