NewStats: 3,262,851 , 8,178,361 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 07:49 PM 243s2l

I had my first gf when I was in year 1. After 3years we broke up because of sex issues. She wanted us to have sex but I told her I will only have sex when I get married.

Say 2yes later we reconnected . she said she broke up with heh then guy. She didn't deny the fact she isn't a virgin anymore but I still tagged along and told her am still not interested in sex before marriage which she agreed. After close to a year I found out she was shining her konja with a guy she introduced as a #he is like a brother to me . We broke up again . the pain was unbearable for me

Sorry. Dear

Sorry remote. But the third time you come into with her just ignore her o? Well done for keeping your vow to yourself, you did well

Quote me when you grow up, I will have some advice for you by then.

Nexxxxxxxxt.

I seeked advice and I was told to quit relationship until am ready to get married.

God willing I got a good job so I decided to get serious with a lady. I met this lovely girl. 2-3 months into the relationship she asked me why don't I want to have sex with her . I told her till after marriage. She got angry. Made fun of me and all that . I stood by my words .
.I had to break up with herm because she started using me as her atm.

We reconnected again. Still no sex she started calling me gay. I still no send . I like her a lot.

Just forget her nd move on with ur life a lady dat is worthy of ur luv will come along

hmm

The problem now is that she just broke up with me.

The truth is am scared cos am no more a kid am above 30. I really want to settle down but is not easy to see a sensible lady. I tried dating my fellow virgin girls but is not working out. Virgin girls are so annoying the feel like the world should worship them and be their servants

Don't ever go close to her again. She is a sex terrorist!

My question is can't one stay in a healthy relationship without sex?

OK I now told the other lady that just broke up with me that since she like sex let her have sex with anyone she is comfortable with but she should promise to stop once I put ring in her finger.

I was like since she is already sexually active why deny her sex and also stop her from having sex but let her play safe . let her make sure the guy wears condom .

She is now angry that how can I advice her to do such. Lol the funny thing is that I know she is screwing other guys . I just want to tell her is OK with me she doesn't need to hide it at least until I put ring on her finger.

Did I do wrong by telling her she is free to have sex ??

I guess you shouldn't have taken her back the second time. Just move on bro. How you overcome sexual temptations, that; I don't know. But keep it up

bqlekan:
I guess you shouldn't have taken her back the second time. Just move on bro. How you overcome sexual temptations, that; I don't know. But keep it up

My dear I need settle down . the lady is beautiful and down to earth. Good character only the sex part is her problem. I was thinking if I marry her I will satisfy her then she willnt have anyreason

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remotecontrol:
My question is can't one stay in a healthy relationship without sex?

OK I now told the other lady that just broke up with me that since she like sex let her have sex with anyone she is comfortable with but she should promise to stop once I put ring in her finger.

I was like since she is already sexually active why deny her sex and also stop her from having sex but let her play safe . let her make sure the guy wears condom .

She is now angry that how can I advice her to do such. Lol the funny thing is that I know she is screwing other guys . I just want to tell her is OK with me she doesn't need to hide it at least until I put ring on her finger.

like seriously? I like your stands for no sex til after marriage but telling her to go screwing with other guys? That's way too far. Believe me,she will continue till after marriage. There are some girls that prefer no sex till after marriage but they are not up to 10%

remotecontrol:


My dear I need settle down . the lady is beautiful and down to earth. Good character only the sex part is her problem. I was thinking if I marry her I will satisfy her then she willnt have anyreason

one thing you forgot to take into consideration was your partner's feelings, she is human too. Maybe you guys are not made for each other. Just move on

Gurgle:
you did well

this guy has committed a crime against nature.......
a girl wants you to shine her congo?....
YOU SHINE THE DÀMN THING DAMNIT!!!!!!
#OP #StopActingLikeAWuss.

enkay2go:
like seriously? I like your stands for no sex til after marriage but telling her to go screwing with other guys? That's way too far. Believe me,she will continue till after marriage. There are some girls that prefer no sex till after marriage but they are not up to 10%

Abi . I taught that will solve the ish.

Dating sounds like a no no to me. The way the think self. Is just so annoying . I dated 2 virgins but it didn't last atall.

Anyway I will have an open mind . virgin or no virgin.

sinaj:
hmm

urm, I thought dats wat most females want? A Godfearing guy... Why d face

ewu

Op. Come and marry my sister!

sometimes I dey wonder...How a guy, nt gel o go just decide say no sex till marriage..

remotecontrol:
The problem now is that she just broke up with me.

The truth is am scared cos am no more a kid am above 30. I really want to settle down but is not easy to see a sensible lady. I tried dating my fellow virgin girls but is not working out. Virgin girls are so annoying the feel like the world should worship them and be there servants

I didnt want to comment on this thread but after reading through your comments I realised you are a hypocrite. you are no different from the "gals" you mentioned@ the bold sentence maybe worse... Go work on your self dude and stop hanging out with immature brains.

IamLEGEND1:


this guy has committed a crime against nature.......

a girl wants you to shine her congo?....

YOU SHINE THE DÀMN THING DAMNIT!!!!!!

#OP
#StopActingLikeAWuss.

lol what is wrong with you

and youre at church now after messing this guy up smh

what would your father say

chymystique:




I didnt want to comment on this thread but after reading through your comments I realised you are a hypocrite. you are no different from the "gals" you mentioned@ the bold sentence maybe worse... Go work on your self dude and stop hanging out with immature brains.

Oboy see beefing. I carry your land? Can't you give advice without insult? Why do I have the feeling the statement is hurting you. I have a feeling you are one of the many virgins am talking about. The truth is if you are a virgin is your choice. Nobody owes you is your personal decision don't expect people to worship you or do whatever you say. Be reasonable

Gurgle:

lol what is wrong with you
and youre at church now after messing this guy up smh
what would your father say

wat is wrong with me?
the real question is: what is wrong with the O.P?
he is disrupting the natural order of things,but i trust naija girls sha..... she will probably go and tell all her friends that he has no penís.
#ServesHimRight
#BetrayerOfTheMaleGender

remotecontrol:
I seeked advice and I was told to quit relationship until am ready to get married.

God willing I got a good job so I decided to get serious with a lady. I met this lovely girl. 2-3 months into the relationship she asked me why don't I want to have sex with her . I told her till after marriage. She got angry. Made fun of me and all that . I stood by my words .
.I had to break up with herm because she started using me as her atm.

We reconnected again. Still no sex she started calling me gay. I still no send . I like her a lot.

well, I really dont blame her. Its virtually impossible to find a guy who doesnt want sex nowadays. What you should do is sit her down annd really explain ur reason eg, its church etc
And if she doesnt listen, weigh ur options: is it okay to compromise ur belief or morals over her good qualities which you havent seen in other girls?

Its is quite sad that it is difficult for gals who want and are looking for guys that would agree to no premarital sex and vice versa.

Cutehector:
Op. Come and marry my sister!

how you go carry ur sister market dey go somewhere when you know say i dey available?

#NotFair

IamLEGEND1:


how you go carry ur sister market dey go somewhere when you know say i dey available?

#NotFair

lol u fit afford bride price? She na igbo girl ooo... U knw say igbo bride price no be here

Cutehector:
lol u fit afford bride price? She na igbo girl ooo... U knw say igbo bride price no be here

O.k if na igbo, i don give up.

till further notice.

IamLEGEND1:


O.k if na igbo, i don give up.

till further notice.

no p

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