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the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.

d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no , no trace.
frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions

the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act


lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp

Because your uncle's Igbo girlfriend acted in a particular manner, doesn't mean that all Igbo girls act in that manner.
The behavior of a person or few set of persons from a particular tribe should never be used to define that tribe.

What your uncle's wife did can and has also been done by other ladies from other tribes.

It all boils down to the girl's personality and character, and not her tribe or ethnicity.

Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

So.. Becohz and omo igbo ran away from your h'uncle.. You think all the H'igbos are like daht abi?
Smh.

because mixed children ar always intelligent nd cute... So, igbos like claiming dem.

nigport:
Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

4hys:
the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.

d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no , no trace.
frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions

the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act


lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp

From what you two wrote, its obvious that the our non-Igbo inlaws never paid the bride price to the families of their Igbo fiance's and in Igbo culture they are seen as credit/back door inlaws and don't have a right of ownernish over any child thier lustful cohabitation produced.


Even in court, it's the mother of the child that has custody of the child up to a legal age where he or she is to decide who to live with. While the father is duty bound to provide all financial needed.


Over the years we have seen our distant cousins in mainly yoruba land being ridiculed for having come from an Igbo mother. We can't let such happen again.


Make una uncle them ready to pay bride price for Igbo girls they want to marry and stop thinking they can use pregnancy and child birth to keep our daughters hostage while they jump again to marry a girl from their own tribe.

proudly Igbo .no time for dulling

4hys:
the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.

d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no , no trace.
frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions

the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act


lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp

Did i hear u say igbo girls pls jst say some girls and dnt attach any tribe to it
thanks

PROUDLY IGBO

nigport:
Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

I just hope your hatred for them won't make You miss so many good opportunities ...

#notoTRIBALISM

Omo Ijebu ni mi o
Hoping to marry Igbo girl
With their beauty, intelligence & always go straight to the point
Unlike (many not all) naughty pretender Yooba girl dat u must UnCloth all the time,
Even when she's enjoying it, she hide it as if Na virgin Maria
So strict on bed in order to claim rape
Go to court & see them starving their husband yet still cheating on him

try one igbo girl, u know tht relationship is more than beauty

Donald7610:
Omo Ijebu ni mi o
Hoping to marry Igbo girl
With their beauty, intelligence & always go straight to the point
Unlike (many not all) naughty pretender Yooba girl dat u must UnCloth all the time,
Even when she's enjoying it, she hide it as if Na virgin Maria
So strict on bed in order to claim rape
Go to court & see them starving their husband yet still cheating on him

I don't even understand the op's point

Petty lies#proudly igbo

The Oups should stop hating a particular tribe just because of what a Sisi had done to his uncle,He should know that for all tribes around the world"even those@kibuki Land" their must be the good ones and bad ones.Gyarbonka Shaka lalaala.
Proudly African.

Bubewilson:


From what you two wrote, its obvious that the our non-Igbo inlaws never paid the bride price to the families of their Igbo fiance's and in Igbo culture they are seen as credit/back door inlaws and don't have a right of ownernish over any child thier lustful cohabitation produced.


Even in court, it's the mother of the child that has custody of the child up to a legal age where he or she is to decide who to live with. While the father is duty bound to provide all financial needed.


Over the years we have seen our distant cousins in mainly yoruba land being ridiculed for having come from an Igbo mother. We can't let such happen again.


Make una uncle them ready to pay bride price for Igbo girls they want to marry and stop thinking they can use pregnancy and child birth to keep our daughters hostage while they jump again to marry a girl from their own tribe.

Gbam! Tell them.

what are you saying? do u mean igbo guys do get married to any girl they pregnant? this is very funny, you people claim to be wise, your boys do have children with more than one woman, how many times mothers to the children has ran with ur kid. hrtless people

Bubewilson:


From what you two wrote, its obvious that the our non-Igbo inlaws never paid the bride price to the families of their Igbo fiance's and in Igbo culture they are seen as credit/back door inlaws and don't have a right of ownernish over any child thier lustful cohabitation produced.


Even in court, it's the mother of the child that has custody of the child up to a legal age where he or she is to decide who to live with. While the father is duty bound to provide all financial needed.


Over the years we have seen our distant cousins in mainly yoruba land being ridiculed for having come from an Igbo mother. We can't let such happen again.


