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Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

Because they are the desperate ones..

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

That u witnessed two cases, has now made it a regular occurrence? Woman and their generalization. How many ladies has ur brother taken advantage of?

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

end of story. Full stop. Thank you.

I came here to read

That heartless guy was used and dumped by a badass lady. It revolves dear.

Because"I WILL MARRY YOU",is a weapon men have learnt to use to get what they want.

Tallesty1:
That heartless guy was used and dumped by a badass lady. It revolves dear.

And do you know if the badass lady was a good girl turned bad by a heartless guy

bukatyne:


And do you know if the badass lady was a good girl turned bad by a heartless guy

That's why i said that it goes around

bukatyne:


And do you know if the badass lady was a good girl turned bad by a heartless guy

The world is round

Ok naa

Tallesty1:
That's why i said that goes around

xynerise:

The world is round

That's why ing a girl/guy messing people up because of their past experiences is moot.

bukatyne:




That's why ing a girl/guy messing people up because of their past experiences is moot.

And who is ing them?

Tallesty1:
And who is ing them?

Were you ing them?

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

take heart..such is life

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

Your analysis is partially true. Not all matured single ladies are guilty of taking advantage of guys during their younger years.

The simple answer is to stop being desperate and just maybe, no one will use you.

A desperate woman is also out to use any man who is stup1d enough to get caught in her trap, so...

Thats because they allow themselves to become desperate, and when they are desperate they become vulnerable for people to prey on them.....

because wen dia mates were marrying they were forming

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

tell your friends to take responsibility for their own idïotic choices. i just can't stand it when women say they were used. used? man & woman go to bed, they both enjoyed the sėx - the woman would turn around later that she was used.

arrant nonsense!

xynerise:
Were you ing them?

No sir

Because the so called 'advanced single ladies' cannot zip up.

Was she forced to have sex with him, huh?

coogar:


tell your friends to take responsibility for their own idïotic choices. i just can't stand it when women say they were used. used? man & woman go to bed, they both enjoyed the sėx - the woman would turn around later that she was used.

arrant nonsense!

Lmao...

What do you expect when they always act as victims, with no sense of responsibility whatsoever.

freecocoa:
The simple answer is to stop being desperate and just maybe, no one will use you.

A desperate woman is also out to use any man who is stup1d enough to get caught in her trap, so...

I agree with you.

If we're ever taken advantage of, it's because, one way or another, our desperation reeks, especially as we advance in age.

But seriously, shouldn't there be an anti-desperation pill for ladies?

A lady should be mentally strong enough to know when to gather all her faculties and walk out of a relationship that reeks of first class manipulation, selfishness, control and downright emotional abuse.

But no, we won't.

We must marry this year by fire by force.
When it doesn't pan out that way, we conclude we were taken advantage of. We had a part to play joor.

We keep giving guys irrefutable reasons to spew iranu and rada rada .
Reducing us to beggars of attention, affection, money and ultimately; marriage.

Dear Lawd, give me and my fellow ladies brain.

Aamem.

Many Men and women that reach a mature age before getting married are very difficult to live with.
They are set in their ways and do not want to make much change or just cannot make the change.
They have their lifestyle and cat adjust.
When a man in this situation marries a woman, he usually marries a younger woman who completely adjust to fit in to the man`s lifestyle.
For women it is nearly impossible to get a much younger man to marry.
Furthermore the man sees himself as the head of the home and does not want to marry woman he cannot control.

It is possible that the man really wanted a serious relationship but then he found out he could not cope because he could not be the man he wants to be in this relationship.

Women really need to stop looking for ready- made men and be ready to build with a man.

jmoore:
Because the so called 'advanced single ladies' cannot zip up.

Was she forced to have sex with him, huh?

Its not about sex alone. I know some guys who take advantage of matured desperate ladies and fleece them materially and emotionally. That's the painful side

If they are not desperate, they won't be used.
Not all advanced single ladies are marriage hungry though, that u witnessed 1 or 2 doesn't make it a trend.

Op, A guy can only take advantage of you if you allow him to... You are in charge of your life......

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

well I'm sorry mr I just posted a topic for discussion and not for you to judge or insult me.atleast at my age the average niaja girl are not yet married.tnx for your contribution anyway for making my first ever topic on nairaland a success .

chillian:
well I'm sorry mr I just posted a topic for discussion and not for you to judge or insult me.atleast at my age the average niaja girl are not yet married.tnx for your contribution anyway for making my first ever topic on nairaland a success .

i apologise for the insult. But truth has always been a bitter piles.