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Lalasticlala, Dominique,RoyalBoy
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Ps- I seized the phone given to her because she uses it to make midnight call to a boy hence the origin of the issue.

Simply tell your parents about this, they should be able to talk better to her.

And one more VERY IMPORTANT advice from us to you : NEVER EVER lay your hands , NEVER EVER BEAT HER AGAIN PLEASE.
There are many ways to discipline someone without beatings.
She may slump unexpectedly or hit her head at the edge of a table in one attempt of her running away from your beatings.
(Devil does foolish and evil things you know!)

And you don't wanna go to jail for murder aight?
Think about this kid bro.

KingsDisease:
Thanks, thought about this
It's what I am trying to avoid

Good you have that in mind already.
It will end well for y'all.

Sparogatively, I have one question for you before I give you my suggestion.

Have you ever called anyone SIMP on Nairaland or offline in your lifetime?

Thanks, thought about this
It's what I am trying to avoid

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Simply tell your parents about this, they should be able to talk better to her.

And one more VERY IMPORTANT advice from us to you : NEVER EVER lay your hands , NEVER EVER BEAT HER AGAIN PLEASE.
There are many ways to discipline someone without beatings.
She may slump unexpectedly or hit her head at the edge of a table and in one attempt of her running away from your beatings.
(Devil does foolish and evil things you know!)

And you don't wanna go to jail for murder aight?
Think about this kid bro.

Hambivert:
Sparogatively, I have one question for you before I give you my suggestion.

Have you ever called anyone SIMP on Nairaland or offline in your lifetime?

Call it a truce. Buy her a gift, call her and counsel her but firmly. Intimate her on the risks of her actions.

Lastly I dont know why you want her respect, respect doesnt feed anybody, as long as she does what is assigned to her. Respect is overrated. If she still fails to respect you, ignore it since that is the only way she wields power over you. Deny it to her

Are you sure you never make any advance to her? check your closet and be honest with us

KingsDisease:
Na me Bleep up
Too much familiarity.... though it's my nature to be free and playful with people around me

You don't need to Garner Her Respect!
You Just need to Ensure she does what is Right!

Also Ensure you do what is Right! Because what she sees you do will Speak louder..

And who're you in the house to order her around?


Just because she's your parents house help no make her your slave. Biko back up

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espionagesavvy:
Call it a truce. Buy her a gift, call her and counsel her but firmly. Intimate her on the risks of her actions.

Lastly I dont know why you want her respect, respect doesnt feed anybody, as long as she does what is assigned to her. Respect is overrated. If she still fails to respect you, ignore it since that is the only way she wields power over you. Deny it to her

Na where I Bleep up

madridguy:
Are you sure you never make any advance to her? check your closet and be honest with us

gs

michlins:
And who're you in the house to order her around?


Just because she's your parents house help no make her your slave. Biko back up

Is it just u or anyone in the house


If it's just u, then there is an unsolved issue between two of u.


Maybe u don follow her play some yeye play

KingsDisease:
Thanks, thought about this
It's what I am trying to avoid

Good you have that in mind already.
It will end well for y'all.

madridguy:
Are you sure you never make any advance to her? check your closet and be honest with us

KingsDisease:
Na where I Bleep up

KingsDisease:
Hmmm...you serious? Did you read where I said it might affect my relationship with my youngersiblings

those claims are without proof. How does what she does affect your relationship with your younger ones

modified


In a house filled with people, it's just you that the girl picked out to disrespect. She left the younger ones to pick you the eldest. Bros you're not telling us the whole story. When your story complete, let us know

KingsDisease:
Na where I Bleep up

They are observant of what is going on.. children are smart and they will follow her and act the same way subconsciously if you don't know.... I know what I'm saying

michlins:
those claims are without proof. How does what she does affect your relationship with your younger ones

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michlins:
those claims are without proof. How does what she does affect your relationship with your younger ones

modified


In a house filled with people, it's just you that the girl picked out to disrespect. She left the younger ones to pick you the eldest. Bros you're not telling us the whole story. When your story complete, let us know

Respect is earned, not demanded.

Bro you go dey manage any disrespect you're getting from her till she finally matured or you leave your parent roof.

KingsDisease:
Na where I Bleep up

KingsDisease:
They are observant of what is going on.. children are smart and they will follow her and act the same way subconsciously if you don't know.... I know what I'm saying

and how old are you boss. The arrogance level you exhibit and the way you feel she should be subordinate to you shows you should be the biggest worry your younger ones should be worried about.


Your parents should be the ones complaining not you

After showing her your small d!CK or pressing her bress...you think she will respect you again?

How do I overturn this

madridguy:
Bro you go dey manage any disrespect you're getting from her till she finally matured or you leave your parent roof.

You started touching her bombom... Sex starved nigga.

Just be yourself, try to always stay on your lane and with time you go earn your respect again.

KingsDisease:
How do I overturn this

I can swear that you have touch her breast before and possibly wanted to DO and she refused. Then at that point you have sold that respect she once gave you. Now you want it back. Solutions: avoid sending or discussing anything with her for now, always maintain your own lane. Possible leave the house for sometimes. Don't be surprise your mum or Dad will be suspecting you if you are over reacting to the girl. Give her phone back to her.

After showing her your size d!CK or pressing her ...you think she will respect you again?

KingsDisease:
I'm not the power drunk type...as I said earlier,I am the free type.....but this one is total disregard... not even disrespect...she dares me...Kai....I don Bleep up?!!

I assume you as are older than her hence the demand for respect, but something that comes with maturity is restraint, restraint not to deal with every situation squarely and high handedly, restraint that forbids the the use of ones whole strength in dealing with one not matured. Be calm, it is not worth stressing yourself over the bad behavior of a young girl. With time she would recognize your maturity and restraint and respect would follow. Do not kill a butterfly with cannonball. Ignore her insolence

madridguy:
Are you sure you never make any advance to her? check your closet and be honest with us

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Most likely the case..

KingsDisease:
Na where I Bleep up

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I talk am..

Oop no matter what u do in this life, always be nice and friendly with two people, men in uniform and your housemaid

These two have one thing in common, they could easily kill you as your live mostly in their hands pun intended.

If she notice that u don't like her, she may decide to cook your food specially and spice it with her menstruation blood, because she feels you hate her and that's her taking her own pound of flesh.

She may decide to go trace all your original certificate and set them ablaze in your absent just to get back to you, housemaids ain't to be treated like slave bro, just like one of the poster said up there, call a truce, buy her a gift and ya both start all over again, you don't have to beat her or stop her from calling who so ever she wants, that's a very wrong approach. Counseling goes a long way

While I was still with my parents, you could hardly differentiate our housemaid from my siblings because we don't treat her anyless, we eat on same table and goes to same school with my younger siblings, she was an opharn and my parents decided to make her their responsibility, guess what, she is in her finals in the university curtsey my parents, she is like a kid sibling to me too cause most times I don't even we ain't related
Button line, be nice to your housemaid, don't treat her any less, if she misbehaves, sit her down and counsel her, shes human too.