NewStats: 3,259,260 , 8,169,640 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 02:24 PM 3u3e2v

Hello nairalanders,av been in this relationship for a year now and all of a sudden problems started creeping in just for no reason.we love eachoda very much but just noticed that love alone isnt enuf to keep pple together.we breakup and makeup just for silly reasons.currently we decided to give ourselves a break but cant get him off ma mind and him also becus he sneaks to call me once in a while.ITS A SITUATION OF PPLE BEING IN LUV BUT DUE TO UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES CANT BE TOGETHER.WHAT DO I DO??MOD WUD APPRECIATE THIS ON FP

im sure lack of s-e-x is the main cause of your problems today

my advice

go s-e-x that man of yours asap and end the problems in your relationship

if it doesnt work, s-e-x 190 for more advice

MOD CAN U PLS GET THIS ON FRONTPAGE,I NEED REPLIES

if you guys have been fighting and breaking up then it obvious that there is no communication. when i say communication i dont mean talking but i mean actually talking about the issues you both fight over while figuring out how to avoid those pit falls. if you want it to work you both will have to create a comfortable situation where you both can say whats on your mind without blowing up while finding solutions to the trivial issues you fight over

is this just a ploy to get on FP?

190: im sure lack of s-e-x is the main cause of your problems today

my advice

go s-e-x that man of yours asap and end the problems in your relationship

if it doesnt work, s-e-x 190 for more advice

HW DO U KNW WE AINT HAVING SEX?

Jhulyan: HW DO U KNW WE AINT HAVING SEX?

cos as a sharp guy and a bad guy at that
i would keep vexing with a girl that hasnt s-e-x-ed me,
truss me, s-e-x ur man and save ur relationship

@OP
Can yhou intimae us with some of the things that has been making you guys breakup and makeup.

@OP
people change in r/ship and, as time goes by, they may become more demanding, or not as open minded as they once were.
also, problems dont start creeping for no damn reason, so pls tell us the last three issues you guys had, in order for us to understand what are these issues creeping in your r/ship.

@OP...

Your post is not detailed enough. What are the reasons for your break-ups n make-ups?...
What is actually preventin both of u frm being together?
Throw more light on ds.




It would do you MORE harm and NO good to listen to 190,,let alone replying him.
#jt a word of caution....@OP

It would do you MORE harm and NO good to listen to 190,,let alone replying him.
#jt a word of caution....@OP

why - cant i voice my own opinions too

Some people are just funny ohh!!You didn't categorically state the "so called un-forseen circumstances/problems" and yet you want an advice that will tackle the problem.. If you dey look for magic,you better go find merlin or zeddicus...

25omega: if you guys have been fighting and breaking up then it obvious that there is no communication. when i say communication i dont mean talking but i mean actually talking about the issues you both fight over while figuring out how to avoid those pit falls. if you want it to work you both will have to create a comfortable situation where you both can say whats on your mind without blowing up while finding solutions to the trivial issues you fight over

is this just a ploy to get on FP?

like I'll be paid millions for being on fp.mtcheeeew.thanks for your comment tho.appreciated

Afam4eva: @OP
Can yhou intimae us with some of the things that has been making you guys breakup and makeup.

actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

190:

cos as a sharp guy and a bad guy at that
i would keep vexing with a girl that hasnt s-e-x-ed me,
truss me, s-e-x ur man and save ur relationship

are you sure you ain't who am talking about?

Jhulyan: like I'll be paid millions for being on fp.mtcheeeew.thanks for your comment tho.appreciated

don't take it personal babe. He's only tryna be humourous.

@topic, we don't know the unforseen issues between you both. Talk about them.

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

190 is right afterall

Dygeasy: 190 is right afterall

beats me

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

190 was right on the money!
so your guys wants something that you cannot give him, and you are wondering why there are issues in your r/ship? lol! isnt it obvious?! you guys tried to be together while you are different and want different things from that r/ship, simple as that!

And you want to kill your feelings for him?

MRbrownJAY:

190 was right on the money!
so your guys wants something that you cannot give him, and you are wondering why there are issues in your r/ship? lol! isnt it obvious?! you guys tried to be together while you are different and want different things from that r/ship, simple as that!

can't someone have a perfect and problem free relationship without s e x?

Jhulyan: can't someone have a perfect and problem free relationship without s e x?

YES THEY CAN, if thats what they are "both" seeking......but we can safely say that this is NOT what you guys are about. this guys has an untamed tiger in his groin, and although you are not having sex with him, you should find ways to tame that tiger, in some ways or another. failure to do so will result in problems such as the ones you are having (or worse).

there are many ways to give this guy "happy endings" without having sex, the catch is:"how far are you willing to go to keep this r/ship on track?".

Hmmm!!.. 190, so i misjudged you.
You have bn really consistent in ds sectn.

Al ds 'No Pre-Marital sex ish' is gettng weird n tough by d day.

MRbrownJAY:

YES THEY CAN, if thats what they are "both" seeking......but we can safely say that this is NOT what you guys are about. this guys has an untamed tiger in his groin, and although you are not having sex with him, you should find ways to tame that tiger, in some ways or another. failure to do so will result in problems such as the ones you are having (or worse).

there are many ways to give this guy "happy endings" without having sex, the catch is:"how far are you willing to go to keep this r/ship on track?".

what are those ways pls?

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

Any reason why you are not ready but want to keep him around?

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

Don't tell me that 190 guy is actually correct!
The boy dey make sense sometimes sha oo

from your writing you sound like a kid that shouldn't even be in a relationship to begin with....because i just dont see anyone 20 and up asking this kinda question on nairaland.....my advice to you is to face our education for now...when you are a bit more mature while not give it another try.....

190:


why - cant i voice my own opinions too

Pls do. U were right all d way.seems 190 is an Alfa

alutacontinua:

Don't tell me that 190 guy is actually correct!
The boy dey make sense sometimes sha oo

Heheheh I dey tell u. In every sencelesness there is a sence.

DigitalSignal:

Any reason why you are not ready but want to keep him around?

nothing really, am just scared things might change after it.i just need some time

Mr knowitall.:
from your writing you sound like a kid that shouldn't even be in a relationship to begin with....because i just dont see anyone 20 and up asking this kinda question on nairaland.....my advice to you is to face our education for now...when you are a bit more mature while not give it another try.....

thank you

Jhulyan: nothing really, am just scared things might change after it.i just need some time

No one should force you to do what you do not want. That boy doesn't love you. A loved one never forces you against your wishes. It's your body and you decide what to do with it, and not some stup!d boy who is only after the sex. He can as well go to hell. You don't need such persons.

sexkillz: No one should force you to do what you do not want. That boy doesn't love you. A loved one never forces you against your wishes. It's your body and you decide what to do with it, and not some stup!d boy who is only after the sex. He can as well go to hell. You don't need such persons.

thank you

My dear sexkillz don talk am o!!!

If u r nt ready 2 give up d cookie, don't!!
I can't tell u d number of guys I ve lost bcuz I REFUSED 2 give up d cookie.
Yea its going 2 suck, but until u get 2 a point when u can confidently answer this Q 'me or him?' U r going 2 keep posting threads lyk dis or maybe even take a wrong decision.

And b4 u ask, I'm NOT Team Onila so let no man trouble me!!! I just believe sex is nt a forceful thing


190: hmmmm, I tire 4 u!!!!