NewStats: 3,263,344 , 8,179,846 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 03:00 PM 6y4o1m

Nairalander please I really need your advise on this issue:

I got married to someone I so much trusted. When we got married he told me everything about his past dealings with women that he did all those because he was not married, since he is married now he will no longer indulge in such act. Actually in the past four years of our being married, I have not got him in such act. But something terrible happened of recent.

We went for an end of year party in our friend’s car I, my husband and our friend niece so about 15 years were sitting at the back seat. After the party on our way home we picked their nephew who is about five years old so we allowed them to sit in between us (Husband and wife). Guess what happened! My well trusted husband was busy handling the breast of this fifteen years old girl who was pretending to be asleep that was not the end when she raised her head up, my so called husband continued the “business” with his elbow this time around I saw all these but pretended to be asleep. So when we finally got home I brought the issue up which he did not deny. He apologized but I did not see or feel any remorse in his apology. He even told be the next morning that this is the last apology he will render.

Naira Lander to be sincere with you, I very very upset , I don’t think I can still be that intimate with him the way I used to be, he has really betrayed the trust and confidence I had in him. Please I really need your advise and suggest. God will really bless you as you do this.

And you are still married to this paedophile?

Please for the sake of other kids, you need to get help for your husband. Imagine if the girl was your own 15 yr old daughter and some old man is handling with her breast.

Mehn, this is disgusting. What is happening to marriages these days?

i wonder what is happening to marriages these days.

People sef. Ewwww she's his bluidy niece for crying out loud 15yrs only at that too

Was he a pedophile before he married you?You can encourage him to go for counseling and get help from Professionals.This is no time for regrets,you are In it already,the best you can do is to help him get help Or leave him.
all the best.

Gbam