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how far can you go?   how do you react?  what do you do?   for every fight do you react differently? what if your partner know you so well and they already know your weak point and take advantage of it when a fight happens what do you do?

with me i stop answering his calls for a couple of days and after a while i start getting worried if He is not calling anymore, then i start thinking about calling him back, and then i don't want to swallow my pride then i get anxious and so on, 

n you?

Aaaaaaaaaah, I love those pillow fights moments! Whatever the problem was no sleepin till we kiss and make up.

I tend to get colder than i usually am

Gucci_Babe:

how far can you go? how do you react? what do you do? for every fight do you react differently? what if your partner know you so well and they already know your week point and take advantage of it when a fight happens what do you do?

with me[b] i stop answering his calls[/b] for a couple of days and after a while[b] i start getting worried if He is not calling anymore,[/b] then i start thinking about calling him back, and then i don't want to swallow my pride then i get anxious and so on,

n you?

lool, u resemble me on that one

errrg hate those moments , . .

Nella

I know right. thats like the worst feeling ever!

I will probably just avoid him for a while. I can ignore him until he caves in and apologizes first.

another one I hate is when he apologizes and do the same thing again. Then its like I havn't punished him enough, That sucks!

Gucci_Babe:

another one I hate is when he apologizes and do the same thing again. Then its like I havn't punished him enough, That sucks!

I KNOW!!!! Then the whole thing starts all over again like freaking clock work. What a annoying cycle.

LOLL!!!

And after avoiding him for awhile. Then i start worrying my precious little head. I wonder if he is cheating. Men have some serious issues i swear. you can't live with them and you can live without them

chaiii women too like shakara

Gucci_Babe:

LOLL!!!

And after avoiding him for awhile. Then i start worrying my precious little head. I wonder if he is cheating. Men have some serious issues i swear. you can't live with them and you can live without them

Me, i don't necessary worry. I might give him some thought, but if he knows what is good for him, he will behave himself.

rampagain:

chaiii women too like shakara

uh uh! its called pride!

pride only comes in wen u refuse to call him after hes stopped calling

shakara comes in wen u refused to answer his calls,msgs and so on

rampagain:

pride only comes in when u refuse to call him after hes stopped calling

shakara comes in when u refused to answer his calls,msgs and so on

lol!! I don't totally agree with you on that one

ok,if u say so,but i don't see pride been associated wt not answering his calls,its more like keep calling and keep begging, to me

Are guys thick? Why is it that when you proffer an idea, they storm off and tell you, "you are not my mother", "don't tell me what to do", blah, blah, blah, then they come back a few hours later and tell you "they have an idea" Guess what the idea is The one they told you they did not want to hear from you

Tell me about it!   don't you get annoyed  when you demand an explanation and  they end up saying " I said what I had to say" and thats probably nothing that can justify the way you feel at the moment, and when you start pressing  them to talk more  " why are you yelling, or  you nagg too much,  I don't get it

I'm in that condition too, he's called me after the misunderstanding and of course, didn't answer but damn! I miss him so much, trying to extend it to 2 more wks then after wards maybe call him. That's life.

Desiree1:

I'm in that condition too, he's called me after the misunderstanding and of course, didn't answer but damn! I miss him so much, trying to extend it to 2 more wks then after wards maybe call him. That's life.

hmmnnn! women,

pride or shakara, y'all should know its not necessay most times, esp when u have an intolerant partner, u might be doin more harm than good

@ lonelypal

what would u do if u r in my shoes?

it really depends on the offence.

Ignore works but sometimes back fires
Calling a friend works but sometimes back fires

But one thing that will work is sitting down with him/her and talking it out. If your partner is not one that listens very well then either that works for you and you stay or it does not and you leave.

Communication. Ask me how i learned this lesson. . . . LOL

@sistawoman

so good to hear from u again. At work now, just thut I'd browse thru. Well u know my story, as @ now, he called me bout 3days ago twice but i dodnt answer n he left me a message, saying he knows i would n't answer but he can understand. Haven't herd from him since then and i havent called him, trying to leave it 2 2 more wks but truthfully I miss him.

-cut the line
-ignore
-stab in the jugular

Desiree1:

@sistawoman

so good to hear from u again. At work now, just thut I'D browse through. Well u know my story, as @ now, he called me bout 3days ago twice but i dodnt answer n he left me a message, saying he knows i would n't answer but he can understand. Haven't herd from him since then and i havent called him, trying to leave it 2 2 more wks but truthfully I miss him.

do you wnat him to blow up your phone? Im confused

Desiree1:

@sistawoman

so good to hear from u again. At work now, just thut I'D browse through. Well u know my story, as @ now, he called me bout 3days ago twice but i dodnt answer n he left me a message, saying he knows i would n't answer but he can understand. Haven't herd from him since then and i havent called him, trying to leave it 2 2 more wks but truthfully I miss him.

R u done with him or going back to him.

If you are done with him then you should never pick the phone and call him. Let him be. Just sing this song:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6olU1D70eys


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAMqhe7dpqQ

empower yourself and when you feel weakness come to us we will help you and hold you up and give you those words that will keep you strong.

Desiree1:

@ lonelypal

what would u do if you're in my shoes?

As d sayin goes two wrongs cannot make a right,sometimes problems makes the relationship stronger, if i were in ur shoes i would see it as one of those challenges we r bound to face in relationships and i wouldnt tke a rational decision like urs, we all deserve a second chance dnt u think so?

@ lonelypal
sigh i guess so but why must this alws happen when two pple really love eachother? well he has to show me how serious he is too, calling twice isn't enuf, i want to wait n see his next step 4 sum1 that claims he is in love, right

@ sistawoman

I've thut bout it so many times, met other pple, still my mind tells me to make up with him n work things out


@ Karmamod
Confused bout what?

Desiree1:

@ lonelypal
sigh i guess so but why must this alws happen when two people really love eachother? :'( well he has to show me how serious he is too, calling twice isn't enough, i want to wait n see his next step 4 someone that claims he is in love, right

thats what relationships n courtship is all about, getting to know eachother inside-out
its good u want him to know ur worth, but i will advice u do it with caution

All I do is cry and of course he can't stand it when I do that.

I'll get into various mood swings.

It depends if i am at fault i will apologise to any length but if the girl is at fault then she has to return the favor

As 4 me, he's at fault yet he still has this ittle pride so im keeping my distance too 2 see his next step but it aint easy. even if he's not thinking bout me, im thinking bout if he's ok n happy? i wish i could call him now but i gotta do wat i have to do rite?