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When couples get married, who follows who where??
Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

The man is d head of the house..... Finish!!! And d wife must submit....

Cutehector4u:
The man is d head of the house..... Finish!!! And d wife must submit....

And?? Who said he isn't?

If you chose to marry a man, you have accepted him in his entirety. You can't love him and hate his name or any other thing you chose to hate.

if she truly loves her husband she must attend the church her hubby attends. she must love her husband with everything i mean everything 4 beta 4 worse, u knw and read the case of Ruth In The Bible. What She Said To Naomi. YOUR PEOPLE SHALL BE MY PEOPLE, YOUR WAY SHALL BE MY WAY, WHEREEVER YOU GO I GO etc.

Ideally the wife is expected to follow the husband to his church and not the other way around, just as the wife moves into the husband's house and adopts his family name. The exception to this norm is if the husband wasn't committed to any church in particular, and the wife is a full committed member of her own church. The husband must agree freely to adopt the wife's church as his own church, and this must be discussed before the marriage.

BreezyRita:
When couples get married, who follows who where??
Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

Shouldn't this be agreed on before marriage?

If the wife can convince the husband to move to her church or they go to separate churches, fine but if he insist, then she has to follow him. No be she marry am?

Seriously?

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BreezyRita:
When couples get married, who follows who where??
Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

The wife should have counted the cost before getting married. At least they must have talked about it. The woman is expected to her husband in his local church. But if she feels uncomfortable worshipping in her new church, she can dialogue with her husband. If he sees reasons with her, fine but if otherwise , she has no alternative than to keep following her husband. Compromise and understanding is needed in times like this

BreezyRita:
When couples get married, who follows who where?? Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

Then don't marry him. Especially if the man has indicated that his wife must him to his church. Donot ever think he will "come around" and let you attend your church or you there. Make sure this is sorted before you sign the dotted lines.

There must be a church that overhead the couple's wedding in the first place right?... So I think they should both attend that church. It's no big deal.

Then start liking it

I think family church is that church that is owned by your mother, father, or any member of the family

If you don't like your prospective husband's church and he shares same feeling about yours, then get amalgamated in a court of law. Simple!!! After the BINDING, then maybe you two will reason together

U dey learn wrk?

d man's church should be adopted as the family church,but it all depends on which Church the two parties are more comfortable with

Ur fada's church

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U go to ur own church naw.

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I just don't get this the man's church nd d woman's church tin! Bt trust me! B4 God we r d church! " This denominational tin is begining 2 bcom sth else!... I bliv since they av bin ed! They shuld agree on wh 1 2 attend! Its entirely up 2 dem!

Sorry for the gods

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as the spirit leads

Reading comments

The things Nigerians consider important.

I think they would have talk about dat b4 anything

you wont cease to amaze me....

Kanwulia:
Anyone that opens at 6AM to dump the kids dia. . . Make I for see road.
Shiooooooooooor!

I had similar issue with my wife, but with prayers, patience, love and understanding, I won

simple topic....but one the most complicated marital issues ever!!!

i'll go with the comment above