NewStats: 3,263,793 , 8,181,418 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 10:55 PM 1a1k1p

MISSCONGENIALITY:
most of them are undateable and unmarriedable
Infact, unlovable.

Since they think it is by having car and potential, I wonder why no girl has stuck to them. Abi they don’t have both? That will be quite understandable, a comfortable man is hardly ever this toxic.

goodheart02:



My dear, there's nothing financially stable about being a medical doctor in Nigeria. And that lady really loves him because my own girlfriend left me when I faced issues in medical school after my second mb exams. I bounced back to who I am today because I managed my psychology properly

Please don't just blame that girl for leaving you, it's not everybody that can stick around in trying times,she can not do more than her strength ,she has a choice and free to take any decision she likes because you are not her father,and she has not sinned against anyone with whatever decision she takes,afterall you people were just fornicating all in the name of relationship

pocohantas:


Since they think it is by having car and potential, I wonder why no girl has stuck to them. Abi they don’t have both? That will be quite understandable, a comfortable man is hardly ever this toxic.

They seize every little opportunity they see to bash ladies as if the ladies are the ones that made them unlovable and unproductive.

pocohantas:


Some people here are living in utopia. The doctors cashing out in Nigeria are not up to 2%, the rest live like average Nigerians. Some of your colleagues have become abortion specialist to meet up. Nigeria doesn’t send healthcare, how then can doctors be valued? Sometimes I even pity them, after all the money spent and the late nights. Abeg, I don’t want to hear anyone mention Nigerian doctors and money in the same sentence, except na Jambite or undergraduate wey never know wetin dey sup.

You're so right with the 2%, but many people won't agree with this fact. Na who wear shoe know where e dey pain am

Fredd003:



Pls Op, don't take such comments seriously. Those who do not believe in love and do not know how to love, does not find true love.

Congratulations to u Op, I wish u more Sweetness.


And to my peeps who believe in love click d like button and those who don't believe in true love click share

He is right to some extent , buh de truth is that u can't know or True love wen things are o.k for u. A typical example is my sister , got married to a struggling graduate earning less than 30k after 2 years became jobless n was not doing anything for almost 3 years now he's story has changed . If u see Dem two en go be like say Dem Neva suffer. My sister love for him from day one is second to none.

Na waoooo, una wan just fall the op hand and at the same time expose the woman logic... So you dey talk say nothing like love for the woman side now say na better future make her gum with op heh?

Raalsalghul:
Stop deceiving yourself Op: nothing like true love here.

She saw a focused, resilient, hardworking young man with a bright future, and it's hard to find a jobless medical doctor.

I'm very sure your problems in medical school were not finance related.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They seize every little opportunity they see to bash ladies as if the ladies are the ones that made them unlovable and unproductive.

They should better go to Travel, Business and Career section, make them find way to better their lives and be happier. Na lack of money dey make man vex anyhow. December would soon be here, guys will fall-in to marry the Naija girls they hate so much. They will cry again...

ststyreal:
Na waoooo, una wan just fall the op hand and at the same time expose the woman logic... So you dey talk say nothing like love for the woman side now say na better future make her gum with op heh?

My sister, you sef dey see wetin I dey see.

Zzor:
Please don't just blame that girl for leaving you, it's not everybody that can stick around in trying times,she can not do more than her strength ,she has a choice and free to take any decision she likes because you are not her father,and she has not sinned against anyone with whatever decision she takes,afterall you people were just fornicating all in the name of relationship

Yeah she has her choice and the same way I had my choice to reject her when she tried to come back through her younger brother.

