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Crush Or Love? Him Or Me? - Romance - Nairaland 2j1t6
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| fresheva(f): 5:15pm On May 16, 2006 |
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smone is in love with you, u are in love with another person, who should you choose? how do u know the difference between a crush and the real thing (love) |
| Hotstepper(f): 5:34pm On May 16, 2006 |
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as far as am in love with the person am dating, da other party is talking of lust, u dere not date um1 u don't love cuz he loves u, lol
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| fresheva(f): 5:54pm On May 16, 2006 |
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thanks, i will go for who i love now thnks
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| babwilms(m): 4:07pm On May 18, 2006 |
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@fresheva. Wait for other people to give their reply before deciding. I believe you should keep both of them closer to you and shine your eyes very well to know which one of them is good for you. Its a two way thing but don't get into a relationship with both at the same time.
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| fresheva(f): 4:14pm On May 18, 2006 |
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ok thanks i'll wait for more replies
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| eveseh(f): 4:28pm On May 18, 2006 |
 ,i dont really know for now
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| babwilms(m): 4:35pm On May 18, 2006 |
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@fresheva. I also do believe your parents are the best person to ask about this. Trust me parent knows better. For example if i'm dating a girl i will make sure she is close to my mum, because i believe she knows better not that i haven't got a mind of my own. So ask your mum.
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| hotangel2(f): 9:07pm On May 18, 2006 |
fresheva: In as much as i would love to say: i'll go for the one I love. I beg to say no! I'll go for the one who LOVES me. Seriously, i'll choose the guy who LOVES ME! And not the guy I love. If im sure the guy i love, loves me, okay then i'll choose him. But if i dont think the guy i love, loves me back the way i do him, then i'll just choose the guy who loves me. WHy would i do that? Cos if a guy loves a girl soo much, it's an amazing feeling. It'll take just a while as a girl, to love him back. Unlike a girl loving a guy who doesnt love her. She'll die of lovingmatiosis. That is , doing the loving without getting none. 
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| thelma2(f): 2:32pm On May 20, 2006 |
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Celine Dion's song; ', can't say no when the Wrong one loves you right, ' |
| eveseh(f): 2:35pm On May 20, 2006 |
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yea i remeber that song thelma
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| Genial(m): 2:41pm On May 20, 2006 |
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'Hell hath no fury like a woman spurned'. . . The one you love, does he love you back? To quote Tuface (Tuphase, Tufaze?). . . 'It is gooood loving somebody, and that somebody loves you back'. . . . Erm. . . did that make any sense? |
| kimba(m): 7:26pm On May 20, 2006 |
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@fresheva If you are as elegant as the Chinese woman in your profile, i think ill also be in love with you. 
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| fresheva(f): 12:33pm On May 21, 2006 |
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@ kimba hmmm dont even add to my problems oh, anyway thnks too 
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| dakmanzero(m): 2:44pm On May 25, 2006 |
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the smart thing would be to go for the guy that loves u. That way, if it turns out he was pretending, you can just dump him and go your way with no emotional wahala. Unfortunately most girls dont do that- they would much rather go for the one they love, even if he hates them and treats them like dirty rags. I never understood why, but there MUST be a good reason, which is why they keep doing it. Perhaps there is some emotional fulfilment that you get from loving someone, something that u dont get from someone u dont care about but who loves u dearly, perhaps. Or perhaps the guy who loves u appears weak because he's so far gone, the guy that doesnt love u may appear stronger. Also, if a girl has sex with a guy, he will usually act as though he loves her during, and shortly before/after the act, with all the huging, cuddling etc. *shrug*. i guess that may help a girl convince herself that she's loved. It may even be all she needs. *shrug* what do I know. its what u woman ppl do. So, in summary- my advice would be go for the dude that loves u, but ure probably going to go for mr Badboy Playa anyway, and cry in private everytime he tells u to get lost and stop bothering his life. |
| Rhodalyn(f): 2:45pm On May 25, 2006 |
fresheva: do not leave the one U love 4 the one U like because the one U like will leave U for the one he loves! GEDDIT  ?
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| Rhodalyn(f): 2:47pm On May 25, 2006 |
fresheva:If U can't differentiate between love and crush as at now then im afraid U musnt get Urself involved with any guy now! |
| dakmanzero(m): 3:09pm On May 25, 2006 |
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oi rhoda shes not asking about one u love vs one u like shes asking about one u love vs one that loves u big difference there, |
| Rhodalyn(f): 4:02pm On May 25, 2006 |
dakmanzero:nope! looks to me as if she's very confused, if she cant differentiate between love and crush then what makes U think she loves this new guy?? 4 all U know, it's just a crush!which could be brought down to ''like'' well, actually, she's not asking anything cuz she doesnt seem to know what she wants! |
| dakmanzero(m): 4:18pm On May 25, 2006 |
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note: the guy that's 'loved' is the same guy that is being 'crushed', and thus is the guy that is actually being 'liked' (according to ure defn) as such, the question is now: the one u like vs the one that loves u still different from the one u love vs the one u like. she doesnt even like this other dude that is dying for her. Me i pity the guy. he will have to suffer the pain of watching the other chap mess her up and dump her like a bad habit , |
| Rhodalyn(f): 4:32pm On May 25, 2006 |
dakmanzero:that aint love then, it a matter of ''my emotions are deceiving me'' thats why am saying she doesnt know what wants so therefore she must wait Until she knows the diff b/n love and crush |
| fresheva(f): 6:47pm On May 25, 2006 |
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who told u i dont know the difference between crush and love, i only want more opinions on it. i only asked for advice on it |
| Rhodalyn(f): 6:47pm On May 25, 2006 |
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lol, U vex??  please don't be  
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