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In response to an earlier thread by ''Killjoy'' (what a moniker ) about ''Reasons Why Guys Should Never Get Married'', i was so disturbed that such a young man will have such a mindset about marriage, an institution that was made by the all knowing Creator for a special purpose, an institution upon which we are all a product of. if our parents had his views we wouldnt have been born let alone create a thread on Nairaland with the sole aim of discouraging guys from getting married.
Well this thread isnt to counter his (''killjoys'') thread, but to show the other (good) side of marriage which he chose to hide for reasons best known to him.

Being married is nowadays considered to be old-fashioned. Young people find matrimony conservative and prefer to stay officially unattached. Countries with traditional views still believe that family is something essential in every person’s life.

There are advantages and disadvantages in being married. Apart from weight gain and argument, there are positive aspects. If the union is happy, what the couple may experience is financial benefits, , and good health. Sociologists have proved that those who prefer to get married to their partner are happier in their relationship than those who stay unmarried. More than that, kids who are born to married parents are much happier and psychologically healthier.

Here are 10 solid reasons why u SHOULD get married



1. LIFE LONG COMPANIONSHIP

Being committed to someone is great. It’s rewarding to have a person who cherishes and protects you. These are eternal virtues. They have always been highly appreciated by people. All of us dream that some day we meet someone special with whom we will spend the rest of our lives.


source: http://wmnlife.com/relationships/10-reasons-to-get-married

2. FULFILLING LIFE

Since a couple earns better money it means that they can improve their living condition and buy a better house or apartment in a nice location. They can also afford travelling, better food and education for their children.

3. EASIER TO TAKE CARE OF KIDS

When you are not alone it is always easier, especially if we are talking about growing up children. Parents who share their responsibility for their children serve a better example. Their kids learn what a real family relationship is which will make them happier personalities in their future family life.

4. BEATING BAD HABITS

Studies show that married people get rid of their bad habits much easier because their sense of responsibility for their family won’t let them drink or use drugs. Some quit smoking when they are motivated by their spouse and children. If you are single, then fighting your addiction on your own becomes far more difficult.

5 BETTER FINANCIAL SITUATION

It is obvious that a couple spends more money than a single person. But the thing is that a couple makes better money and they can afford to buy more. Married men realize that they are providers for their wives and kids and start earning better money while single men can live on a lower salary since they are not motivated to work and earn more.

6 HEALTH ISSUES SOLVED

Not only ladies experience health benefits. Married men are also healthier both mentally and emotionally when they are married. They are taken care of, feel loved and needed. It’s good for men’s cardiovascular system. They are less prone to strokes, heart attacks and other diseases.

We don hear!

7. BETTER HEALTH

For women there are health benefits in being married. Good sex life proved a complete feeling of satisfaction and happiness. This influences mood and as we know, mental health is not less important than physical health. Research has proved that single people suffer from mood swings and even depression more often.

8 LOWER RISK OF SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES


Married people have a regular and stable sex life. They do not need to constantly look for a sexual partner. This lowers the risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases. We are now talking about couples in which both partners love each other and stay loyal and faithful to each other. People who disrespect their spouses and cheat on them stay at a higher risk of STDs.

9. LOOKING AFTER YOURSELF


Statistic data show that married females and males are healthier. Some married people feel so responsible for their beloved that they start taking better care of themselves, they quit bad habits which leads to a longer life. It is devastating and destructive to live in a relationship where people misunderstand and mistreat each other. In this case life can only be shorter and health much worse. So, the point here is not just to get married for the sake of marriage but to be happily married, enjoy your married life, love your partner and be loved back.

10 LONGER LIFE


It has been estimated that the number of people who die is twice as high among unmarried couples. Married people take better care of each other, their partners and provide help if needed. People who feel responsible for their spouse and kids feel the need to take care of themselves. They understand that there is someone who needs them. Advice: If you want to live longer, get married. Do not make a mistake though by marrying someone who is not your true soul mate!

INTERESTIN

All of this is based on the assumption that you marry a good partner, right?

mizzkeji44:
INTERESTIN

. nw ur marriage hungry right?

Justosaus:
All of this is based on the assumption that you marry a good partner, right?

sure.

