NewStats: 3,263,063 , 8,178,991 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 02:48 PM 5l7219

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I said no last year and I am saying no this year.  Don't pick mine and I will not pick yours.  That is why I have a "lock" on my phone.  If you answer the calls not meant for you, be prepared to have many sleepless nights which I can't help you with.  

People should learn to mind their own business like I do mine.  Nothing on this earth that could interest me concerning his phone. Those are for childish, jobless people.

anytime she does, i can bet, she wont like the outcome

No way, do not receive any of my calls n don't read my messages. I don't even touch her phone

hintzubie:

Love is all about trust! allowing your partner to pick your calls is left to the policy both of you have set. The fact is this, your partner must know every details about you and the other way round too. It all depend of both of you loving each other with all your heart. It is possible for your girl or your guy told you that this happened today, i mean, it is possible for your girl to tell you that she exchenged phone number with a guy due to preasure from the person so she just had to disclose her number should in case he called, he should understand and from there the guy will know wats up. This is all about trust. Thank you

Trust? Only very sad couples would base trust on cellphones! Solid couples shouldn't have to prove their honesty by "permitting" their partners to answer their calls.

The "permission" merely fuels further securities.

yeah. he picks my call and i pick his sometimes maybe when i am not there or he is not there. no big deal. even if it is of the opposite sex. we respect our privacy though.

@ gem87
there's nuffin worng with it because i'm clean

U rily dnt av the sligthest idea of wat u r saying! All cats are clean!

It's not just becos u av noting to hide, it's not becos she trusts u, its nt b/c u trust her,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, It's becos u want to keep ur relationship and avoid less friction. Even if u feel a call wuld mean no harm cos u av notin to hide, ur partner may read it odawise even if he/she is the holiest of holies. It may nt lead to a breakup bt may jst lead to unnecessary CONSTANT friction btw u two. I don't tink its rily okay

i don't pick anybodys call and nobody picks my call.that doesnt mean that we don't trust each other.i think we should learn to trust because we trust and not because we pick or don't pick each others call.
come to think of it what happens to people that have phones strictly used and kept  in the offices.such phones are used for making/recieving calls from other guys/babes and is kept permanently at the office,switched off at the end of the dayz work.clean indeed !
we should trust because we trust not because of picking calls,checking mail or insignificant thing. 

My relationships come with a warning on the pack

_{[color=#990000]Warning[/color[b]]; Pick my calls at your own risk. I will not be held liable for incidences resulting from reading my txt messages, checking my e-mails or answer my phones.[/b]}

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I don't pick his calls but I really don't mind if he picks mine.
He was in the bathroom yesterday and his call rang 3ce. When he came out, he asked me why I didn't pick it up. I simply told him that I didn't because he didn't ask me to.

My HUSBAND can pick ma calls but boyfriends - NO.

Even in marriage,privacy is respected.Why cant it be so with a relationship.Hola at [email protected]

Who born am?

Why should she pick my calls? Is her father a bastard or what? What wants to cause that kind of Nonsense! I will so beat her if she even contemplates carrying the phone!

All those stupid girls looking for a way to gossip and be jealous for no reason!

No way,

I personally dont mind if she wants to because i have nothing to hide,

Out of mutual respect we do not pick eachother's calls! We must give each other space.  Less problems!

Siena:

The next step would be to start following them when they go out, and hiding behind bushes.

Omg I can't breathe !!

@topic
No

i told my gf to stop because there when we were still in school i asked to pick my cal as early as 6am and when the call came in she pick without her knowing it was my dad. i had no explanation to giv to my dad

we trust ourselves enough not to pick each others calls

y not. my fone lies around anywhere,gat nothin to hide.

He used 2 pick, checks my text, call logs, etc without any permission from me & i dnt do dt 2 him.
We once had a big argument abt it, nt bcz im hiding anythn bt hez invading my privacy & smtngs r private.
eg. wt my gf's & i text 2 each other he dsnt hv 2 knw, mayb we discussing him(wt wil he do). or wt my sista text 2 me(family matters).

as a matter of policy, I don't pick her calls and I don't pick anybody's call.
the only call I allow myself to pick is my cell phone or the house phone.
any time her phone rings even when she is in the bath, I let it ring or I take it to her.
the only time I speak into her phone is when she gives it to me to talk to some one.

becos i already carry on this way, she has no choice but to respect that policy.
I have found out that whenever you pry into her privacy you get bitten so hard you hate yourself.
so better let lying dog lie.

anyone can pick my calls

When she's not mad

Lexiwhite:

When she's not mad