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neowelsh(m): 10:14am On Apr 07, 2008
so many people dont know the meaning of true love.

right?

if you are asked to define true love in your own words what would you say?
pls i need your reply cos am writing an article on it, thanks
nigboy(m): 4:03pm On Apr 09, 2008
True love have no definite meaning.
ibkayee(f): 4:06pm On Apr 09, 2008
nigboy:

True love have no definite meaning.
spoken like a true.

this 'true love' is way to divine and rare to be defined. smiley

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Bblak(f): 4:36pm On Apr 09, 2008
A love that is devoid of deceit.so hard to get these days sad
gentledove(f): 4:50pm On Apr 09, 2008
@ Poster,

my own definition of true love is:

SEEING THE ORDINARY PERSON IN AN EXTRA ORDINARY WAY. it can also mean DOING THE ORDINARY THING AND FEELING THE ORDINARY THING IN AN EXTRA ORDINARY WAY.

But looking indepth, just as God is love and God can not be defined, Love can not also be defined. we can only try, we can not get the true meaning.

cool cool cool
TheSly: 4:53pm On Apr 09, 2008
True love is a disease. sad
gentledove(f): 5:02pm On Apr 09, 2008
®~^Sly^~®:

True love is a disease. sad

you are right. an Incurable one for that matter grin
Re: What Is True Love? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Apr 09, 2008
nigboy:

True love have no definite meaning.



True Love is when a chick is controlling your life, you get upset always and it becomes a true life disease
gentledove(f): 6:26pm On Apr 09, 2008
yeankah:



True Love is when a chick is controlling your life, you get upset always and it becomes a true life disease

and when a guy controls your life, sneaks into your every thought unannounced, dominates your talk, your actions and reactions;

when you miss a guy and re his nutty ways and smile,

when you have N10.00 and spends N8.00 buying stuffs for him alone;

when you try calling your mum's number and what you call is his number;

when the only number you offhand is his number

when you try calling the name of your junior brother and you call his name

when you have planned on how to deal with him for being nutty and you get to him and all you can do is smile

when you feel free being with him

when you are free to gossip with him

when you can do all your dirty habits with him

when you rely on him for strenght when you are down

when you need encouragement and all you think of is him

when you seek for cover and you get scolded and spanked and you still receive a 'sorry'

where your Treasure is and your heart is safe

when you think of marriage whenever you think of him and imagine the two of you together with your kids

when he laughs, you feel a sudden stiffness in your bones and the next thing is that you are wet

when you make love and want to make it all over again with him and him only

when you play together like the dog and its puppies

with these and many more, when you feel like this, YOU ARE IN LOVE

but love itself is so incurable. it falls gently on you like the morning dew. it sneaks to you unannounced. LOVE, OPPORTUNITY AND DEATH all come but once in a lifetime. May God have mercy on we ladies and men too o cool
ztyle(m): 12:31am On Apr 10, 2008
The LOVE that is said to be TRUE is TRUE LOVE? abi na lie? wink
chinda3: 12:36am On Apr 10, 2008
true love is a kind of love with feelings u cant explain
Cadet(f): 12:50am On Apr 10, 2008
*scoffs* Until I experience it, I cannot define what True love is.
Re: What Is True Love? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 18, 2008
Cadet:

*scoffs* Until I experience it, I cannot define what True love is.


@Cadet
you're a queen.
hope you'd never let go of your true love? wink
jhibola: 6:16pm On Apr 18, 2008
when u ave 2ru luv, u will feel if, i cant explain what it feels like bt u will surely feel some thing u've never feel b4 and u will do stupid things just 4luv
Cadet(f): 8:53pm On Apr 18, 2008
yeankah:


@Cadet
you're a queen.
hope you'd never let go of your true love? wink

And you're a prince kiss
Re: What Is True Love? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2008
true love comes wt feelings dat does not have a definite definition
Busta(f): 9:01pm On Apr 18, 2008
Cadet:

*scoffs* Until I experience it, I cannot define what True love is.

word!
welli(f): 9:23pm On Apr 18, 2008
@ poster there is nuttin like true and fake love.its eighter love or its not.wat we smtimes call true love is wen we r inlove
Re: What Is True Love? by Nobody: 11:11am On Apr 19, 2008
defining true love is like describing the tast of water so I can't undecided
WebMonk(m): 11:19am On Apr 19, 2008
@poster:
You might want to check this article on the subject:

The triangular theory of love is a theory of love developed by psychologist Robert Sternberg. The theory characterizes love in an interpersonal relationship on three different scales:

Intimacy – Which encomes feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness.
ion – Which encomes drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, and sexual consummation.
Commitment – Which encomes, in the short term, the decision to remain with another, and in the long term, the shared achievements and plans made with that other.
The “amount” of love one experiences depends on the absolute strength of these three components; the “kind” of love one experiences depends on their strengths relative to each other. Different stages and types of love can be explained as different combinations of these three elements; for example, the relative emphasis of each component changes over time as an adult romantic relationship develops. A relationship based on a single element is less likely to survive than one based on two or more.


More on it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love

At the end of the day, some things are the sum of thier parts cool
Cayon(f): 1:52pm On Apr 19, 2008
True love is an itching feeling you have inside and you just can't scratch it wink
ojaylyte: 11:58am On Apr 20, 2008
I'm thinking love hurts so much, we r all better of without it
TOYOSI20(f): 3:31pm On Apr 20, 2008
True Love knows no bounds tongue tongue tongue
Re: What Is True Love? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Apr 20, 2008
True Love?

True Love can be defined as To have a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward (a person)

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