NewStats: 3,261,393 , 8,173,881 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 06:41 AM 1h7

Happyfela:
One bottle of Champagne for you WOLF.

My nigga,what did I do to deserve that bro ?

mrpaedo:
All I'm trying to say here is, Women are smarter and brutal than how some men perceive them to be.
Underneath that fragile look is a monster who doesn't care who gets burnt to achieve her own aim

This is a quality about women i actually ire
Since I instilled that same mentality in my life, I began to thrive
If an issue isn't in my best self interest,I simply DON'T CARE.It's all about ME!ME!!ME!!!

Bro,an average man is scared to be selfish.
They see everything wrong with it but complain when others,especially women are ruthlessly selfish.
We don't live in an ideal world,you're certainly going to provoke people ,especially to secure your interest.
Niceness and putting others interest first is coming from a place of fear, the more confident and self assured you're, the less you put other interest above yours.
Personally,any time I act nice,especially when the better choice is to put my interest first,I always live to regret those moments. Those are feelings that actually fueled me to be very selfish with my resources,time and attention,especially when they got no financial benefits and my personal interest is not served when I give them out freely.
And I'm not ashamed of that.
Being outrightly nice never got me anywhere in life,being sparingly nice is okay for me.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--- Women lead double lives. She will project a strong outward good girl facade whilst engaging in acts of depravity in secret. We know whoring reduces a woman’s value. They know this too. But rather than simply not wh*re, they would prefer to deceive.

You are just opening their yansh ...so true...respect bro

GLYCOLYSISS:
Healing phase:

she realizes marriage might her, boom Jesus becomes her 1st love. She becomes a full blown church goer (church is now a retirement home for ho€s), this church act gets her some dumb church brother, who quickly proposes to her & she lives happily ever after.

My brother u're saying d truth, they are many of them in naija churches.

Dalil8:


God Bless you for this

Worshipping and glorifying your mother more than your Father makes you a simp too. A brain washed simp. There's no difference.

What happened to the fathers?

Your Father loves you just as much, if not even more than your Mom.

Mothers are highly manipulative, they'll do anything to make her Kids think their Father's don't love them.


You wanna be a real Man, love and glorify your Father. It's that simple.

You never know his struggles until you get into his shoes.

While u may be right I don't totally agree with u. Will you tell a son to love his abusive father, a father that almost got him blind and almost got his sister killed due to numerous beating all in the name of discipline.

A father that beats up his wife n children and u expect the children to live the father more.

See sometimes u need to think deep, there are reasons people do the things they do.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women don't care about your struggles,only your successes.

---. Women want the final product,but successful men value a woman who was there from the journey. Women detest risk,so they have the propensity to hold back ambitious men with their petulant insecurities. Should he become too powerful,she fears she will lose her Monopoly over him.
She sabotages him to secure him,for the crab bucket mentality is intrinsic to women.

No all men Value the woman who was there for him from the beginning.

While some men do, I have seen real life situation of men abandoning their wife after they become rich.

Something

GLYCOLYSISS:


My nigga,what did I do to deserve that bro ?

Nairalandmonika:

While u may be right I don't totally agree with u. Will you tell a son to love his abusive father, a father that almost got him blind and almost got his sister killed due to numerous beating all in the name of discipline.

A father that beats up his wife n children and u expect the children to live the father more.

See sometimes u need to think deep, there are reasons people do the things they do.

You're missing the message..
By default,mothers are more appreciated and loved than the fathers.
Fathers are always underappreciated,even if he happens to be the more caring between the two.
It sounds strange when anyone say they love their father more than the mother,but it's normal when the reverse is the case.
There's "mother-worship" by default in every kid out there, except some few cases,but rarely is there "father-worship".
Unless you don't want to be honest with yourself and the reality in our society.
Thousands of songs out there glorying mothers, rarely do you hear that of fathers.
The general public will consider it strange even when such songs are played.
The truth is that you only appreciate your father more when he's not alive anymore,or when it's your turn to shoulder the responsible he did,putting up a facade that's all is OK with him,but deep down screaming for freedom.
You don't have to be a deadbeat father for your children to appreciate their mother more than you even though the father shoulders 2/3 of the family's responsibilities and welfare.

Happyfela:
Something

For real ?
I'm all ears man..

Any tips on how to become more selfish?

Nairalandmonika:

No all men Value the woman who was there for him from the beginning.

While some men do, I have seen real life situation of men abandoning their wife after they become rich.

Of course,to every rules, there's certainly exceptions.

COOL10:
Any tips on how to become more selfish?

To be fair, selfishness in popular culture has a negative connotation and might get you kicked out of the social "tribe".

Just put yourself first. It makes those who love you enjoy your best and leave less room for manipulators to get at you.

GLYCOLYSISS:


My nigga,what did I do to deserve that bro ?

What physical changes did masturbation cause for you? I have been masturbating since 13 years old and i notice changes too

Nairalandmonika:

While u may be right I don't totally agree with u. Will you tell a son to love his abusive father, a father that almost got him blind and almost got his sister killed due to numerous beating all in the name of discipline.

A father that beats up his wife n children and u expect the children to live the father more.

See sometimes u need to think deep, there are reasons people do the things they do.

You are quite right and I agree with you, Some fathers are useless narcissist. Such Men doesn't deserve care. As for me I treat people accordingly. There Is no time for fake useless emotions.....

Why am I just seeing this thread?

Anyways, it's better late than never.

