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Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.

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End time relationship

boring relationship

You both could make it work if you really want to. My piece

Mchew... This is the reason why i insists ladies are very confused

make d two of una seat each orda down and discuss dis mata
if not .....

He must be mel-phleg and perhaps u too. Well I'm not married but one thing I've noticed is that many people don't knw abt themselves and I've noticed that introverts knw abt themselves more than the extros, perhaps bcus they have more developed brain cells.

My advice is if u can't see a psychologist, then read more abt personality temperament of d opposite sex and advice him to read abt u later too especially after u've read and understood him so well. I won't say u shd see a pastor cuz no matter how u pray it doesn't change his person except ure d extreme xtain, then d holy sprt can refine ur personality-not change it

U also need to consider d weakness of extros wch u say u like, they may not be able to give u dat very close n intimate attention u desire cus of their loud nature and they're every ladies' men. As for ur guy, u shd knw he must have had some brutality in his growing stage for him to have such a nature so do what will boost his battered psychy/ego, don't compare urself with other ladies. Funny enough, respect from a woman for him may be best defined by kneeling b4 him but he might nt be able to tell u cus u would think afterall many women don't do that in this modern age.

Just stick with him for a while,

He might just turn out being an extrovert pretending to be an introvert to impress you,

I still few years back when i was enrolled at a secondary newly,
I pretended to be shy, didn't talk much, didn't get into fights,
After a few months in school, after i had made a few friends,

I started showing them my true colours

U guys can handle it, if U really wanna

I'm an ambivert... Both intro and extroverted.
U guys should find common things u guys like, books, games, argument topics - philosophy, politics and etc movies... And thrive on 'em to bond more

Get outta ur fvcking shell! u guys should task urselves to do something new... Maybe visit a cinema or park with time, u'd get used to it

U guys should go all crazy in the house!!! When home alone, pillow fights, cook 2geda, sex on the kitchen floor

When u're out, maybe do an analysis of everyting u see! 'Hey babe, see that nigga's head like a watermelon' hahahah.... Just yab ppl and say crap.. A lil' alchohol too.. U guys 'll go haywire

Make ur indoors ur outdoor, intellectially stimulate each other... Puzzles riddles quests adventures

Basically, u guys should get extroverted with each other, let others see u guys as introverted, buh u guys are extroverted insider each others mind


Life's too short!

he will definitely come over it.....
he is a man..... and he has to stand out for the both of you.......
how did he toast you sef..... not even my business

If you love him that much, stick with him

Oya shake it.. Took your mama 9 months to make it!!

theMusicNerd:
U guys can handle it, if U really wanna

I'm an ambivert... Both intro and extroverted.
U guys should find common things u guys like, books, games, argument topics - philosophy, politics and etc movies... And thrive on 'em to bond more

Get outta ur fvcking shell! u guys should task urselves to do something new... Maybe visit a cinema or park with time, u'd get used to it

U guys should go all crazy in the house!!! When home alone, pillow fights, cook 2geda, sex on the kitchen floor

When u're out, maybe do an analysis of everyting u see! 'Hey babe, see that nigga's head like a watermelon' hahahah.... Just yab ppl and say crap.. A lil' alchohol too.. U guys 'll go haywire

Make ur indoors ur outdoor, intellectially stimulate each other... Puzzles riddles quests adventures

Basically, u guys should get extroverted with each other, let others see u guys as introverted, buh u guys are extroverted insider each others mind


Life's too short!

we are much more than these when we are together, I luv 'us' but d problem is the way we are to other people. I mean being shy

Shortyy:
If you love him that much, stick with him

Yup dat says it all...... The long and short of it all

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aly123:
we are much more than these when we are together, I luv 'us' but d problem is the way we are to other people. I mean being shy

Then u don't have a problem, as long as u guys are mad with each other..

Btw, psychologically, shyness has been linked with an inferiority complex

Two introverts dating...

Woman: Life has become meaningless. Nothing seems to be working. No money, no friends, no family. What's the point in living?

Man: Yea, life is meaningless. Let's die.

Woman: Nice idea, I think we should just die.




Hey, y'all should stop quoting me. I'm allowed to have fun. I haven't made any assertion, neither did I mention names. Defendants of the Universe! Lol.

Being an introvert is one.
Being outspoken and courageous is another.

I am an introvert but also voice out my opinion when the need arises without fear or favour.

Anyway, I'll just tell you to keep faith and hope he turns extrovert...


But such waits can be like waiting for bubu to make N1 = $1

let's ask the expert on introvert matters....
Madam Introvert where are u?ur expertise is needed here.

Hh

Dear op, marriage is more than that

If is he a good guy, please no waste time or else don't come here again crying and disturbing nairalanders with ur headache after marrying someone else who is an extrovert

Baby mi, oko wonlode (husband dey scarce)

Yes yu can but to make it sweet ehn,always prepare your breakfast with IBADAN WEED.

Introvert your attention is needed here you can bring extrovert along when coming.

PushMusic:
Being an introvert is one.
Being outspoken and courageous is another.

I am an introvert but also voice out my opinion when the need arises without fear or favour.

This.

I'm sorry bt no. If u r an introvert as a guy, marry wife wey go get small craze bt dn't let her be husband over you. If she wanna tres, take ur cue from extroverts. When normalcy returns, go bk to your normal self.

If u r an introvert as a lady, marry an extrovert. Ur relationship will be boring if you both are introverts.

Introverts are boring#facts.

Hmmmmm

Why not?

You can marry but expect a boring marriage