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Women we often have complaints about their men but the most common complaint women voice are that their men are not emotionally available, or not emotionally available enough, they do not listen, or they never share their feelings,
Here is an opportunity to let women see things they may have perhaps
overlooked or neglected about men. Without getting degrading or demoralizing
about negative experiences you may have had what is it you would want women
to know and understand??
spit it out!!!!

I want you women to know something. I am single, gddammit!

sounds like adding gas to fire! you guys know too much already!

prince_onx:

sounds like adding gas to fire! you guys know too much already!

lol, this is funny, i actually forgot wat i wanted to say.

Nwoke:

I want you women to know something. I am single, gddammit!

Okay thanks for saying.

MORE GUYS!!

What should we know? Wat do u want us to know?

l.o.l. I found the first reply funny.



How come the guys aren't replying ?? l.o.l

I wonder.

well the question is maybe u ladies need to give us a formula to understand and read u , u most time are worst than my most difficult mathematics , but u cool anyway when we need that release of excess energy but that happends like say ummmh, ok its a miracle when u can lure to our bed of roses sorry! ladies just speaking my thoughts,

u most time are worst than my most difficult mathematics

lol
we not that diffucult

I dunno if this thread was put up specifically for me and i wonder why i havent seen this uptill now, cos i have a full bag of negative and malicious thoughts about previous experiences with naija women to let out, but then again, the thread forbids such so, maybe i'll for now.

If u want us guyz to come out with anything then dont put any restrictions on the thread, maybe, we'll feel free to speak our minds out.

Oh Free, please remove the restrictions because I really want to hear what Whitelexi has to say.

just like Nwoke

I want you women to know something. I am single, gddammit!

Im number 2,

Nwoke:

I want you women to know something. I am single, gddammit!

Lol women must be crazy to not notice you

Oh Free, please remove the restrictions because I really want to hear what Whitelexi has to say.

lol gurl, okay no restrictions!!!!
so ya'll men can come and talk now!!!

Frankly, I am so sick of listening to men. I have heard it all and now it is time for them to listen to us in my opinion.

One good thing u girls need know is that of understanding and tolerance which most of u do not possess. Experience which i got reveal that most of u girls lack those aforementioned points well i will elaborate more when next i develop a topic 10 GOOD THINGS GIRLS FAIL 2 KNOW ABOUT MEN.

I plan to set up one on 10 Good things men need to know about women. Nwoke, if one already exists, point me to it. Seems like for every 1 post about what men need to know about women, there are about 20 for what women need to know about men. It's all about women having to listen to men. Sure, but make the effort to listen to us and learn . There are a lot of things we women would like men to know too! Women have needs too.

IAH:

Oh Free, please remove the restrictions because I really want to hear what Whitelexi has to say.

Free:

lol girl, okay no restrictions!!!!
so ya'll men can come and talk now!!!

Kai! it looks like i'll be minsed meat if i talk, so i'll talk!
Naija girls need to learn to be romantic, relationships are not all about what the guy can offer and how his character is,   Us guys also value little things and take keen interest in how our women take care of us, 
No harm meant but naija girls are not caring and should not stand there discussing how romantic naija men are when compared with other men. I think the girls need to discuss how to develop themselves so that they are more appealing to their male counterparts

hmm.

whitelexi:

Kai! it looks like i'll be minsed meat if i talk, so i'll talk!
Naija girls need to learn to be romantic, relationships are not all about what the guy can offer and how his character is, Us guys also value little things and take keen interest in how our women take care of us,
No harm meant but naija girls are not caring and should not stand there discussing how romantic naija men are when compared with other men. I think the girls need to discuss how to develop themselves so that they are more appealing to their male counterparts

maybe u shld learn 2 use the word some baby,cos i am carrin n some others ladies are 2.good student

I bet I could take a few things home with me from here. So, I'm all eyes for now.

Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure

   When one person "clings" to another person
"psychologically", the person who is being
"clinged to" RESENTS and REJECTS the needy,
clingy emotional parasite,

nikitareal:

maybe u shld learn 2 use the word some baby,because i am carrin n some others ladies are 2.good student

How caring can u get?

Yeah, whitelex, use 'some ladies', instead of generalising.
I'm all eyes too, *waiting~

Kai! it looks like i'll be minsed meat if i talk, so i'll talk!
Naija girls need to learn to be romantic, relationships are not all about what the guy can offer and how his character is,   Us guys also value little things and take keen interest in how our women take care of us, 
No harm meant but naija girls are not caring and should not stand there discussing how romantic naija men are when compared with other men. I think the girls need to discuss how to develop themselves so that they are more appealing to their male counterparts

Like i knew i'd be minsed meat right before i spoke,  but i think the complaints hold some water so i'll change that statement and like a good man that i am, apologize.  for all those who are or have been aggravated by the language, accept my sincere apology
What i should've said was that "Most" naija girls,
Apology accepted? yo wah

I THINK OUR LADIES ARE KIND OF TRYING TO BE LIKE THE WESTERN LADIES AND HAVE FAILED OT SEE THE FACT THAT WE MEN ARE STILL THE MOST CARING MEN, I SOMETIME AGREE, MEN OF OTHER RACE AND CULTURAL BACKGROUND MAY BE ROMANTIC BUT THE EGUNGUN ONLY DANCE TO THE SOUND OF THE MUSIC, IF OUR LADIES STEP UP THEIR GAME/SKILL WE WILL MATCH IT UP WITH ROMACE CARING, THOUGHTFULLNESS AND ALL THEY ASK FOR ACTION AND REACTION ARE EQUAL AND OPPOSITE. SHEKENA!!!!!

Whitelexi, Apology accepted!

yea,can u guys pls answer?

Naija ladies, most --if not all--_{it's a huge exegeration, I know. .}, have self esteem problems. They either have too much or too little. Either way, they're problematic.

Ladies love control. They want to always fight for it, and they want the guy to put up a fight, but allow them to win "because we're ladies. . ." but then when guys don't understand why the fuss, they are said to have little or no ideas on how to treat ladies.

Ladies expect men to think like them. (everyone expects everyone to think like them, but hey this is a special case.) Most women are illogical. Hmm. Maybe I should say most guys are alot more logical than most ladies.

One thing ladies need to understand: Your man is not allowed to think like you. (There's nothing wrong with it). But in a relationship there has to be balance. (you already know that). When a girl thinks totally like a guy, the relationship can work, but it'll be a working disaster. Same happens when a guy sees the world from his girl's perspective-- yeesh.

It's all about understanding the balance point folks. But men don't feel like going that far to understand with any girl. And girls after a while of understanding, get burned out, turning to nag-warriors, fight-queens and mischief-machines. aw well me2 cents a year late

To know that we love and care for you

Why?