NewStats: 3,262,877 , 8,178,441 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 09:46 PM 1q1w29

Hey, okay so I stumbled upon a post on FP centered around side chicks and sorts. Being really free at work today; slouched in my seat, there was ample space and time to permit a rambling on the discourse. Perhaps for the purpose of banter or some #realTalk, now I proceed to put my keypad to words.

ANITA is a side chick to 5 guys which includes John. I guess she believes in diversity and variety lol. You can call her a professional side chick...hmmm baby oku.




JULIET is John's main chick and only John. Although she doesn't see a future with John but she loves him with everything she calls her soul...awwwwww sweet innit?




Few years after graduation, Anita and Juliet find themselves both single at 29.
Anita runs a boutique, perhaps a subtle reward for many rugged years in the Chick industry.
Juliet hasn't changed much, she has a job - the typical make I dey commot for house job- and still remains a wife material. Her life is far from miserable, far from satisfaction. Moreso, she doesn't shop at Anita's boutique, too pricey for her monthly alerts.



Moral: until he puts a ring on it, you might just be a side chick. It's not by title, it's by reward. Whatever you do, make the most out of it. #peace #phewww

I wouldn't know what you're aiming at...Are u trying to say being decent doesn't matter? And that what count Is how successful you are financially afterward? As in the end justify the means? Hmmm!

some kind of truth

Otunbakay:
I wouldn't know what you're aiming at...Are u trying to say being decent doesn't matter? And that what count Is how successful you are financially afterward? As in the end justify the means? Hmmm!

I wouldn't know what you meant by "being decent"

clemz85:
some kind of truth

Yes boss...ugly truth.

To be honest, aion grab thy point.

donsalvy:
To be honest, aion grab thy point.

K

This is a wicked post. Intended @ causing commotion between ladies and their boyfriends who are yet to propose. But if you analyze it critically, na TRUE.

klodike:
This is a wicked post. Intended @ causing commotion between ladies and their boyfriends who are yet to proposed. But if you analyze it critically, na TRUE.

LoL.. bro most people already know this but they'd rather live in denial.

No matter how rich or successful ANITA maybe,the word "wife material" you qualified JULIET with, is the utmost.

So what shall it profit Juliet to be a wife material and still end up single?? My advice to ladies don't waste more than 6mnths with a niccur who is not ready.

mesoade:
No matter how rich or successful ANITA maybe,the word "wife material" you qualified JULIET with, is the utmost.

Elements of truth abound in the OP's Analysis... Being a Main chick is a Side chick doesnt guarantee a "Slot down the Aisle"..

klodike:
So what shall it profit Juliet to be a wife material and still end up single?? My advice to ladies don't waste more than 6mnths with a niccur who is not ready.

what are you saying?,read original post again.


And for your post,
with the rate at which their are few wife material(like 4 in 500),with the rate at which they are in high demand,how will a girl with gud qualities be single?

pryd:


I wouldn't know what you meant by "being decent"

"Few years after graduation, Anita and Juliet find themselves both single ap 29" But
"Juliet hasn't changed much" "Her life is far from miserable, far from satisfaction. Moreso, she doesn't shop at Anita's boutique, too pricey for her monthly alerts."
"Anita runs a boutique, perhaps a subtle reward for many rugged years in the chick industry"

The above quotes SIR, is what I meant

mesoade:
No matter how rich or successful ANITA maybe,the word "wife material" you qualified JULIET with, is the utmost.

Really??
'Wife material' at 29? perhaps even at 35 or is the title some sort of societal consolation?? mockery?? Besides what's the guarantee she'd get married before Anita or have a better home..

pryd:


Really??
'Wife material' at 29? perhaps even at 35 or is the title some sort of societal consolation?? mockery?? Besides what's the guarantee she'd get married before Anita or have a better home..

for the fact that she's a "wife material" dosnt mean she'd get married before Anita ,but she'l surely have a better home dan Anita

Otunbakay:


"Few years after graduation, Anita and Juliet find themselves both single ap 29" But
"Juliet hasn't changed much" "Her life is far from miserable, far from satisfaction. Moreso, she doesn't shop at Anita's boutique, too pricey for her monthly alerts."
"Anita runs a boutique, perhaps a subtle reward for many rugged years in the chick industry"

The above quotes SIR, is what I meant

Thank you. bro I understood what you meant initially, I only wanted you to play your hands. lol
You term Juliet as decent right? well that's according to your own standard/definition. For some other people, whoever that engages in pre-marital affair(sex) is indecent. Therefore, the issue of decency does not hold water in the above analogy.

