NewStats: 3,262,038 , 8,175,927 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 03:39 PM 2t3428

Just freestyling here, not much happening on the site.

What's that thing about you which is like the elephant in the room?

The thread on broken homes got me thinking.

Sugbon means but in yoruba. Eg "S/he's all that but. . . . . .".

So, what flaws do you have which makes people reconsider before they decide if they want to date you/be your friend or not?

Flaw here is used very loosely, could be anything as long as someone considers it a flaw.

Eg talkativeness could be a plus or minus, depends. Introversion is most times viewed negatively.

In my own case, my "sugbons" are too many.

I'll go with my weight issues for now.

I sleep late at least you know that is not a lie

tpia6:
In my own case, my "sugbons" are too many.

I'll go with my weight issues for now.

are you underweight or overweight

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cococandy:
are you underweight or overweight

weight issues usually mean overweight.

tpia6:
In my own case, my "sugbons" are too many.

I'll go with my weight issues for now.

Tpiah,
So you. are an Orobo,I find that very segxzy. Please post a picture. I wanna assess your assets and deficits if any. Fat girls rock!

Tpiah,
Quite frankly I can't deal with women who have no meat on their bodies. A man gotta hold on to something when he's hitting the skins. So that is no sugbon. Be proud. of your body. Thick chics rock.

tpia6:


weight issues usually mean overweight.

oh. Sorry
Anyway I'm sure you're still cute

Being slightly overweight isn't that bad

My "sugbon" is my tooo gentle act I pray my daughter is not as gentle as I am



Amin

I think am too blunt and domineering those r the things complained abt me.

Now the problem is how to STOP or manage those attributes

My 'sugbon' is people's first impression of me - women think I'm a playa, men think I'm a badazz nigga not to be trusted.

Okay I'm kidding!
So Tpia, you's a fat broad huh?

That you even itted something this personal on a forum you loathe so much is a shock to me, God is good...

thanks for the heads up guys, except for the one who is looking for a girlfriend and the one who just posted before me.

crackhaus:

nairaland which i loathe so much

tpia6:
thanks for the heads up guys, except for the one who is looking for a girlfriend and the one who just posted before me.

Lol...and not getting a thanks speech from you is supposed to make me feel bad?

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not mentally distressed like a certain single 40year old fatty...

crackhaus:

Lol...and not getting a thanks speech from you is supposed to make me feel bad?

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not mentally distressed like a certain single 40year old fatty...

quit being mean

cococandy:
quit being mean

crackhaus:

My social awkwardness.

Yields:
My social awkwardness.

The downside of high intelligence
Geniuses aren't social butterflies

NM.

tpia6:
thanks for the heads up guys, except for the one who is looking for a girlfriend and the one who just posted before me.

Tpia,

You know I have a thing for thick,middle aged,single madames. Can I PM you and lets see where it goes from there?

cococandy:
quit being mean

he's so miserable, wish he could be helped.

Caveatemptor:


Tpia,

You know I have a thing for thick,middle aged,single madames. Can I PM you and lets see where it goes from there?

I know?

I'm not a phone person, I hardly call friends or extended family, I return calls whenever I feel like unless it's emergency, I've actually lost friends because of not calling, trying to work on that.

tpia6:


he's so miserable, wish he could be helped.

tpia6:



I know?

Tpia,
Can I PM you?
Stop playing hard to get. You know I like you.

tpia6:

he's so miserable, wish he could be helped.

So you still have enough juice left to type back at me?
Lmao...you should help yourself first before rendering it to anyone else.

I'm not the one with at least 20 monikers on just Nairaland alone, this is what being miserable looks like.

PS:
Next time quote me directly to address me, don't be scared.

I think misery is when you convince yourself other people are the ones who are miserable and not you.

Caveatemptor:


Tpia,
Can I PM you?
Stop playing hard to get. You know I like you.

Who are you btw?

What's your old moniker.