Op weldone really for this piece. The other thread was really disturbing...

kuphid:
Op weldone really for this piece. The other thread was really disturbing...

thanks kuphid. the other thread was more than disturbing to me, had to search vigorously through the net for this piece of info. Marriage is a good thing, no one should speak ill of it cos we all came out of it.

ayusco85:


. nw ur marriage hungry right?

Marriage ke? for where?

nice thread nt lyk d oda.if u wnt to mary fyn,if u dnt wnt to mary dnt spoil oda pple's mind.if no marriage no children world population decreases

kuphid:
Op weldone really for this piece. The other thread was really disturbing...

You were scared the number of your suitors would reduce abi?

For someone who is indifferent, if you weigh the argument, this thread is too weak for the other one.

ayusco85:
6 HEALTH ISSUES SOLVED
Not only ladies experience health benefits. Married men are also healthier both mentally and emotionally when they are married. They are taken care of, feel loved and needed. It’s good for men’s cardiovascular system. They are less prone to strokes, heart attacks and other diseases.

hahahahahahahahaha like seriously the thought of living with a woman for that long;is enough to drive one insane
going by this your logic everyone without a wife will get. a disease of some sort
you should sign up for "AY's open mic contest"

ayusco85:
2. FULFILLING LIFE
Since a couple earns better money it means that they can improve their living condition and buy a better house or apartment in a nice location. They can also afford travelling, better food and education for their children.

seems you haven't heard about "WHEN YOU MARRY A WOMAN YOU MARRY HER AND HER PROBLEMS" where is the balance in that

nickz:
hahahahahahahahaha like seriously the thought of living with a woman for that long;is enough to drive one insane
going by this your logic everyone without a wife will get. a disease of some sort
you should sign up for "AY's open mic contest"seems you haven't heard about "WHEN YOU MARRY A WOMAN YOU MARRY HER AND HER PROBLEMS" where is the balance in that

trust me with proper management u can realise that. stop been pessimistic and be optimistic u will see sense in that post

if this thread no make fp make my iPhone 6 fall for water

Pdizzle:
For someone who is indifferent, if you weigh the argument, this thread is too weak for the other one.

that says alot about where u stand

ayusco85:


trust me with proper management u can realise that. stop been pessimistic and be optimistic u will see sense in that post

woe betide any man that thinks marriage is an escape route to financial burden

ayusco85:


thanks kuphid. the other thread was more than disturbing to me, had to search vigorously through the net for this piece of info. Marriage is a good thing, no one should speak ill of it cos we all came out of it.

Great one there!
That OP probably got married for the wrong reasons to the wrong person! And then thought he'd brainwash the people he would with his wack and ungodly ideas about marriage!

hizson:
if this thread no make fp make my iPhone 6 fall for water

lol. iphone 6 abi tecno fone?

Sanguine:



Great one there!
That OP probably got married for the wrong reasons to the wrong person! And then thought he'd brainwash the people he would with his wack and ungodly ideas about marriage!

key word there. thats d problem i had with his thread

OP with all due respect, you spewed thrash up there. Your post is based on mere assumption that you marry the right person and not on reality. How many people can be faithful as u stated? We're talkin about reality here, the other thread was way more realistic than this fantasy-filled thread.

So married people live longer yet there are dozens of widows everywhere? Some are even begging for govt to hook them up.

I'm not a pessimist and I'm not tryin to downplay the marriage institution, you tried in makin an attempt to counter the other thread but like someone said, this thread is too weak to counter the other one. This thread is based on assumption while the other one is based on the reality aspect of it.

Threads and counter-threads....... Na waa!!!

Marriage is not for everyone: some people are psychologically made to be married, others are not. Some people's lives gets a very positive boost when they get married, others take a downward spiral. We shouldn't expect everybody to get married, and stereotype every (middle-aged) single person as irresponsible/morally bankrupt.

Depending on the individual, these 10 benefits (or even more not stated) might apply to you if/when you get married, or the disadvantages in the other thread might suffice.

There are no general laws for every marriage; to each his/her own.

Williamso:
Threads and counter-threads....... Na waa!!!

this aint a counter thread.