NewStats: 3,263,991 , 8,182,180 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:10 AM 1e395m

Smellymouth:
Lola should swallow some self respect & bone them. This thing she does year in, year out constantly looks like she’s begging for their friendship.

Heal and move on, you have things to do, you can't continue living in your past..

Abi, she should ignore those tribal bigot, when she was helping them financially, they didn't realise she's a yoruba woman, stupid people

This Paul no like lola at all...u sure say dem no date low-key bfr she replaced him with his bro

I no wan shake that table sha because some of us know o...for gwagwalada

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Even as a woman I can never allow anyone come between me and my brothers. I wonder how these twins just allowed a woman(women) to do this to them.
Twins are said to have a strong bond, I no know for these ones o.

E concern them... Mtcheee

backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!

Dont dictate how people should live their lives. His happiness is more important than his brother

backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!

Don’t mind the guy...he wants to blame his inability to patch things with his own twin brother on the wife...wife that u never wanted your brother to marry

Infact the guys are annoying me.....

Yoruba and betrayal are like 5&6...
this one even modernized her own

Wahala no dey ever finish......

Anambra people no dey allow any outsider wey them no want to rest. Once their mother doesn’t approve of you, you are toast.

Lola, ngwanu leave Paul. Face your husband...

J111333 come and see your people.

What is happening between Paul and Rudy is just TRIBALISM. Just because one married a Yoruba wife, who seemingly stood by him when he had nothing. Even if she is older, does it matter Why do people get married, is it not to have children Lola has kids so why the fuss
And they are happy.

Igbos, I dare say suffer from Ancient hatred from other tribes, which is reinforced by INTRA-ethnic hatred.

Listen to Nnewi.super, juliusm.alema etc who are seemingly Igbo's always castigate non Anambrianians. The worst is Nnewi people. If you are dating an Nnewi lady but you are not from Nnewi and surrounding Nnobi et all, they won't marry you.

Not just Anambrianians, even other Igbo's castigate Ebonyians as "third class Wawa Igbo's".
Most Anambra families hardly allows their children to marry non-Anambrianians.

Before you bash me, I am talking from experience, not just hear say and I am from East of the Niger.

This one is just a pained fool.

sweetmelanin:
In a recent post on Instagram stories, Paul Okoye aka Rudeboy has outed Lola for not speaking to him for 4 years but yet every year, she puts out a fake birthday post for both twins in a bid to manipulate public opinion and make herself appear as a "good wife"

Iamkingrudy:




Source: https://instagram.com/stories/iamkingrudy/2445770220776482922?igshid=7ss0x1w44lr3

So na E mama na E Peter go marry !!?

backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!

I was reading this before checking who posted it... midway I already knew it was a female.

All emotions, zero logic

We understand your pains Paul.

How could she separate you from the love of your flesh and bones and blood? Thats wickedness.

Only God know the powerful juju that can separate twins apart.

After Delilah, Jezebel, Herod wife eh.. i fear that woman

Which kain bottle your twin brother dey inside sef?

Abeg, forgive am when he realized him mistake of betrayal

Things fall apart, Family fall apart.

backnbeta:

Not 'living' with her literally...But my point is; we all manage to maintain cordial relationships with inlaw's we don't like! There's always that in-law you don't like, but do you stop talking to your brother or sister because of him/her? But then; it's your choice! God forbid I stop talking to my brother or sister because of their spouse as far as they didn't choose my husband for me

if i understand Paul's grouse correctly, the issue is not that he and Peter dont have a cordial relationship but the role lola played in the currupting the cordial rship between them before everything went sour.

Thats why he constantly accuses her of being manipulative

Covidiotic kids

Grow up iamkingrudy
If she did not call you, did you call her and ask of your nephews and nieces or to know how they are all doing?
You did not act as a father figure but you are quick to castigate a lady for not acting as a mother.
Do not throw stones when you know you live in a glass house.
In fact, you sounded so disrespectful
What concerns her age in this matter?
At least, she tried, did your wife do same no matter how small to send birthday wishes?
I hate a sinner calling fellow sinners a sinner.

This one no get sense at all, keep killing una career over rofo rofo fights double wahaala for una, foolish guys

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sweetmelanin:


Your marriage is not the yardstick for everyone else's ma.
Na by force to accept? I see nothing wrong in both brothers choosing to let him be. It's like you haven't seen the videos of Peter antagonizing and looking for trouble with his brothers because of money & his wife Lola.
My motto is live and let live. Nothing should be by force in this life.

A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself-and especially to love, or not love. Whatever you happen to be feeling at any moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he chooses to be
Jim Morrison

She even tried to wish him a happy birthday and he's there saying scheisse? Why can't he pretend also and accept it, she probably didn't know how to approach him, she used this medium to do so.
She should not wish him anymore since he's doing like oloriburuku.

In my opinion, I think the birthday stunt by Lola on social media is just eye service. If someone has made it known that they don't like you, why not maintain your lane. You and your husband aren't in talking with his twin, why not just stay on your own, wish your husband happy birthday and let him decide if he wants to reach out to his brother.

Paul just hate this woman , but I believe everyone should respect people's choices . you can't tell me what to do with my life, Paul is just been the manipulative one here.

NwaAmaikpe:





The vilest and cruelest of all serpents are the most subtle.

Don't worry Rudy
We see through her schemes and social media sainthood but we are comforted from that every evil has an expiry date; one day the veil will fade and the other Pea in your pod will know that women are not worth creating enmity over.

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Who i dey see so

This one is strong. I didn't know their beef was this deep. Actually, even before reading this, I thought her post was not necessary. It was more like adding fuel to the already burning fire and alerting the world that the fire was still ravaging.

So she is a devil because Paul said she is a devil?

Same Paul who never accepted her in the first place but she is good friends with his wife.

I will not comment on their issues, it is sad what is happening but all of them ought to use maturity to settle this. Watching people like you take sides without really knowing what is going on baffles the hell out of me.

People should just be careful with the things they say. I wish them well and hope they can settle their differences. Life is too short for this kinda drama abeg.

Juliusmalema:
I said it earlier.

The woman Lola is a devil. Look at how she scattered a whole family and ruining it to pieces

Very deceptive woman

This rude boy is senseless, if she didn't call you for four years can't you call her even if just for the sake of your brother, nephew or niece?

When a man gets married, it's obvious some natural phenomenon will change which to some people might be too hard to cope with, but we just need maturity and understanding to move on. It happened when my closest elder brother got married, he sacrificed a lot for me prior to his marriage and the bond between us was stronger than fluorine bond but when he married a lot changed, to worsen the case he married a 'me and my husband ' kind of wife who never wanted to see her hubby's relatives. We moved on and today everyone is happy...

If your twin brother's wife is an hypocrite as you said, you are lucky at least she made you understand who she is. Did you know the stuff the one you put in your house is made of? Women are women from Naija to New Zealand, behave maturely and stop washing your dirty linen in the public.