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Reminds me of d movie love and basketball

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Just about to read this stuff

Op this thing is simple... Go for another guy..

Op you better give yourself brain. That guy isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you,except you want to remain a side chick and experience another heartbreak. Dude clearly wants to eat his cake and have it. Run, run for your dear heart my dear.

Make yourself available for other dates and forget this guy. Don't be inside water and allow soap enter your eyes..

Deejavuu:
Op you better give yourself brain. That guy isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you,except you want to remain a side chick and experience another heartbreak. Dude clearly wants to eat his cake and have it. Run, run for your dear heart my dear.

Make yourself available for other dates and forget this guy. Don't be inside water and allow soap enter your eyes..

Gbam!!!

Deejavuu:
Op you better give yourself brain. That guy isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you,except you want to remain a side chick and experience another heartbreak. Dude clearly wants to eat his cake and have it. Run, run for your dear heart my dear.

Make yourself available for other dates and forget this guy. Don't be inside water and allow soap enter your eyes..

Thanks.

OP, what exactly is your problem



The guy is already taken.. And if you aren't sure tell him to define your relationship..

Abeg free the guy And open your heart to prospective suitors.

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male irers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

he already told u he has a girlfriend, pls, wat advice do u need again? he should leave her 4 u? if he tell u to go get a lawyer after he fuccked and dump u now, u will be saying men are wicked.

1.He talks about her
2. She is already ed with his mom
3. He still loves her
.......should i reach ten before u know he doesn't love u and run for ur life

What about our friendship? Should I just cut it off?

Some people needs slap.just one slap.The type that will make their head spin and then reset.

sameer1212:
Gbam!!!

lilspiceyy:

Thanks.

Welcome

Sorry OP, no offense.
How old are you?

Seems like you didn't learn from your last heart break

lilspiceyy:
What about our friendship? Should I just cut it off?

If that friendship is the reason why you can't think straight. And why other guys haven't been approaching you.


Don't waste your time with him. Before it's too late.

lilspiceyy:
What about our friendship? Should I just cut it off?

NO! CUT IT ON

Ogbeni!! this is called cheating.If he can think of cheating on his fiancee with you ,what makes you think he won't do the same when he is with you?

Its nat ya portion

Incorruptible:
Sorry OP, no offense.
How old are you?

Mid twenties....y?

lilspiceyy:
What about our friendship? Should I just cut it off?

Why would u cut ur friendship cos he's in love with another lady?

Come on...he's just a friend and that's what he will always be....so get urself a lover......and stop dreaming....he can't leave his lover cos of you

Omotayor123:

If that friendship is the reason why you can't think straight. And why other guys haven't been approaching you.


Don't waste your time with him. Before it's too late.

Thanks.

lilspiceyy:
What about our friendship? Should I just cut it off?

forget about your friendship with him.I know that it may b challenging,but just let the friendship go.

u deserve anoda heart break, no offence

So you still dont know how to differentiate between FRIENDSHIP and TRUE LOVE?

*waiter more ice please*

Maamin:
So you still dont know how to differentiate between FRIENDSHIP and TRUE LOVE?

*waiter more ice please*

Dude!! How far?

Long time no hear.

Xiadnat:



Dude!! How far?

Long time no hear.

Ayam doing fine..is been long. Where are you right now?

Op.

well, most advice I have been seeing are what is expected. Since the guy already came clean, it's more appropriate to move far away from him as far as possible because you wouldn't want a lady to do same to your man.

Now on the otherhand, I won't advice total cut off. I know the pain Op is foreseeing in the process of this total cut off. So I will advice that you tell him straight that you can't date number or be his girl or anything intimate. But that your friendship remains untouched. I value friendship than dating so I understand Op's position in trying to save their friendship. So dear do not be foolish by being a side chick but stay as a friend. and I trust you know the limits of friendship.

My favourite personal quote " if we listened to our intellect we'd never have love affair we'd never go into business because we'd be cynical,well dats nonsense,you've gat to jump off cliff all d time and build your wing on d way down" Love is worth a second chance for you know

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male irers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male irers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

...so u want to break a guys heart coz he live 1000miles away & didn't introduce u to his mum?..... sweeery no ofeinse but why are u homebase fermales usualy cold blooded?