NewStats: 3,259,782 , 8,170,903 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 01:18 AM 326hl

@ poster,Sometimes it happens i m particularly happen this is comming from a lady.the antidote to what u feel is simple:
keep urself busy with books ,work,sports etc

look at him objectively and find out reasons he is not the best man for u

Look at urself and find out what he is missing if he doesnt play ball

finally,IF HE DOESN'T LOVE U,THEN HE IS NOT WORTH UR LOVE,MOVE ON FOR THEIR IS STILL MANY PPLE OUT THERE PRAYING TO VE WHAT HE HAS THROWN TO THE DUST.A GOLD FISH HAS NO HIDING PLACE!

doe82:

@ poster,Sometimes it happens i m particularly happen this is comming from a lady.the antidote to what u feel is simple:
keep yourself busy with books ,work,sports etc

look at him objectively and find out reasons he is not the best man for u

Look at yourself and find out what he is missing if he doesnt play ball

finally,IF HE DOESN'T LOVE You,THEN HE IS NOT WORTH UR LOVE,MOVE ON FOR THEIR IS STILL MANY PPLE OUT THERE PRAYING TO VE WHAT HE HAS THROWN TO THE DUST.A GOLD FISH HAS NO HIDING PLACE!

that's the point, i dont knw y i still stick with him, u knw wen am with some1 else, they just irritate me, cos i feel there is no man like him. REASON: I DONT KNOW.

krama:

Have a discussion with the guy and thrash out the issue. If you feel you've put in so much and it still wouldn't work, then move on with your life, and thank God that it happened now without you wasting unnecessary time anymore

I VE DONE THAT A 101 TIMES, BUT ANYTIME WE GET 2 TALK, HE'S ALWAYS LIKE YOU KNW I LOVE U,SO I DONT GET IT

tngtech:

@poster

Try and attend church activities.

tngtech thnks for the suggestion

zheroes:

@ topic,

very simple, care less about the relationship, he will struggle to meet up, if he doesnt never get bothered should the relationship be terminated,infact if he doesnt, you should terminate it, that puts you in the driving seat. he knows you love him very much thats why he is using your head to scrub his floor.

one love!!!

i think thats the problem, over love is doing him. anyway thanks

damn Its not easy at all, I have tried it couple of times but she keeps coming back. Girls una wahala too much.

Kill the person.

Okay jokes away now.Its really difficult but you gats to try cos if u dont youll be decieving the person and its not wholesome.
Just tell the person to give you a break.Tell the person you dont think the relationship will go beyond where it is now.

Not good to the ears of the recipient but u just gats to do it.

This is a delicate process. I am assumming that you have already concluded that the relationship should end.

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GET ON THE OFFENSIVE (ively though, not shouting and ranting)
Lay down rules (or so to speak) and state that the next time it happens you'll,
The rules have to be reasonable such that when they are broken it'll only be logical you next line of action
Definitely there are things happening that you're not happy about. Instead of getting pissed in silence get in out in the open and state the repercussions
You'll be able to justify you're leaving him to yourself (more importantly)