Make una uncle them ready to pay bride price for Igbo girls they want to marry and stop thinking they can use pregnancy and child birth to keep our daughters hostage while they jump again to marry a girl from their own tribe.

nonsense lifestyle they portray, u do it to others, but wen it happens to you customs and tradition. endtime igbo girls

Tribalism is cancerous. say no to racism.

nigport:
Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

You hate them, yet your people/tribe prefer the Igbo girls; something must be terrible with your tribes's girls

there is nothing like prefer, nigerians do inter marry, have kids and if relationship dont work out again they understand themselves but in the case of igbos, they will run with the kids. this not really fair at all. u guys should change their mentality. life is more than that now

emekachimek:

You hate them, yet your people/tribe prefer the Igbo girls; something must be terrible with your tribes's girls

Gbam! Well said/typed

Bubewilson:


From what you two wrote, its obvious that the our non-Igbo inlaws never paid the bride price to the families of their Igbo fiance's and in Igbo culture they are seen as credit/back door inlaws and don't have a right of ownernish over any child thier lustful cohabitation produced.


Even in court, it's the mother of the child that has custody of the child up to a legal age where he or she is to decide who to live with. While the father is duty bound to provide all financial needed.


Over the years we have seen our distant cousins in mainly yoruba land being ridiculed for having come from an Igbo mother. We can't let such happen again.


Make una uncle them ready to pay bride price for Igbo girls they want to marry and stop thinking they can use pregnancy and child birth to keep our daughters hostage while they jump again to marry a girl from their own tribe.

You guys r ridiculous, u don't want the mother buh u want the child. Too dumb :/
The child can neva belong to the man 'cos bride price wasn't paid.

4hys:
the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.

d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no , no trace.
frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions

the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act


lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp

and this can't make fp cos it tribalism!

From your report, your uncle;

1. dated her
2. planned to marry her
3. conflict arose
4. the dating produced a child out of wedlock

In Igbo tradition, a man does not own a child unless he has paid the mother's dowry.

Your uncle played an away match and there is nothing Igbo woman attitude in this. If your uncle wants the baby, the woman will have to agree first to your story of dating. The bride price should be paid. Or is she your uncle's child producing factory.

But wait ooo, the child may return to your uncle in his adult age if he thinks he has something for him.

Make your uncle pay dowry simple

op uncle's dnt deserve that bro, do u mean igbo guys dnt have kids out of wedlock? bias

Chikerenwa:
From your report, your uncle;

1. dated her
2. planned to marry her
3. conflict arose
4. the dating produced a child out of wedlock

In Igbo tradition, a man does not own a child unless he has paid the mother's dowry.

Your uncle played an away match and there is nothing Igbo woman attitude in this. If your uncle wants the baby, the woman will have to agree first to your story of dating. The bride price should be paid. Or is she your uncle's child producing factory.

But wait ooo, the child may return to your uncle in his adult age if he thinks he has something for him.

Hygist:
there is nothing like prefer, nigerians do inter marry, have kids and if relationship dont work out again they understand themselves but in the case of igbos, they will run with the kids. this not really fair at all. u guys should change their mentality. life is more than that now

Why are you still weeping? if your girls were better, why have something to do with an Igbo girl for a relationship

Hygist:
op uncle's dnt deserve that bro, do u mean igbo guys dnt have kids out of wedlock? bias

Stop wailing bro, do the traditional rites and take your wife home. You think she can lose on both sides? You get her pregnant and not marry her, and you take the baby away? Igbos are always a step ahead. We don't care about your hatred for us. Our tradition guides us. I repeat! Pay your dues and take what belongs to you.

Because IGBO LADIES are not Bushmeats.
IGBOS cherish bride price.
IGBOS don't practice Point and Kill.
Am sorry, I can't have such an Uncle around me.
Because my daughters can't be safe around such a man.

Some tribes treat WOMEN like rags, the IGBOS don't condone such.
The pride of every IGBO MAN is his investments which includes his WIFE.
Pls. Don't be ashamed..... Can we know your tribe..?
Because I will never allow my Daughter to be treated like a Bushmeat..

U should be ashamed of yourself and Kindred , for putting up such a derogatory and appalling write up especially this festive season. Anyway

Merry Xmas

the truth is always bitter

emekachimek:

Why are you still weeping? if your girls were better, why have something to do with an Igbo girl for a relationship

am an Ijaw man from Rivers

EVILFOREST:
Because IGBO LADIES are not Bushmeats.
IGBOS cherish bride price.
IGBOS don't practice Point and Kill.
Am sorry, I can't have such an Uncle around me.
Because my daughters can't be safe around such a man.

Some tribes treat WOMEN like rags, the IGBOS don't condone such.
The pride of every IGBO MAN is his investments which includes his WIFE.
Pls. Don't be ashamed..... Can we know your tribe..?
Because I will never allow my Daughter to be treated like a Bushmeats..

Hygist:
op uncle's dnt deserve that bro, do u mean igbo guys dnt have kids out of wedlock? bias

@Hygist, the Igbo tradition is not partial. In Igboland, you are warned to be careful and prayerful too, that your wife out of wedlock does not die in your hand before the bride price is paid. Whatever number of children you have belong to your "wife" and her people if the bride price is not paid and if they so want it. Speak for yourself and not your unknown uncle.

before you talk about a peoples culture, do some research on them.