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The argument has proven the point, so as the man, I always apologize and shortly after my woman apologize too and say jokingly, "ur wahala is too much wizard".

NB: I always love her more when we after any argument.

ifyalways: Nowadays,I sit and reflect honestly first then apologize. I try to analyze "what went wrong, how we could have resolved it and how to avoid same scenario from repeating itself" .
Afterwards,I go to my man on bended knees,stark naked, hail him, massage his isi nkwocha, tell him we both behaved like kids,bring up my already thought out "better conflict resolution" plans then end it with correct kpekus.

There and then,all sins are forgotten and forgiven.

Been long I read from u, but this that vacated the break is BOMBSHELL!

ifyalways: Nowadays,I sit and reflect honestly first then apologize. I try to analyze "what went wrong, how we could have resolved it and how to avoid same scenario from repeating itself" .
Afterwards,I go to my man on bended knees,stark naked, hail him, massage his isi nkwocha, tell him we both behaved like kids,bring up my already thought out "better conflict resolution" plans then end it with correct kpekus.

There and then,all sins are forgotten and forgiven.

miqos02: you try as much as possible to avoid shouting at your partner, but sometimes you cant just help it. how do you reconcile after such big fight

Oga miqos02... First off You must try as much as possible to avoid shouting.. Don't let you emotions control you.. You should rather control ur emotions..

To reconcile after a big fight one must apologise to the other.. It also depends on who is at fault.. But there are some crazy partners that are too pompous to apologise.. I think a partner should sholve pride asside and apologise whole heartedly and both partners should have a chat abt what led to the shouting and try to avoid such re occouring..

My two cent

thanks yellowpawpaw... i'll try soo much this week and tell you results later...
i hope it works..

onila:

tufia!!

my virgin eyes did not read this

how cld u stoop so low

Hav u been in a relationship b4?

I know she can't resist pepper soup, I will just go out and get a plate then make up cx........

Mehn,pillow talk z d best. Lolz

With a plate of beans & 3 rounds of sex.

I was once angered by my babe. though shoutings didnt ensue, I was the first to drag her to my laps for mending and clarifications.
Never expect altercations anytime soon

Just tell him/her,

"Baby, i am feeling pain in my heart, i can't breath properly."

When she comes close, steal a kiss and say "I am sorry joor, i ed the message wrongly "

veave: yellowpawpaw... please i need classes on how to handle pride and a quick temper. i also have a fast tongue too... i promise myself everyday i wunt flare upp and raise my voice... but i just dont know how...

i think i have d same problem as you

Hmm when am angry i just yell and say it's over and i just don't know how to control it. The painful thing is i know how to keep malice alot which is really affecting me,it also surprise me how a lady like me will keep malice for close to 2,3 yrs with people and sometimes i feel bothered but just can't say am sorry or fathom how to make up with people. It has cost me my luv ones,the hatred 2wards people that anony me is just too much and i dnt know how to control it. In my luv life i just walk out when my partner get me angry and that is it,i'll keep malice,stop visiting and stop receiving his calls and it will take months b4 realising my mistake when my partner might have finds himself another lady and once there is another,i just withdraw myself. This has really affected me negatively

I and my boo never yell at each other, we just say things on our mind during misunderstandins though she has said tins she ended up apologizing for... Every misunderstandin we have brings us together closer, and it never repeats itself... Ur partner should b d last person you should yell at; it's not healthy.

yellowpawpaw:
My dear, some pple r damn to proud to say sorry. Rather they will try to justify calling black red with senseless arguments. For peace to reign, u will end up saying u r sorry.
But for how long?

Very correct, my dear!!!! But on the contrary, I CANNOT and WILL NEVER say sorry when my partner is wrong and is being on the defencive. That is called oppression. Let that peace not reign. I am so unserious and rarely ever get angry but when I do, its hard for me to get out of it. And whatever gets me angry must have made the normal tempered person angry over and over again. I actually run from source of anger like hell. I hate anger! I hate tears! I hate depression! But I hate quiet people more sha.
But a shouting spouse is only wasting his time where I'm concerned cos I won't even listen to a thing. I'm a noisy person so he's only doing what I like....noise

miqos02: does he ever say sorry even when its obvious that he is wrong?

