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Does A Man Need More Than One Wife? (10517 Views)

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Odeku(m): 3:02pm On Oct 26, 2005
Do believe a man need more than one wife? In fairness to all the women out there, I don't think a man needs more than one wife. This are my opinion. Now what do you people think?
layi(m): 3:28pm On Oct 26, 2005
Not only in fairness to women but also to d men. Its a burden marryin more than 1 wife (even if u hav the money).

However as a man if u want to marry more than 1 wife, be selfless enough to allow your wife to marry as many husbands too. They are humans as well. U don't own her. She was made to help u not serve u.

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Odeku(m): 3:40pm On Oct 26, 2005
Do you think a Nigerian or African man will allow his wife to <snip> marry another man? No way Oga.
Scorpio(f): 4:05pm On Oct 26, 2005
More women, more trouble
nddy(m): 4:11pm On Oct 26, 2005
i personally need more than a wife
fabian(f): 4:12pm On Oct 26, 2005
As you men say,
1 wife, 1 trouble
More wives, more trouble!
nddy(m): 4:13pm On Oct 26, 2005
men its one wife more trouble , more wife more competition for you

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Odeku(m): 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2005
This is interesting to see what other people think of this issue. I personally think it's selfish for a man to have more than one wife. it's not fair to the kids and the 1st wife. some people see it as a way to fit among friends to display their wealth.
kelvin(m): 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2005
Wat's a man doing with more than one wife? Aint one wife already enough trouble...
Anyway if a man and a woman really love each other, then they should be able to do with each other Alone ....Forever
layi(m): 4:46pm On Oct 26, 2005
kelvin:

.................., then they should be able to do with each other Alone ....Forever
Tell them o. Nor be the same peppersoup another woman go give u? na just the way dem serve am diff. Tell your wife too to change her serving methods.

Peppersoup here isnt d literary meaning
fabian(f): 4:54pm On Oct 26, 2005
So what kinda soup do ya mean? wink
gentleone(f): 4:59pm On Oct 26, 2005
@ layi, na real change her serving method wink
i agree with you ooo cheesy
guys, more women, more trouble ooo so stick with your wife!
layi(m): 5:16pm On Oct 26, 2005
@fabian
Read btw the lines...how many dey there sef..ok read btw d words.Well, Just read between something sha!
Re: Does A Man Need More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Oct 26, 2005
in this though I'm atheist i completely agree with the bible: one man one woman!
this is not only a fairness to your companion but a peaceful way to live your life. Any one who has watched "games women play 2" will surely understand what I'm talking about! And also when a man and more women are involved it's worse because women are more competitive than men when it comes to love and they won't give peace neither to themselves nor to you
NduGod(m): 5:50pm On Oct 26, 2005
l don't think there is a reason why one man should marry more than one wife. call it selffish or wealth. to me it is ignorant. try to find out, and you would discover that those who marry more than one wife are not alway happy with there marriage.
otokx(m): 6:44pm On Oct 26, 2005
i don't think a man needs more than one wife, look at Adam the first man.
Odeku(m): 6:48pm On Oct 26, 2005
Adam and Eve were not married, Look at David, and Saul.
razor(m): 6:57pm On Oct 26, 2005
A man doesn't need more than one wife. What would he do with many that he cannot do with one. Beside, one wife, one trouble; two wives, two trouble;...............................................
damygurl(f): 8:02pm On Oct 26, 2005
seriouzly in my opinion dats one of d problem we got in Nigeria. when a guy who can't even feed himself go ahead and marry 3wives and they got 13kids. how is d child not gon start stealing? yall said it all not DAT we ladies r troublemakers but no lady wanna be sharing her man with someon else. definitely not me!!!!! if a man got more Dan 1 wife no matter how much d ladieslike eachother there is still gon be competition and jealousy then they start hurting eachother. Most of d times d innocent kids r d one who get hurt d most.
I'm all 4 One Man!One Wife!!!!!!!
layi(m): 10:23pm On Oct 26, 2005
Odeku:

Adam and Eve were not married, Look at David, and Saul.

They were not married? shocked GOD bethroted Eve to Adam. What else is needed?
ooops what is marriage then.?
Odeku(m): 10:42pm On Oct 26, 2005
Layi she was his companion, LMAO
layi(m): 11:23pm On Oct 26, 2005
Just companion? And they had kids?
Oracle(m): 11:33pm On Oct 26, 2005
it depends on ur belief
some people believe in having more than
1 wife while some think otherwise
but i personally wud want one and only one wife
FOLLOWING RELIGIOUS DOCTRINES
IAH(f): 10:21am On Oct 27, 2005
Put religion out of this and look at it from all other perspectives. You'll see that a man doesn't need more than one wife.
angelak(f): 11:03am On Oct 27, 2005
Does it really matter if a man has more than one wife ? Because we all know that most likely he will have more than one girlfriend outside that will give the one wife at home heart ache!
fabian(f): 3:17pm On Oct 27, 2005
Not all men have girlfriends outside oh! Some do, not all.
nana(f): 9:27pm On Oct 27, 2005
No,i dont think so because,one woman is a problem not to talk of two or more women..........
tamia(f): 7:48pm On Oct 29, 2005
most of the time my guy friends come to me and they be like "can one have more than one wife in Africa?" n i tell dem yeah! then they be like "dang dats where i wanna be - in Africa"
allonym: 8:13pm On Oct 29, 2005
sometimes, one woman isn't sufficient to meet a man's needs
Scorpio(f): 9:14pm On Oct 29, 2005
explain pls
Seun(m): 9:14pm On Oct 29, 2005
Some men are used to having sex with a lot of women, and once established it's an addiction that's difficult to cure.
allonym: 12:08am On Oct 30, 2005
or the guy has a large drive but the wife only feels like it once a month. . . lotsa frustration there that isn't cured by knitting

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