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I've observed that whenever a lady/guy is in need of a donor and the donor happens to be someone who's in love with d lady/guy,most times, they(donors) think that the reward that suit them is to start a love affair or even marry the person...... what if I don't love him? what if I refuse to date him? am I being ungrateful?
....what's ur take on this?


CC: ishilove ,lalasticlala

Too much of nollywood

Who else will u love na? Armed robber?

he or she saved ur life. U gotta marry the person.

Captainswag225:
he or she saved ur life. U gotta marry the person.

against my will?

What greater love there is, than for a man to put his life on d line for his frnd...

You know what?
Change that TV from AFRICAN MAGIC to Super Sport.

Hmmm...

People should not give because they expect something in return.

They should give because they truly wanted to help from their mind.

If the person you helped decided to reward you with something in return then it's a good thing.

So it shouldn't be compulsory.

Donor of what?
Blood? Kidney? Heart? Semen?

naijaboiy:
Hmmm...

People should not give because they expect something in return.

They should give because they truly wanted to help from their mind.

If the person you helped decided to reward you with something in return then it's a good thing.

So it shouldn't be compulsory.

some think we shouldn't be ungrateful

Captainswag225:
he or she saved ur life. U gotta marry the person.

Really?

Is marriage the ultimate reward when someone saves your life?

Okay,,what if she's married already?

She would dump her husband for the other guy?

Please try to be reasonable.

queenbetsy:
against my will?

u must learn to love him. He saved ur life.

twoondei:
Donor of what? Blood? Kidney? Heart? Semen?

its always kidney...

Captainswag225:
u must learn to love him. He saved ur life.

imagine urself in this situation....do u think U'll be happy in the relationship?

I would actually suggest that you don't

There would be a power imbalance in the relationship

Cause the donor would always feel you owe them something. You would too.

IMO, no try am o

queenbetsy:
some think we shouldn't be ungrateful

I don't see how marrying the person makes you grateful either.

This same thing can be related to a lecturer sleeping with a female student because he wants to help her with her final exams.

So of all things to be grateful with it must be sex?

You don't choose what a person who you have helped will give to you in appreciation.

Some may not have any other thing to give other than "Thank you"

MrsPhyno:
I would actually suggest that you don't
There would be a power imbalance in the relationship
Cause the donor would always feel you owe them something. You would too.
IMO, no try am o

thanks ma'am

MrsPhyno:
I would actually suggest that you don't
There would be a power imbalance in the relationship
Cause the donor would always feel you owe them something. You would too.
IMO, no try am o

thanks ma'am

queenbetsy:
imagine urself in this situation....do u think U'll be happy in the relationship?

okay, now am sounding a little unreasonable lol, what i want to say is if a person saves your life and he or she loves u then jux give them a chance with a relationship., if it doesnt work out then so be it. If they are married then thats a no go area.

naijaboiy:

I don't see how marrying the person makes you grateful either.

This same thing can be related to a lecturer sleeping with a female student because he wants to help her with her final exams.

So of all things to be grateful with it must be sex?

You don't choose what a person who you have helped will give to you in appreciation.

Some may not have any other thing to give other than "Thank you"

thanks for ur contribution,sir

queenbetsy:
thanks for ur contribution,sir

So which movie did you see this happening?

Captainswag225:
okay, now am sounding a little unreasonable lol, what i want to say is if a person saves your life and he or she loves u then jux give them a chance with a relationship., if it doesnt work out then so be it. If they are married then thats a no go area.

now....ur being considerate! thanks!

queenbetsy:
now....ur being considerate! thanks!

thank u also.......

naijaboiy:

So which movie did you see this happening?

lots....and I'm sure its happening to someone....maybe presently or bound to happen in the nearest future

Cutehector:
Who else will u love na? Armed robber?

I mean its complicated

queenbetsy:
I mean its complicated

ur d one dats complicated... Uncomplicate ur life.... Do u think I will donate my kidney and give to u?

Someone who went extraordinary to gv his kidney fo u. And u sayn u dnt love him.. U hav a very wicked heart.. JeeeEz!

Cutehector:
ur d one dats complicated... Uncomplicate ur life.... Do u think I will donate my kidney and give to u?

Someone who went extraordinary to gv his kidney fo u. And u sayn u dnt love him.. U hav a very wicked heart.. JeeeEz!

what if you are in this situation? would u have chosen to be unhappy in the relationship?

queenbetsy:
what if you are in this situation? would u have chosen to be unhappy in the relationship?

u wana knw wat I will say to u right? I will be more dan happy... !!!! Christ!!! I wish he ddnt even donate d kidney to u sef... So dat u would hav died!!

queenbetsy:
I've observed that whenever a lady/guy is in need of a donor and the donor happens to be someone who's in love with d lady/guy,most times, they(donors) think that the reward that suit them is to start a love affair or even marry the person...... what if I don't love him? what if I refuse to date him? am I being ungrateful?
....what's ur take on this?


CC: ishilove ,lalasticlala

Kidney donor?

queenbetsy:
lots....and I'm sure its happening to someone....maybe presently or bound to happen in the nearest future

Pray you are not trapped in that type of situation.

Cutehector:
u wana knw wat I will say to u right? I will be more dan happy... !!!! Christ!!! I wish he ddnt even donate d kidney to u sef... So dat u would hav died!!

oh my.....anyway,thanks for your contribution

naijaboiy:

Pray you are not trapped in that type of situation.

I pray so....