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A woman told me her story the day I approached her for relationship advice
I hope someone out there learns something.

" I lost my dad when I was in form one and my mum struggled to see me through secondary school.
I love attending church programs especially when its not in my village.that was where I meet bro Paul.he wasn't too good looking a man but loves education.he promised to buy me ission form into offa. poly which he did.
one day he brought my ission letter to my town and told me to prepare and he will be back in two weeks time.
I ran to my uncles house with joy and told him I got itted into the polytechnic.instead of rejoicing with me,he scared me with words I will never forget. He said "it not your type they are looking for in school."
all hope was lost.
when mr Paul returned I told him I can't make it because there is no one to sponsor me.
he looked into my eyes and told me he would sponsor me.
I was shocked.
I ran home to tell my friends.they mocked me and said I will become his wife.
later that day I meet him and told him I will not marry him.
he stared at me for a while and said no problem.
mr Paul was there for me till I finished my national diploma.he paid my fee and brought me foodstuff sometimes.
after my ND I returned to my town and took a job as a clerk
Mr. Paul came again with hnd form and promise to see me through. My studies.
I was confused as to why he is interested in me.
then I was more enlightened and felt I deserve to marry someone in the city.so I insist I won't marry him
I told my uncle am going for hnd.he said I can go and he will see if I can become anything.
long story short mr Paul saw me through school. He was there on my last day in school.
he gave me a big hug and

and

that was the last time I ever saw him.


today this woman is in her late 30s or early 40s and still single.

MŔ PÁÚĹ ĨŚ ĔĨŤĤĔŔ ĨMPŐŤĔŃŤ ŐŔ Á ŴĨŹÁŔĎ

so what is the lesson from this?

D gal no wan marry ni

iceberylin: MŔ PÁÚĹ ĨŚ ĔĨŤĤĔŔ ĨMPŐŤĔŃŤ ŐŔ Á ŴĨŹÁŔĎ

LOL, guy no be u go kill me!

frijos:

LOL, guy no be u go kill me!

Ú ĞŐ ĹĨVĔ ĹŐŃĞ ĴÁŔĔĤ

God knows who is who......

Mr. Paul the good samaritan



But wait o...maybe the op is the woman, trying to find Mr. Paul...so she can hook up

No wonder she even say she never marry, so that Mr. Paul go know if him dey nairaland

Chai...this woman too get sense

iceberylin: MŔ PÁÚĹ ĨŚ ĔĨŤĤĔŔ ĨMPŐŤĔŃŤ ŐŔ Á ŴĨŹÁŔĎ

HOW?

Hmmm. Easy to collect money from him but hard to marry him. That's "woman" for you.

moral: gals shuld marry anybodi dat's mr. paul.

Eeyah...something must be wrong with the lady in question.

Eeya

ndcide:

HOW?

Á MÁŃ ŚPĔŃĎĨŃĞ Ń ĞĔŤŤĨŃĞ ŃŐŤĤĨŃĞ

oh! I see. just that I don't operate at that level hence didn't understand.

I give selflessly. I don't expect sex when I give a lady. she should just be happy.

All that a man has, was/is given to him. (for a reason)

iceberylin:
Á MÁŃ ŚPĔŃĎĨŃĞ Ń ĞĔŤŤĨŃĞ ŃŐŤĤĨŃĞ

oh! I see. just that I don't operate at that level hence didn't understand.

I give selflessly. I don't expect sex when I give a lady. she should just be happy.

All that a man has, was/is given to him. (for a reason)

Op tell her amu mister paul

ndcide:




oh! I see. just that I don't operate at that level hence didn't understand.

I give selflessly. I don't expect sex when I give a lady. she should just be happy.

All that a man has, was/is given to him. (for a reason)




oh! I see. just that I don't operate at that level hence didn't understand.

I give selflessly. I don't expect sex when I give a lady. she should just be happy.

All that a man has, was/is given to him. (for a reason)

Good for u

Eeeeehya I pity Mr Paul who was ission-zoned despite all his investment

iceberylin:

ŶŐÚ ČŐÚĹĎ ßĔ ĨMPŐŤĔŃŤ too




(ŃŐ ŐŦŦĔŃČĔ )

ŃÁ ĴŐĶĔ Ő

nawa for this guy o

iceberylin:

ŶŐÚ ČŐÚĹĎ ßĔ ĨMPŐŤĔŃŤ too




(ŃŐ ŐŦŦĔŃČĔ )

ŃÁ ĴŐĶĔ Ő

silly joke. your dick shouldn't dictate your actions.

kekakuz: A woman told me her story the day I approached her for relationship advice
I hope someone out there learns something.

" I lost my dad when I was in form one and my mum struggled to see me through secondary school.
I love attending church programs especially when its not in my village.that was where I meet bro Paul.he wasn't too good looking a man but loves education.he promised to buy me ission form into offa. poly which he did.
one day he brought my ission letter to my town and told me to prepare and he will be back in two weeks time.
I ran to my uncles house with joy and told him I got itted into the polytechnic.instead of rejoicing with me,he scared me with words I will never forget. He said "it not your type they are looking for in school."
all hope was lost.
when mr Paul returned I told him I can't make it because there is no one to sponsor me.
he looked into my eyes and told me he would sponsor me.
I was shocked.
I ran home to tell my friends.they mocked me and said I will become his wife.
later that day I meet him and told him I will not marry him.
he stared at me for a while and said no problem.
mr Paul was there for me till I finished my national diploma.he paid my fee and brought me foodstuff sometimes.
after my ND I returned to my town and took a job as a clerk
Mr. Paul came again with hnd form and promise to see me through. My studies.
I was confused as to why he is interested in me.
then I was more enlightened and felt I deserve to marry someone in the city.so I insist I won't marry him
I told my uncle am going for hnd.he said I can go and he will see if I can become anything.
long story short mr Paul saw me through school. He was there on my last day in school.
he gave me a big hug and

and

that was the last time I ever saw him.


today this woman is in her late 30s or early 40s and still single.

a touching story

Dere is notin to learn oh

moral lesson: dont repay good with evil. no wicked act will go unpunished.
paul is currently living happily married life with someone who had sense and their 3 children.

ndcide:

silly joke. your dick shouldn't dictate your actions.

Am sorry

Ladies na don hear am? Any guy that settles your financial difficulties and doesn't ask for sex definitely has back up plans. Am sure if you know what the plan is you'll want to kill him with sex
No be me talk am o. That's what the op wants you to learn from this story ni o.

she was enlightened and felt she needed to marry someone from the city
question is where is the supposed city husband?

am dumbstrucked...... So whr is Mr. Paul now @ OP?

U guys no get sense. The lesson is very easy. Moral lesson- whatever man you see that is good enough to do great things for you, is good enough to be your spouse. And if u lose that person, God will punish u.

krall: moral lesson: dont repay good with evil. no wicked act will go unpunished.
paul is currently living happily married life with someone who had sense and their 3 children.

who told you.
he could be an angel

iceberylin:
Am sorry

first ever person to apologize on nairaland

It's Either Mr Paul used juju in the village to prevent her from getting married or, she has not found her city husband yet

kekakuz:
first ever person to apologize on nairaland

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