NewStats: 3,264,747 , 8,184,597 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 09:33 AM 5lx6y

Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys s. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged s at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!

You started what you can't finish

When your ex dey think about how much you spend on her...

Why she no go disturb your peace?

to those that read this, please summarise this SIMP story for me

longetivity:
to those that read this, please summarise SIMP story for me

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.

The way you described your ex and her mum in a disgusting way says a lot about you

This is someone I'm sure you once professed your love for and had some nice moment with, all of a sudden, you are describing her and her mum in such manner.

I'm more concerned about the one you are dating now, because if things should go sour someday, you'll describe her in a terrible way too.

And just so you know, you don't date your ex's friend and expect her not to react. You can't even convince me that you had nothing with your Ex's friend then when you both were seriously dating.

In Jay Z's voice " if you having girls problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems and a b**ch aint one"..

Continue what u started

OP you need help o. Off all places mushin olosha.. You have embedded yourself with thugs.. And opportunists

So your new girlfriend schools in the same place with the Ex.. Cultist ke..


At least she should have respected the code till she graduated


The best solution is to relocate o since you can die for B.. Or you both pretend you ain't in a relationship anymore for the main time

duduade:
OP you need help o. Off all places mushin olosha.. You have embedded yourself with thugs.. And opportunists

So your new girlfriend schools in the same place with the Ex.. Cultist ke..


At least she should have respected the code till she graduated


The best solution is to relocate o since you can die for B.. Or you both pretend you ain't in a relationship anymore for the main time

Thanks for this. You are real

Which work u dae do bros.?? I'm interested in doing the same. I don't really have any advice shaa. But u dae spend shaa

"Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are"

You have a flare for bad girls, why will you date your ex's friend? It's wrong na, some things/people are totally off limit.

longetivity:
to those that read this, please summarise this SIMP story for me

The guy simping no get summary.....walai...some guys sef

Kriss216:

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.

For two years you didn't know all these about lady A and in few months you are already certain lady B is all you want?
My brother they go use your destiny play ludo.
Kantinew its like they are doing you.

Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys s. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.
My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged s at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

Where did you met your ex ?
Where in mushin do you stay ??

You are dating your ex's friend?
She too agreed to date you?

Off course she will be called husband snatcher , what were you expecting.

All the story about her mum was unnecessary .


You better leave lady B before they hurt her real bad.

Mushin peeps are harsh oo

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys s. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.
My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged s at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables.

My only issue here is, how come your ex was/is all of these things, yet you continued having a serious relationship with her and even got to introduction stage? Na wah oo...

Girls like her are simply for fücks and nothing else, and that's if you ABSOLUTELY need to associate with them at all.

You have made your mistake anyway, and you've learnt your lesson. Personally, I don't believe she can do anything to Lady B.
Ignore all that talk of how she's a cultist and how she smokes... nor be she start cultism and nor be she start smoking.

However If you're really so bothered about her, then yes you can involve the police so they'll make her sign a statement saying she will be held responsible should anything 'suspicious' happen to your current girlfriend.
Be ready to spend some money though.

goryorhal:


Where did you met your ex ?
Where in mushin do you stay ??

Smiles. Tell me something you know. I believe you know me already ola

IamD18:
The way you described your ex and her mum in a disgusting way says a lot about you

This is someone I'm sure you once professed your love for and had some nice moment with, all of a sudden, you are describing her and her mum in such manner.

I'm more concerned about the one you are dating now, because if things should go sour someday, you'll describe her in a terrible way too.

And just so you know, you don't date your ex's friend and expect her not to react. You can't even convince me that you had nothing with your Ex's friend then when you both were seriously dating.

Bro everything I described about them is what they are. Someone I professed love to took my money and had been sleeping around for the past 2 years. I can’t count last year alone but I still stuck with her. No lies actually. Lady B and I have never met before and she can’t recognize me if she met me on the road. We happened to meet coincidentally and liked ourselves and later got to know she is a friend to my ex.

crackhaus:


My only issue here is, how come your ex was/is all of these things, yet you continued having a serious relationship with her and even got to introduction stage? Na wah oo...

Girls like her are simply for fücks and nothing else, and that's if you ABSOLUTELY need to associate with them at all.

You have made your mistake anyway, and you've learnt your lesson. Personally, I don't believe she can do anything to Lady B.
Ignore all that talk of how she's a cultist and how she smokes... nor be she start cultism and nor be she start smoking.

However If you're really so bothered about her, then yes you can involve the police so they'll make her sign a statement saying she will be held responsible should anything 'suspicious' happen to your current girlfriend.
Be ready to spend some money though.

Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad

Uyi213:


Smiles. Tell me something you know. I believe you know me already ola

Nothing bro

Just asking u

Mind we talk via WhatsApp

goryorhal:



Nothing bro

Just asking u

Mind we talk via WhatsApp

Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me

Uyi213:


Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad

You can't wait for your enemy to strike. You strike first by getting her to sign an undertaking.

Uyi213:


Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me

?? What do you mean ?? Seems you missing it up bro

This is bad. I pity men dating girls like lady A.

Uyi213:


Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad

Get her to sign an undertaking oo, you need to make do that, so her body, soul and spirit will calm.. talking from experience

but bros you fit show me small love, I did appreciate

get her to sign an undertaken and also relocate if you can.

Stopped reading when i saw the amount you spent. Who ddy raise all these mumu guys

This story reeks of lies.

She stole your 600k kor. Lies!

Please you guys should be adding graphics to this your lies whenever you're typing it.

I'm out!

get her to sign an undertaken and also relocate if you can.

Uyi213:


Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me

Shots fired! So the gorhoyal is sleeping with ur ex huh?

I never knew men tolerated Cheats o, abi your dick ain't nothing to write home about? Or you not attractive? Never tolerate such disloyalty abeg.

See brother wey mumu, so if they left you would have married such hot pants? Abi na so d cunt sweet ni