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GetMeRight:


See this one yabbing rubbish like he has never seen any male Christian with two wives in his life.

Whoever paid for your education wasted his money

Filthy mongrel

SirDelight:

Looks like you're filled with confusion & bitterness
Na you dey shout "eleriibu" on threads.
I just hope you change your ways in 2021.
No offense

koburu

wonder233:
He has a valid point. There is no love. Nigerian ladies are just after a man's financial stability. Men should stop rewarding then with marriage. They don't deserve it.

you can marry chair, tree , dog or monkey nah or even your fellow male


all is well sir

praiseneo:
so what’s the difference between what he said and dating multiple ladies
I sure say you go de cheat

their is different ooo


moreover i don't cheat sir , i am a holy nigga


all is well sir

You are a very funny man!
You can see the future baa!


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I have learnt my lessons from the first one.
It will definitely help me to evaluate the second one.
Why I am not much.comfortable with the side chick/baby mama, she can comfortably elope with your kid (like what happened to me before I got married my current wife). But whereby you paid her pride price and she will have the knowledge of your first wife, while first will not have an idea for now till 55-60yrs, then we can live all together if she wishes.
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Its better you remain single forever rather than marrying two women. It's not advisable and it will ruin a lot of thing no matter how much you try to satisfy both of them. Whoever asked you to go ahead and marry two women is pushing you to your early grave. You need to disguise as a broke guy if you searching for a true partner. Most women out there are looking for a readymade guy and they will do anything to trap you down.like I said, disguise as a broke guy and start searching.

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

NiRfreak:
If I could have my way... I would have loved to marry like 5 wives...
One tall with model physique...
One short with big yansh
One fat... that of bbw
One fair with moderate yajsht and straight leg
One dark with big boobs and big yansh and older
.
I bet I will never shit again

oga u too like yanxh .. cuz na so so yanxh I dey see as ur requirements... lol

Shit.... Well...

I have just 3 questions for you....

Are you financially capable?

Do you cope well with stress?

Do you value your mental health, peace of mind and natural longevity?

Educated or not the women will always be envious of each other...

It's takes a strong man to maintain command and maintain order in a polygamous home...

I don't blame you at all....

I don't judge you too...

Failed relationships can make people stop believing in a lot of things....

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

fool.

One problem no do you, you wan carry multiple problems body... God's strength on you

@ Op, marriage to one wife is not a walk in the park. There is a flip side to what you are seeking advice for. In one instance, marrying 2 women might just hasten your mental breakdown, financial meltdown, commitment to an institutional home & eventual untimely demise. In anoda instance, it may lead to enlightenment, spiritual freedom, wealth and contentment.
It's ur choice, walk the path but and accept the consequence. #choosewisely

Mocata:


Whoever paid for your education wasted his money

Filthy mongrel

Your mentality sucks

SILENTandSMART2:
abeg what's the meaning of the nonsense you wrote everything jusss disgusting as forkkk, mumu


wetin concern us mtchweeew

Hahaha, your post cracked me up

Start with one first

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, your post cracked me up

Just how I like it bruv my life already na problem and na problem dey make persin strong bro carry on fire down

Rayendowed007:
oga u too like yanxh .. cuz na so so yanxh I dey see as ur requirements... lol

SILENTandSMART2:

l just taya for the useless post some people post on Nairaland

AngelicBeing:
l just taya for the useless post some people post on Nairaland

the guy is not serious jare,


he's jusss confused ,

.all is well

Get a baby mama and just live in freedom, peace and enjoy yourself.

We are on the same page bro. I am also planning the same thing and the ladies are joyful ready and they are working class ladies. Polygamy might come back soon in a sweet form

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Oluromantic:
Me weh come from polygamous background, I no go advice make you marry 2 wives o no matter how much you get money. Forget education, I no wan call you mumu. Who tell you say education dey avoid charm in women...see mumu o. You just wan use your life play game.

Now that you've grown mature and decisive. Get a woman that you're compatible with and groom her to your taste. Let her know your firm standards and stick to her. A good woman will not only respect you, she won't be able to look you in the eye when she offends you.

Two wives no be solution. Once you marry two, the desire to marry the third and fourth will grow in you and your poverty will advance

And who told you all men that marry many wives are poor?

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

If you must marry more than one, NEVER marry two, marry 3 and above.


Don't say I didn't warn you.



Whisper: Two can gang up against you but three won't, meaning there will be a saboteur among them.

Before you take your decision, ask questions from those that tried it. And ask children from polygamous family. if their answers favour you, then you can go ahead

Which advise again?

bamite:


Why are you afraid of ing your real picture? Are you ashamed?

I'm not 'afraid'. I'd rather remain anonymous

Which ever course of life you choose, be prepared to face the earthly consequence.
Jesus chose to be unmarried and childless John2:23-25, John6:15, Matthew19:12, John10:18.
David chose sex, sex, sex; he gained Solomon but lost Amnon, Absalom, Adonijah and the first boy by Bathsheba.
You must give something if you really want to have something. Mary gave attention and audience so as to gain iration of Jesus Luke10:38-42, Luke7:37-50, Psalm45:10.

Hmmm i come from polygamous home.... Pls don't try it, all pussy are same... Just be contended with one don't let money push u.

You mean u r considering cutting 10years out of your lifetime?

Mekudi:
will you let your parent / siblings know about it, if yes, don't you think one of them can tell you wife

Before I start considering the second wife, I have really confirmed the are for me and not against. Thus; I don't have any threat on that side.

dangwarmai:

One funny thing with women is that the more their number the more they live in peace and adventurous, and the more you are willing to give the more you get.
Unfortunately, you can't understand until you try it yourself.

I don't want to understand sir

Ihatebuhariwith:
You mean u r considering cutting 10years out of your lifetime?

Who said so?? Haven't you seen a man who died out of being alone? May be he/she lost their spouse. Haven't you seen where spouse kill his/her partner due to domestic violence? (Someone who just married only One wife) See eh, in this life...what will be will be. Haven't you see a man that is over 90yrs while he married 2 or more wives ?? Obeni...it depends on your destiny bro.