He doesn't come out to say sorry. He just leaves the house and calls on the phone to ask a question he knows the answer to! Or he'll just say "so you're boning for me abi?" And we're back to square 1.

arcbabe: Hmm when am angry i just yell and say it's over and i just don't know how to control it. The painful thing is i know how to keep malice alot which is really affecting me,it also surprise me how a lady like me will keep malice for close to 2,3 yrs with people and sometimes i feel bothered but just can't say am sorry or fathom how to make up with people. It has cost me my luv ones,the hatred 2wards people that anony me is just too much and i dnt know how to control it. In my luv life i just walk out when my partner get me angry and that is it,i'll keep malice,stop visiting and stop receiving his calls and it will take months b4 realising my mistake when my partner might have finds himself another lady and once there is another,i just withdraw myself. This has really affected me negatively

first, kill ur pride.. Sayin u're sorry wont take a cent from you...! How hard can that be baby?! Work on yaself, leabr to accomodate people... Give ur life to Christ...

arcbabe: Hmm when am angry i just yell and say it's over and i just don't know how to control it. The painful thing is i know how to keep malice alot which is really affecting me,it also surprise me how a lady like me will keep malice for close to 2,3 yrs with people and sometimes i feel bothered but just can't say am sorry or fathom how to make up with people. It has cost me my luv ones,the hatred 2wards people that anony me is just too much and i dnt know how to control it. In my luv life i just walk out when my partner get me angry and that is it,i'll keep malice,stop visiting and stop receiving his calls and it will take months b4 realising my mistake when my partner might have finds himself another lady and once there is another,i just withdraw myself. This has really affected me negatively

first, kill ur pride.. Sayin u're sorry wont take a cent from you...! How hard can that be baby?! Work on yaself, leabr to accomodate people... Give ur life to Christ...

arcbabe: Hmm when am angry i just yell and say it's over and i just don't know how to control it. The painful thing is i know how to keep malice alot which is really affecting me,it also surprise me how a lady like me will keep malice for close to 2,3 yrs with people and sometimes i feel bothered but just can't say am sorry or fathom how to make up with people. It has cost me my luv ones,the hatred 2wards people that anony me is just too much and i dnt know how to control it. In my luv life i just walk out when my partner get me angry and that is it,i'll keep malice,stop visiting and stop receiving his calls and it will take months b4 realising my mistake when my partner might have finds himself another lady and once there is another,i just withdraw myself. This has really affected me negatively

first, kill ur pride.. Sayin u're sorry wont take a cent from you...! How hard can that be baby?! Work on yaself, leabr to accomodate people... Give ur life to Christ...

ifyalways: Nowadays,I sit and reflect honestly first then apologize. I try to analyze "what went wrong, how we could have resolved it and how to avoid same scenario from repeating itself" .
Afterwards,I go to my man on bended knees,stark naked, hail him, massage his isi nkwocha, tell him we both behaved like kids,bring up my already thought out "better conflict resolution" plans then end it with correct kpekus.

There and then,all sins are forgotten and forgiven.

Tnks ifyalways
Ll never forget this method

ifyalways: Nowadays,I sit and reflect honestly first then apologize. I try to analyze "what went wrong, how we could have resolved it and how to avoid same scenario from repeating itself" .
Afterwards,I go to my man on bended knees,stark naked, hail him, massage his isi nkwocha, tell him we both behaved like kids,bring up my already thought out "better conflict resolution" plans then end it with correct kpekus.

There and then,all sins are forgotten and forgiven.

this will sure make a lady cheap and make the guy feel afterall if i get her upset she will come begging on her knees naked and also round it up with sex.

ifyalways: Nowadays,I sit and reflect honestly first then apologize. I try to analyze "what went wrong, how we could have resolved it and how to avoid same scenario from repeating itself" .
Afterwards,I go to my man on bended knees,stark naked, hail him, massage his isi nkwocha, tell him we both behaved like kids,bring up my already thought out "better conflict resolution" plans then end it with correct kpekus.

There and then,all sins are forgotten and forgiven.

(pleads the blood)

paranorman:

first, kill ur pride.. Sayin u're sorry wont take a cent from you...! How hard can that be baby?! Work on yaself, leabr to accomodate people... Give ur life to Christ...

I find it very difficult to say am sorry,the word doesn't even come out of my mouth. I can't even the day i told som1 am sorry.

I go beg!then we kpake,

Yelling is a very bad habit, it has never got to that in my family, often my dad would take a walk and come back when he is well composed, then the issue can be handled with Maturity. Atleast somebody won't be pissed when the other is.

I reconclie wit hurt kiss,wen i luk at him and he is shuting lyk dt i do grap his head nd kissed,4rm dia na bed tings o.

arcbabe: this will sure make a lady cheap and make the guy feel afterall if i get her upset she will come begging on her knees naked and also round it up with sex.

Wrong! She is his wife! Not his girlfriend.

onila:

tufia!!

my virgin eyes did not read this

how cld u stoop so low

Excuse me, how did she stoop.so low? She is talking of her husband and not some random boyfriends, I wonder where this ur fake holier than thou attitude will take u, wen God blesses u with a husband, if u like don't go naked in front of him, let's see how long he will stay.


Before I go,wat are immature children doing on NL and on this thread, this Is a thread for married folks and matured singles in a 'real' relationship. Pls be guided

I will just wait till night and then puck her