The truth is many Naija ladies these days don't wanna build and they aren't good shoulders to lean on emotionally. The mindset of the average Nigerian lady has been warped with so many crazy ideologies about life and relationship.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
The guy also saw something in her that kept him. I'm sure if he was beating her and treating her like trash she would have ran away long time ago. Who no like better thing.
Me can't see a lazy dude who has no brain and not interested in borrowing one and them stick with him just so people will point at me when they want to give examples of humble ladies.

nowhere in my post did i mention that a lady should stay with a lazy or brainless bf

The (good) guy was at the lowest phase of his life for quite some time and the God sent (angel) lady stood by him, hence the reason why we are celebrating her

We are also celebrating the guy for being a king, for repaying her loyalty with a lifetime covenant.
"Na person wey accept Jesus Christ go get everlasting life"

lets all learn lessons and moveeee

anochuko01:


nowhere in my post did i mention that a lady should stay with a lazy or brainless bf

The (good) guy was at the lowest phase of his life for quite some time and the God sent (angel) lady stood by him, hence the reason why we are celebrating her

We are also celebrating the guy for being a king, for repaying her loyalty with a lifetime covenant.
"Na person wey accept Jesus Christ go get everlasting life"

lets all learn lessons and moveeee

It's alright.

omotola90:
is it by course of study abeg enlighten me oooo

Dey dia the jonze na

Zzor:
Please don't just blame that girl for leaving you, it's not everybody that can stick around in trying times,she can not do more than her strength ,she has a choice and free to take any decision she likes because you are not her father,and she has not sinned against anyone with whatever decision she takes,afterall you people were just fornicating all in the name of relationship

Women always ing women syndrome de worry u

Chii59:
You done?

Ask your village chief priest

vickydevoka:

He is right to some extent , buh de truth is that u can't know or True love wen things are o.k for u. A typical example is my sister , got married to a struggling graduate earning less than 30k after 2 years became jobless n was not doing anything for almost 3 years now he's story has changed . If u see Dem two en go be like say Dem Neva suffer. My sister love for him from day one is second to none.

whereas, my so called girlfriend of 7 months turn to stranger when coro ground my work and salary no enter for 5months
I learnt something new though and i hold absolutely nothing against her coz na me toast am

goodheart02:



Yeah she has her choice and the same way I had my choice to reject her when she tried to come back through her younger brother.

The truth is many Naija ladies these days don't wanna build and they aren't good shoulders to lean on emotionally. The mindset of the average Nigerian lady has been warped with so many crazy ideologies about life and relationship.

Nigerian men and their expectations from an ordinary girlfriend is on the high side,you also did well by rejecting her,but never expect anyone to build with you or give you a shoulder to lean on just because you are ing organs together,only your legally married wife deserve to give you that.Theres nothing like true love,we are all in it for one reason or another, bitter truth.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It's alright.

pocohantas:


They should better go to Travel, Business and Career section, make them find way to better their lives and be happier. Na lack of money dey make man vex anyhow. December would soon be here, guys will fall-in to marry the Naija girls they hate so much. They will cry again...
No be lie.

Zzor:
Nigerian men and their expectations from an ordinary girlfriend is on the high side,you also did well by rejecting her,but never expect anyone to build with you or give you a shoulder to lean on just because you are ing organs together,only your legally married wife deserve to give you that.Theres nothing like true love,we are all in it for one reason or another, bitter truth.

Same thing I said on the first page and some said we're toxic.

Raalsalghul:


Same thing I said on the first page and some said we're toxic.

Bitter truth is the new toxic

Nice, I also married my girlfriend of 10 years , that was last year august

Decolonel:
I wil try and be as brief as possible.

As a growing child, I watched lots of nollywood movies where young lovers who fell in love had to stick with each other through the rough times, suffer together and still end up in marriage. Then other scenarios where the same set of people had to break up due to some unreconcilable differences. Well, I was opportune to experience the former.

I met my fiancee in 2012 in the university while I was in medical school. It was a journey that later graduated into a beautiful lifetime happiness. I met her among other young girls in a fellowship gathering but there was something spectacular about her. Her jovial but shy disposition made her outstanding. I collected her no along side other gals no but kept on calling her. She was very respectful, loyal and caring. She gradually captured my heart and I asked her out after some weeks. We became best of friends. We shared almost everything in common except that I'm an sanguine and she is a melancholy. But we later clicked so fast.