Djangocode:
Elements of truth abound in the OP's Analysis... Being a Main chick is a Side chick doesnt guarantee a "Slot down the Aisle"..

Well said boss!!

mesoade:
for the fact that she's a "wife material" dosnt mean she'd get married before Anita ,but she'l surely have a better home dan Anita

C'mon bro neither Anita nor Juliet can guarantee a happy home.

pryd:


C'mon bro neither Anita nor Juliet can guarantee a happy home.

Okay

mesoade:
Okay

Better..

pryd:


Thank you. bro I understood what you meant initially, I only wanted you to play your hands. lol
You term Juliet as decent right? well that's according to your own standard/definition. For some other people, whoever that engages in pre-marital affair(sex) is indecent. Therefore, the issue of decency does not hold water in the above analogy.

Maybe so, if you choose to bring in religion, but I believe you and I know what we are talking about here. No need for pretence.
We all know the minimum standard for decency..."Conforming with generally accepted standards of morality or respectability."

I didn't say she was perfect. Afterall we are human.

You concluded by saying
"Whatever you do, make the most out of it." After painting the alluring life of a seemingly prostitute so to say.
My question now is what are you aiming at or trying to encourage the girl child or even the women folk.

Otunbakay:


Maybe so, if you choose to bring. In religion, but I believe you and I know what we are talking about here. No need for pretence.
We all know the minimum standard for decency..."Conforming with generally accepted standards of morality or respectability."

You concluded by saying
"Whatever you do, make the most out of it." After painting the alluring life of a seemingly prostitute so to say.
My question now is what are you aiming at or trying to encourage the girl child or even the women folk.

I did not attempt in anyway to bring religion into this, I don't play such cards. Besides there are various religions, which are you gonna make reference to?

Is there now a degree for morality?
Both ladies were playing a similar game but they set different rules for themselves, therein lies the issue.
Ofcourse we must maximise our actions and dealings. I have no special advice for the proverbial girl child.

Stupid write-up. Moral: You are a lousy writer.

I'm coming....I need to ask a lady for permission to read this.

ismokeweed:
Stupid write-up. Moral: You are a lousy writer.

blunt comment. moral: you are rude

ismokeweed:
Stupid write-up. Moral: You are a lousy writer.

bwahahahahaaha
1. Stay away from lousy write-ups.
2. Stay away from wet skunks, go for spliffs.

Pervert1:
blunt comment. moral: you are rude

Don't flatter him jorr.

pryd:


I did not attempt in anyway to bring religion into this, I don't play such cards. Besides there are various religions, which are you gonna make reference to?

Is there now a degree for morality?
Both ladies were playing a similar game but they set different rules for themselves, therein lies the issue.
Ofcourse we must maximise our actions and dealings. I have no special advice for the proverbial girl child.

Any religion that comes into your mind, at least, the last time I checked no religion multiple partners for females. Not even the african traditional religion.

I disagree with you that both ladies were playing similar game...one was living a normal decent life while the other was living a life only you would want to encourage.

One can stand before anybody and anywhere in the world to say...this is my life, this is my relationship status while the other won't be able to do same with her head up.

Otunbakay:


Any religion that comes into your mind, at least, the last time I checked no religion multiple partners for females. Not even the african traditional religion.

I disagree with you that both ladies were playing similar game...one was living a normal decent life while the other was living a life only you would want to encourage.

One can stand before anybody and anywhere in the world to say...this is my life, this is my relationship status while the other won't be able to do same with her head up.

Sorry no religion came to my mind. You can't authoritavely claim no religion s having multiple partners. Yet again your premise is entirely focused on the views of fellow humans.
Are you invariably saying people without partners or multiple partners are living abnormal and indecent lives?
The only thing I'm encouraging is whatever you decide to do for/with yourself, make the most out of it.

pryd:


Sorry no religion came to my mind. You can't authoritavely claim no religion s having multiple partners. Yet again your premise is entirely focused on the views of fellow humans.
Are you invariably saying people without partners or multiple partners are living abnormal and indecent lives?
The only thing I'm encouraging is whatever you decide to do for/with yourself, make the most out of it.

Including, according to you...if you are an armed robber, kill, rob and maim as many people as possible because that is what he/she has decided to do.

He/she should make the most out of it or better still maximise his/he profession.

Otunbakay:


Including, according to you...if you are an armed robber, kill, rob and maim as many people as possible because that is what he/she has decided to do.

He/she should make the most out of it or better still maximise his/he profession.

LOL I was half expecting this line, emotion has been brought to the fore.
If you were an armed robber ain't ya gonna maximise? lol