NewStats: 3,263,413 , 8,180,036 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 07:44 PM 2f6s1m

It sounds very strange and unusual but it happens for real and has been experienced by me (I'm sure many guys might have one point in time experienced such). However, there are many ladies whose behaviour become more and more bizzare when you fail to do the needful yet they claim SEX is not LOVE

While growing up, my friends always assert that one has to be very perceptive and tactful especially when dealing with ladies who claim they are NOT interested in sex but I used to think it was sorely for their own self-interest; and concern only to relieve their sexual urge not until I got to realize that many ladies truly claim they want NO sex yet they will take you for granted or dump your as.s when you fail to take advantage of their desire for sexual intimacy especially when sex is being initiated by them (anyway you might call this a maximal generalization about Nigerian ladies)

When it comes to dating, sex was always the last thing on my mind but the moment I realized I was being referred to as a VERY DULL DUDE by various species of ladies, I had to upgrade my OS from version 2.5 to version 7.5

I have once been dumped by a lady I loved so much just because I failed to do the needful even when she needed it. She stopped visiting, stopped her frequent phone calls and her love for me headed on diminishing returns. I keep wondering why ladies claim relationship is NOT about sex yet they take you for granted, and in some cases dump you without rolling those dice.

However, most ladies don't totally respect or succumb under a guy's authority, in as much as he's being deprived of what random guys out there are also being deprived of. You do the needful she shows little seriousness and affection afterwards; you do otherwise, she sees you as a dull niqqa and wouldn't think twice before dumping your as.s

Even those who are guilty of this act would storm on this thread and begin to call ladies who are guilty of charge all kind of abusive or insulting names.

Now the question is, Why Do Ladies Claim SEX Is Not LOVE But Dump Guys Who Refuse To Have Sex With Them ?

[size=15pt]Their situation is like those set of peoples who want to purchase something , they won't purchase it when there are still enough stocks in store, but they will start rushing it when it remains one left.

They are just too confuse as... Only God knows. [/size]

I'm going to agree to disagree with that.

#JUSTINCASE

#speechless

JK

cos they ate fools. those girls are plain fools!

I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No girl wants her pus.sy slack before marriage.

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

What are you talking bout sef....?

TrishaP:
I'm going to agree to disagree with that.

b4 nko ? Why wont you disagree with the write-up

The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship

K

tosyne2much:
b4 nko ? Why wont you disagree with the write-up

It's vice versa.

because Ladies are confuse soul. .

Like seriously?? . ...what kinda gurl does such?

Strange!

Its good she cut off the relationship, gurls of that nature aint worth keeping ... -still finding it hard to believe tho

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

i do

huh? really?

it's a myth.

Mhizkel:
The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship

can i have that sister's number? am the kind of guy for her. Maybe the dude is impotent or something, i dont think he has a device between his legs.

I won't blame any lady for doing that. But i think the two parties should agree to if sex would be involved or not immediately the relationship kicks off. That will avoid hearkbreaks and one of the parties feeling cheated.




My piece

falconey:
can i have that sister's number? am the kind of guy for her. Maybe the dude is impotent or something, i dont think he has a device between his legs.

Lol...she is now married with a kid!try again next time

falconey:
i do

Do what?

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

Dey dia make pant dey wear you

JayKayMaybachz:


What are you talking bout sef....?

Why are you asking?

tosyne2much:
Dey dia make pant dey wear you

As per?

I have not heard of that before sha

Buh maybe

Some girls feel

Sex validates a relationship

Methinks stuff like this can only happen on Nairaland. What kinda ladies did you meet sef? Nymphoess? How come you're always coming across them?....OgaAde, waka well o! Some babes can fit to set u up o! No be only men dey raype o!

#DropsMic

Coz they want sex and u aint giving it to them; therefore, they rightly dump you! Very simple.

Well ladies are so complicated. When they see a guy that love sex, they call him sex frick. If he doesn't make advances, they term him impotent.

So whats d way forward. Give her when u perceive she needs it.

If you "dump" something that is valuable, then foolishness is your surname.
I can't even date a woman that wants premarital sex. My standards are defined before starting a relationship.