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Compiled by BrainnewsNg CEO, Eyo Nse,

This 10 tips will guide you along if you will allow your brain to absorb it before your marriage. Brainnews Nigeria brings this one. Read and tell us where errors are, be positive while reading. Stay blessed.

1. Work on your anger: Learn how to control your anger. Hot temper damages marriage.

2. Work on your promiscuity: Adultery destroys marriage. Do not cheat on your spouse.

3. Work on your degree of maturity: Marriage is for the matured minds and not kids.

4. Work on your finances: You need money to make your family work & be comfortable.

5. Work on the degree of trust between you and your spouse: Trust your spouse at all time, if this is highly attend to, your marriage will work perfectly. Do not marry a person you don’t trust.

6. Work on your Choice of Partner: According to a research carried out by Eyo Nse, 60% of most Beautiful and handsome humans lacks intelligency alot, as a man you need a beautiful wife thou, but when she can’t read her book or write her name you will surely this piece of mind someday. she/he will someday go ugly at old age so be inform.

7. Work on your Character: A Character is link with when you have a broken tyre on a highway while driving to or back from work, without you fixing the bad tyre you can’t continue your journey. What do i mean here? Good character keeps marriage going smoothly, although 21st century humans believe people of good character are fools, can this be true? Work on your character, treat people equally cos someone you may meet up street may be the same person you will meet down street. Be your self always.

8. How good are you in the kitchen?
Some women are so poor in the kitchen, believe me, this has destroy so many marriages previously, and it may not stop occurring. How will you feel when your intending husband comes back home with visitors and one of them asks was the food cooked by your wife or the house help? Cos i feel like vomiting. Go learn how to cook if you can’t please, catering school is most preferable since you decided to go partying when your mother was in the kitchen cooking.

9. Have God approve that project? Tell it to Jesus, he will surely give you his full attention, he is the master of the universe. Are you a baptised christian? How close are you with God? Does God knows your name? He who finds a wife finds a good thing . Pray lot and God will guide and provide you with your rightful partner.

10) Prayer: And finally, Prayer matters alot in everything, be it christian and be it muslim etc. Commit it to your creature according to your religious believe and you will succeed.

Go ahead and execute your mission after taking the above points into consideration and failure will never be your potion.

GOOD LUCK AND REMAIN BLESS.

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Nice one @ op .

interesting post

And i'll also work on 'how long i last in bed'

Cool tips

farano:
Nice one @ op .

Thanks dear

Harmvirus:
Cool tips

Am greatful! Thanks

Nice write up, good one OP

Prayer very important. Prayer less spouse should watch and see how in couple of months the marriage would be destroyed.
Pray without seizing.

soo right...

This is a pretty exhaustive list and I do agree with some points raised.

But then, there would always be flaws and shortcomings.

This shouldn't be an attempt towards actualizing a perfect marriage, cos there's no such thing as perfect marriage.

The most important thing is getting hitched to someone who would wholly complement you. Someone who'd accept you for whom you are, that's the beauty of every marriage.

I've seen couples who are damn poor but still share an unimaginable love. I've seen couples who share different religious sentiments but are still madly in love with eachother. I've seen a wife who knows zilch about cooking but is still loved and cared for by the husband.

That is the beauty of every marriage.

If working on your flaws seems like a herculean task, don't get dismayed, someone out there is willing to love you that way.

IamChiboi:
Nice write up, good one OP

IamChiboi:
Nice write up, good one OP

God bless you! You are great!!

hi @ all, please I seriously need some tips on how to write a letter to notify my Church of my marriage intent. I strongly appreciate your help.

pls quote me for reply

Wow. This post make sense dia
I for one need to learn to control my anger Also I need to learn to pray.
God please I want to know you more

11. Learn to be submissive to your man and be loyal to him.

12. Learn to be stingy with your ***** once you are married!
Don't go around sharing your husband's/Wife's thing!

Yeah, all noted, all this stuffs are important

This the time I wish nairaland had the thumbs up emoticon.

Op thumbs up

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Those things are not for marriage alone.

LewisO:
11. Learn to be submissive.

Which kinda submissive
On the bed or in the kitchen

wait o ,i dont understand this,so many guys don graduate from ,but ah stil deyy scul in ,ok may be ah go try pakage one french babe like dat cum bak wen ah don finaly graduate, french babe no alow make i finish scul cum mary o ,so op d write up no concern me

Nobody is perfect ooo0

farano:
Nice one @ op .

please what is d meaning of OP? tanx

Nice one..good post

i dey find baby mama. apply within

Only

I was invited to the presidency this afternoon. My meeting with the president had barely started when madam peepee stormed into the office without knocking and the following conversation took place.

Acidtalk - Good Afternoon your excellency ma.

Patience - (sighs) why you dey greet me? Shebi Omokri and Abati dey come tell me as you dey abuse me for internet.

Acidtalk - (kept mute with quite an embarrassing smile)

Patience - Jonah, me I don tire oh!

Jonathan - Peepee, what's wrong again?

Patience - All these my woman campaign no work oh! These women just dey chop our money but I know say Dem no go vote us.

Jonathan - How do you know that?

Patience - I blind? Shebi I dey see as all of them dey frown face when I dey talk. Clap, Dem no gree clap, to hail me sef na wahala.

Jonathan - So after all the money we have spent after postponing this election things are not still working in our favour. What can we now do?

Patience - Me I go suggest make we kuku sell the whole Nigeria to Queen Elizabeth make she dey in charge of the interim government.

Jonathan - Peepee, we can't sell a country and the Queen has no business in this. Suggest something else.

Patience - Jonah boy, make I tell you truth oh! E better make you sharperly call Julius Berger make them construct all the entire prison for Nigeria make e big and fine like my bedroom for Aso Rock. As I dey see am so we no fit escape am say you no go enter prison oh! Na by the grace of God that Aboki man no go throw me inside prison with you.

Na work work work i just deh see evriwea.......haba! Person no b workaholic na

Hmmm nice write uo