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What are you most afraid of when you just start a new relationship? as for me the first feeling is that God I hope he's not a player. the next thing is rejection, I had rather dump a guy before he dump me.

@ Poster
You are simply insecure . . . , low self esteem.


what do I fear in a relationship? cant think of any.

If he's a pretender

i enter my every relationship with an open mind, if it works good if not good.

That i would be bored. . .

. . .and i get bored easily

noetic2:

@ Poster
You are simply insecure . . . , low self esteem.

what do I fear in a relationship? cant think of any.

nope I totally disagree everyone have that certain fear in a relationship it has nothing to do with self esteem

When i was 1st introduced to the system (stil immature), my fears was that it fails. Always wished it'll last 4eva!
Now i'm older and a bit matured, and i don't see any fear drivin me, I go in2 it wit de philosophy dat 'it either works or fails: either of it is bound to happen'. So, all i do is enjoy it while it lasts.

If she very cute and good too,my fear is that ' i'll break her heart' ,but if she aint fine,my fear is 'what would people say? '

d initial lies,

iice:

That i would be bored. . .

. . .and i get bored easily

Ditto

tiniyata:

If she very cute and good too,my fear is that ' i'll break her heart' ,but if she aint fine,my fear is 'what would people say? '

Silly!

@ezinne,what have i done ?

tiniyata:

If she very cute and good too,my fear is that ' i'll break her heart' ,but if she aint fine,my fear is 'what would people say? '

lol that is really silly but funny and true most guys do fear that

my independence. . .

I'm my own person, I like to do what I have to do, but under no obligation. . . (This is the first ever relationship though.)


Generally, I think the fear is that of what if? but I say, why worry abt something that hasnt happened?

D guy turning out 2 be d opposite of wat i expected.

i fear he is not going to look after me the way i want - and is going to turn out to be just like every other w*nker i have ever trusted

Am always afraid of break-ups. Cos i know luv fades away.

that 2 days after, I find out that he has this steady babe that everyone except me knows about! but i try not to let the fear bother me too much. if it works out, it does. if it doesnt, it doesnt! dem no de die put

enmwata:

that 2 days after, I find out that he has this steady babe that everyone except me knows about! but i try not to let the fear bother me too much. if it works out, it does. if it doesnt, it doesnt! dem no de die put

lolololololol!!!!! honestly that one na storrrrrrrrrry!

mine is how soon is it gonna end, guess isn't gonna end up in a disaster.

ummm that i dont get dissapointed? or bored or both

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If she is 2 cute, wil b scared being mugu 2, ie if i get d second position.

That she is thinking about 'for life' when I'm only thinking as far as 'whatz up tonite'

sexyLeamon:

What are you most afraid of when you just start a new relationship? as for me the first feeling is that God I hope he's not a player. the next thing is rejection, I had rather dump a guy before he dump me.

mine is, i hope she is not a gold digger, next is being dumped, i rather dump the girl b4 she dump me. . . . . . .what? we actually have something in common

having to compromise my freedom. eg having to explain why I did not call or didnt pick phone calls

nothing really I go in free minded

Increasingly. . . The "M" word. I simply dislike it when a girl brings that up within days of knowing u - its just soooo off-putting!

wbb

i use to be afraid but now, i don't care cuz i have out if you are afriad of something,it turns out to be what you are afraid of is what happens.talk about whatever a man thinketh so is he.

whitelexi:

Increasingly. . . The "M" word. I simply dislike it when a girl brings that up within days of knowing u - its just soooo off-putting!

Lies and exaggerations!

whitelexi:

Increasingly. . . The "M" word. I simply dislike it when a girl brings that up within days of knowing u - its just soooo off-putting!

money u mean

GEW:

wbb

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