Later I started having issues in medical school. She never left me. She was always there. My failures in medical school started giving me depression, she was also there. She never gave up on me. She would rather stay and help me braid my grown hairs so that I would be happy. She was the only one that understood me. She encouraged to strive on and always believe in myself. I gradually bounced back mentally, wrote my MB exam and ed all my professional exams.

Fast forward to 2020, I had finished medical school as a medical doctor, started my housemanship, proposed to her and she said 'yes'. We will be getting married this Dec, 2020.

Truly, true love exists but the problem is that people are not ready to work it out. There were times we quarrelled, but we later sorted our issues out. It was not rosy throughout. Most young girls are not ready to stick with one man to build him and build with him. A responsible man will always come back to that loyal babe who has always been there for him to settle down with. You can confirm from 2Baba.

So find that loyal babe who is ready to build with you, especially when u have a vision and a feasible plan to succeed in life. Trust me, you will find her and find true love.
#queenoch20

Slynation:
Congratz bro.....Good wives are scarce to find this days, na repentant olosho pro max waiting to explore after wedding night full town now....

which one be olosho pro max again? Nairaland never ceases to amaze

SmellySperm:

Dey dia the jonze na

bros, it's not by course of study or institution... Person wey go poly fit make am person wey go uni.... 2.1 grade fit make 1st class... Grace na the Almighty name..... Grace bro... Grace

OMOJOHN001:
She believe in your future that's why she stayed,
Kudos to you and her.
Congratulations.

This my wereY babe will not see this, na to dey complain like oloriburuku she sabi, TUEEEEH

Still stalk with her sex,Hummm TUEEEEH

are you also a comedian because this was really funny

offset67:
na girlfriend wey calm down we go marry

abeg. na girl wey sabi suck lolipop i go marry

Caleycash:
It is 1million times a gender thing!!!... most of your sex are psychological and emotional scammers, the percentage of what you posted might be 10/100, how many girls do you see with mechanics and vulcanizers per day!?, then how many good for nothing girls with fine face do you see with rich guys... no dey whine yourself jare!

Mr man if you don't want anyone to build with you, build your own and go marry someone that built on her own too! It's not by force. You people should stop making a big deal out of nothing.

Petyprincess:
I knew frustrated halfa males will derail this beautiful thread! Must y'all spread your bitterness on every threads? Whether you like it or not,men will keep on getting married!!

Nooooo! Men must not get married! They will never kneel! This marriage thing only benefits women! They must only have baby mama! Women gold diggers, dangerous beings that spoke to Satan in Eden, fear woman etc


All those are their online redpill lies to console themselves for being used as pant by their gfs and wives. If they don't lie to themselves, who will? Vagina people rule their world, but if they it it they will lose their peenises.

Shortyy:


Mr man if you don't want anyone to build with you, build your own and go marry someone that built on her own too! It's not by force. You people should stop making a big deal out of nothing.

You're arguing with broke men. They need a woman to them, otherwise he can't be man enough to provide. But they need all the ego to be called men. That is what it means to be red pilled. To fail in providing money then complain about respect, demand woman to do women things, etc Till tomorrow they will still come and gnash their teeth. Lack of money is terrible for a man

cc:slawomiir over to u!

vickydevoka:

Women always ing women syndrome de worry u

Thought i was the only one that notice this

Fountainofyouth:
Lol who wouldn't stay with a potential doctor in the making

It's called being extremely sweet, docile, and wise in the relationship, and of course take all form of bullshit just to achieve the end result, surely all of that happened yes?

Hml though.

God bless you... You were truthful about female nature

Prechgold1180:
guy man anything can work for you as long as you are happy
I get gf wey be virgin wen I met her buh she Nur dey give me joy d way this my new ex olosho gf dey give me

Thou I nva ask d ex runs girl to be my gf unto say I dey aware of runs wey she dey do bfor

Buh swears down dat girl dey burst my head

Omo

Lol..... Virgin GF are shaaah so annoying, so i can relate You don't even need to ask your ex runs girl to be your GF, just automatically assume the position