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When by chance you happen to make your way out of nigeria and start to make a living abroad some relatives of yours make life not one to be enjoyed here are some of the common ones

Letter of invitation: if you per chance become a full citizen you become inundated with lots of requests. Everyone wants a letter of invitation.

Finance: This is the most annoying. Everybody expects you to be super rich once you live abroad,you keep being asked for money for saundry things that could well have easily been taking care of without your knowledge. Take for instance if you live in america and you earn 700$ a week after paying all your bills and sending money home you have very little savings,you can't afford luxury things for yourself

Spiritual attacks (winch)
Like m.I says 'bad belle is allowed' but the one from people in the villa is too much. Most people won't live and let live they keep looking for whose life to destroy.once you go abroad even if your a janitor who barely makes a living they still send bullets to u

Gift: when during xmas period you see a black person carrying a lot of gifts in his/her trolley that person is probably a nigerian. You buy things for everybody ranging from your siblings to your father's nephew's cousin's sister's stepson's gateman. Everybody must get something or the person woulrd start to spew trash about you

These are some of the ones I know of if you have ever been in this position feel free to add yours

I think the most common is the request for money. If only they knew that some of these family abroad are not that better off....but trust naija guys; them no wan fall hand so even though hunger dey drill hole for their belle, dem must scrap something send down just to cover face.

JEITO:
I think the most common is the request for money. If only they knew that some of these family abroad are not that better off....but trust naija guys; them no wan fall hand so even though hunger dey drill hole for their belle, dem must scrap something send down just to cover face.

The annoying part is that they make more money

every tom dick and harry will ask for money.
even people who have never talked to you will email a list of things you should send to them.
relatives you never knew exist will tell you how they are entitled to some ridiculous amount of dollars from you monthly. why, "na dem train your papa for secondary school"
your immediate family nko? they will go and collect gbese to pose all in your name... "my broad dey yankee, e go soon send me dollars now now. no worry I go pay"






which way naija?

veave:
every tom dick and harry will ask for money.
even people who have never talked to you will email a list of things you should send to them.
relatives you never knew exist will tell you how they are entitled to some ridiculous amount of dollars from you monthly. why, "na dem train your papa for secondary school"
your immediate family nko? they will go and collect gbese to pose all in your name... "my broad dey yankee, e go soon send me dollars now now. no worry I go pay"






which way naija?

Then everyone would start to add u on fb,whatsapp etc and start to initiate marriage talks

Too much BEGGING from the BOTTOMLESS PITS!
Like you are packing money abroad.

I dash one couple with 5 children under 12 years N650,000 2 years ago, last year dem ask for N1.2Million.
I just delete dem #s sharp-sharp.
Na me say make dem open nyansh and blokos dey born-born like termites?
Mtcheeeeeeew!

Another avenue to hate on the 'poor' folks left in Nigeria by those opportuned to have being on the boat

What of those who spend their life savings to put you on that boat

When you take out a personal loan from bank just to go home for a couple of weeks, what do you expect people to think.
I don't have such problem cos I'm almost invisible when I go home.

Have sketchy schedule and disappear as unannounced as you came in.

Were are my people...... is it true... Because here in ghana ,We don't experience such....

Na dem too dey form joor. Poor things.
Nobody force you to post those pics on facebook and IG,forgetting say you borrow plus Papa sold land for you to jand.

As for u guys from Ala-Igbo, kpoturum for that land or house for be-anyi. Onwe some sharp properties di kitaa ighota go? Don't wait for ndi ufu-anya to burn your biz under the pretext of election violence, before you do the needful. Kpoturum taata. Check my sig.

Constantly asking for cash

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Space booked. This FP se koko. Now let me go read and den comment.


Ryt, OP. The mindset of Nigerians is that, all people living abroad are rich and must provide for the people that they left behind.
Me nitemi, if i go abroad, Na only my parents go know how to me

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It depends. You get what you give room for.

Lol...true

Sad but true, everyone excepts something(mostly money and gifts) from you, they don't care what you do over there, if u like make u be 419 or drug dealer, na ur palava be dat, sha send something come

TRUE

lol na wa oooh

One thing I have come to understand about needy people is that they are generally good in receiving than giving . Ingratitude and sense of entitlement is their hallmark . More so , they are also insatiable . Meanwhile , to every giver out there , take solace in the fact that " the hand of a giver is always on top " ... To the both parties I say " it is good to be a cheerful giver and grateful receiver " .

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Will be going soon, and my Mum will be my saving here in Nigeria. So help me God.

Very well said
they dnt wanna knw what you are facing abroad.

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