God bless you OP

The first step to take to become red pilled is to hide your wallet from dem ladies. Shin gbain no drop..lock up
We die here ��

GLYCOLYSISS:
Men,

Your greatest power when dealing with women is not your money, not your bedmatic skills and certainly not your looks.
It's your power and ability to keep her on her toe and make her know, though covertly, you can always walk away !
You're not going to put up with her bullshits, her whines and her negative energy.
As counterintuitive as it sounds, it's your greatest weapon when dealing with women.

I go with this anyday.....

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women are mercenary. They do whatever it takes to win. They will switch sides or outright lie to secure the man they deem their best option. That’s what you are to a woman. An option.

Words on marble

Women do not "love" men, they fall "in love" with men. Know the difference.

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Despite the cultural narrative that it is men who are the cheats, women are responsible for the majority of adulterous divorce. Women have more opportunities to cheat and are less innately virtuous, thus only by the mechanism of constant and ruthless discipline do they properly behave.

A good analogy to this is to compare the bank with an armed robber. Of course, the bank has more tricky and sneaky ways to steal your money, than an armed robber will ever do. But armed robbers are punished more for stealing, even if what they steal will never match up to how the bank steals from unnecessary charges to loans, interest etc.

Women are the gatekeeper of sex so therefore, they cheat more, but because they give it to men, men get blamed for cheating more.

GLYCOLYSISS:

Ene,you want me to be honest with you ?
I will advice you to leave these thread.
You can't stand your innate disposition in the mirror.
It's not hate,but the harsh reality don't give a rat arse about our emotions.
But then ,I know you will keep coming back for more,which I appreciate if you're going to do something for me with these knowledge.
Spread it to your love ones !
Your brother,your son [ when you got one ] and those you genuinely care for.
They will come to ever appreciate you for having the courage to point them to the harsh reality of men --women dynamic of relationship .
No,not by one on one conversation,I will direct you on how to go about that.
First and foremost ,I have a collections of books I will want you to send to them for now,they should start from there.
You actually know how to introduce them to those books without actually coming across as strange.
Here are the books ;

--The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi

-- The Rational male [ preventive medicine] by Rollo Tomassi
-- The rational male [ positive masculinity ]
By Rollo Tomassi

-- The manipulated man by Esther Vilar

They should study them in that order.
You can them for free at www.pdfdrive.com .
I know you may definitely not grant me my request,but that won't dissuade me from making one.


So,take care and have a wonderful day,Ene.

The Rationale Male has been deleted on pdfdrive.com
Can you share another link where I can it?

I want to appreciate every one whose writeups and additions have contributed immensely to my life in this thread. I also thank those who acted up to further confirm and bear truth to the teachings of these pages.

@GLYCOLYSISS, UBUNJA, SKEPTICUS, CAVEADULLAM and others....

ubunja:
Nice one. She'll literally get wet talking to you bro. A woman who Lusts you is the easiest thing ever. Guys need to work with women from this angle. Imagine if you tried to take her out on a date etc. You would have killed her desire in you. She wanted you directly with not dating games. Women reserve games and dates for guys they don't like.

Well done bro. You are a real G.

I won't lie to you bro...there is this lady I used to talk dirty with almost every time on phone with to the extent she has begged me to stop calling her that my voice use to get her dripping wet, I was confused at first but I later realise that it's what have been saying over time that's making her drip...up till date she is still calling and now she is married but I'm ignoring her advances lately because I don't wanna sleep with another man's woman....

Skmoda360:

I won't lie to you bro...there is this lady I use talk dirty almost every time on phone with to the extent she has begged me to stop calling her that my voice use to get her dripping wet, I was confused at first but I later realise that it's what have been saying over time that's making her drip...up till date she is still calling and now she is married but I'm ignoring her advances lately because I don't wanna sleep with another man's woman....

lol it sounds unbelievable until you have experienced it hey. And you may find that her husband struggles to make her Wet. Lol. Because he doesn't turn her on.

ubunja:
lol it sounds unbelievable until you have experienced it hey. And you may find that her husband struggles to make her Wet. Lol. Because he doesn't turn her on.

I blocked her from all means of communicating with me....social media and through calls....

Nairalandmonika:

While u may be right I don't totally agree with u. Will you tell a son to love his abusive father, a father that almost got him blind and almost got his sister killed due to numerous beating all in the name of discipline.

A father that beats up his wife n children and u expect the children to live the father more.

See sometimes u need to think deep, there are reasons people do the things they do.

I share your sentiment

pansophist:


A good analogy to this is to compare the bank with an armed robber. Of course, the bank has more tricky and sneaky ways to steal your money, than an armed robber will ever do. But armed robbers are punished more for stealing, even if what they steal will never match up to how the bank steals from unnecessary charges to loans, interest etc.

Women are the gatekeeper of sex so therefore, they cheat more, but because they give it to men, men get blamed for cheating more.

is there a way we can change it

pansophist:
Women do not "love" men, they fall "in love" with men. Know the difference.

only at the beginning

The weakness of women lies in their disunity

Liposure:
is there a way we can change it

No, it's biological. Just like you can't be impregnated by a woman. What you can do that is within your ability is to leverage it to your advantage.

pansophist:


No, it's biological. Just like you can't be impregnated by a woman. What you can do that is within your ability is to leverage it to your advantage.

How can you leverage it to your advantage?

Inspireddd:


How can you leverage it to your advantage?

By equalizing it, which is to thrive in your masculine domain. Have something going for yourself, do things that accentuate your positive sides and pursue becoming an attractive man within the context of the society where you live.

Women by nature are adaptive, that is, they integrate into the lifestyle a man they fancy have built. So play the game of purposefulness and goal chasing, and you will never lack women that will find you irresistible, making the sex that they gatekeep cheapened.