NewStats: 3,261,118 , 8,173,069 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 09:22 AM 4k5p4p

Op keep looking for money or who to dash you money.. Trust me you go wait old.. Trust our policies that keep changing every now and then .. Dont go look for a lady twith like mind ready to work with you in converting your visions and ideas to cash ..

Stay here dey look for money from people wey never got help themselves

Kuku kill yasef cos u wan marry

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

That's is why you have to learn how to be patient with a guy who u kw is trying his best to make sure u are alright,,,I kw of countless girls dat turn guys down because e pocket no heavy or he no touchhhhh reach davido ,,

I kw of a girl who lost a 4 years relationship just because say the guy no day package well ,dress well ,,,

You ladies have to learn wat patient is and also teach your daughter the spirit of patient

I am looking for a wife,
If you are a christian (Born again)
Mature,
Not soon angry
From between the ages of 24 to 26
ready to be a wife
Not a feminist
willing to a man in his dreams
Lives in the western states
me on this email and i will put a call through to you
[email protected]

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Go to trees and pluck money nah. You think we do not want to marry on time or you think we do not want to make money? The reality of life is that life is not easy especially the Nigerian economy.

Also our women are looking for already made man and not someone they will grow with. In that case, let them wait until we are financially stable to some point.

It is not our faults that they do not marry on time. If girls put as much as half the efforts men put in making a better living for themselves, they would al be married, because we will compliment each other.

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

*50 Cent SOnG* many men many meny meny many men

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

You are mixing it up..

Girls will always marry earlier than guys.
Just because you are not ready does not mean someone else is not ready!!

Girls usually don't have to be financially capable for marriage before they get wedded.

It is one of the gift of nature to them!!

You will continue to hustle until you feel ready for marriage responsibilities!!! But girls will get someone who is ready to take up as many financial responsibility to make a stable family!!

(Woe unto that woman that disrespect such a husband tho )

Money is deciding factor here ... If, as a guy, you are rich at 22, you may settle down sef

Apination:

That's why women and children can afford to be careless, and men can not.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

That one follow shaa.

But,

Lass lass many guys nogo marry.
Women men in number

Some people's future husbands don die for battle field while SARS don kill some.

meobizy:
This is one boy’s opinion. We’re on Nairaland, anybody can fake an age here to spout anecdotes as fact. The least you should do is apologize to that individual you mocked back in the day.

abi. Maybe na that one swear foram

My main problem is women are cheats. So am planing to make sure I marry a virgin and also find a trusted hospital which can do a DNA test for my kids after each child birth.


If no virgin, then I will just look for a baby mama instead

deebrain:
Not really.

Most RESPONSIBLE women (note the capitalized) are looking for responsible men. A man driven with their respective goals. Practical goals. And are on it 24/7.

Most guys of today have ZERO goals. Save of course, their desire to be Marlians.

Must women always look for responsible men? Can't you pick an average man and dust him up? Is that not what men have been doing for ages?
And that is why picking a woman for a man is virtually easy because he goes into the relationship to build, a mindset of duty rather than what do i want to benefit.

Evercurious:



Why are you guys just VISIONLESS? Are you expected to bring MONEY to the table or VISION? Come with vision and idea and money won't be an issue..

Do you have the money yourself? Abi na only to help men get it?

Risentouch:




I back in the days when I was 21years, I used to say I will be married latest at 28, but funny enough I will be 28 this December and not even a girlfriend to show for come talk of being financially stable to take care of one

then make the move to get married ontime so you don't have to shoulder the responsibilities of GiRlfriends. I won't say don't do nothing for her. But let it be ReaSOnaBle within limits. Ask how long they speculate getting to know you. Anyone that talks about spending over 3 years especially when you meet them on a freQuent BaSis,. FoRGet it. She's not there for marriage but something else like the bag I.e. money.
Same way if I meet a man and if he's talking about getting to know me for years, that serves as a REd flag that he isn't ready for maRRiaGe but just wants SeX.
For me, if I see someone for a few hours almost everyday for at least 6 months and I really like them, I won't hesitate in getting married. Once they are comfortable, smaRt and with future prospects , it's fine. I don't need a DanGOte.
I think Guys are to Blame too. They don't wife up on time. They'll be waiting for GiRls to BeG TO PUt a RinG on it. When the GiRl isn't even CRaZy about finances. Their esteem or ego won't let them.

Richardmary:


That one follow shaa.

But,

Lass lass many guys nogo marry.
Women men in number

Some people's future husbands don die for battle field while SARS don kill some.

Chei. GUy

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

The problem with you people is you have this narrow view of life. You have manged to make money your God. Its only with money you are allowed to do certain things or enjoy the basics. Only people with money should be treated with dignity thats why the country is a shithole.
In oyinbo land and even among Lebanese in Niggeria, I have seen instances where young couples live with either the parents of the bride or groom while they save up tp rent or buy a house. That way the couple share the experience of building a home together. But not in that shithole. Only people with money should marry. Marriage na poverty alleviation program

holatin:
you need to stop blaming the man, a lot of ladies this days ain't serious until it's too late, I ve a bro who lost his dream wife to a Yahoo guy, he changed after that. infact he become a fornicator after that, ladies of this days don't want to start from little, made men, big wedding and flashy livestyle is their motto. I had plans too but as women show me their colour even though I wasnt broke, she ran after something temporary from something permanent...now my own mind is void of love, feelings and marriage for now. ladies this days are scary...that stupid olamide song is an exact depiction of them. the only serious ladies this days are the after 30 cus them don roam the street don finally realised say nothing dey outside. but 20 to almost 28 or 29 still think life is rosy. the ladies should be the one to carry the blame most...a lot says no to prospective husband so shey make d guy cum use juju for am ni

you should try ladies that want to have kids ontime. They won't be that harsh

lefulefu:
there"s always an old sugar daddy willing to make her a 10th wife if the young man isnt ready yet for marriage

brother lefu. How many?

MOnkeyBabe:
brother lefu. How many?

how many? sugar daddies full town na looking for single willing ladies to include into their flock

Kekereekun123:
some of them their parents married while squatting. What is wrong in marrying and building with a man

Abi oooo, now all ladies are running away from struggling guys.
It is really a shame how we got here.
My parent married in one room face you i slap you.
Funny enough, the money they made on the wedding day is what they used to buy mattress to sleep that wedding night 1983.
But these present ladies??
Spit*

Geez... I love this thread. So men can think like this? Wow! There is still hope.

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

UndauntedYOCA:

Shouldn't ladies also make their own money?
Marriage is between two people who must work together to ensure things work out, they do so by working together in unity, reasoning together, helping each other, lifting each other, having each other's back. It's not the sole responsibility of a man to cater for his family, if a man is capable of contributing 60-70% then the wife should contributed the rest. Sometimes most men don't grow much because they're left with the burden of footing 90-100% of the bills in the home. Personally, I'd never that men marry ladies who do not have ambitions, ladies who aren't working towards being financially independent and ive, ladies who are selfish/stingy, call it whatever. If not for the fact that some men are blinded by ass and boobs, they wouldn't make the wrong choice of marrying alady who has the mentality that a man must foot all the bills, no be una fault, na una preek dey reason. Even if a man isn't financially bouyant, if he has a partner that believes in that two shall become one (that is, working to help the other etc) then he is good good to go, this doesn't suffice to say that women should shoulder all the responsibilities of the home, a woman is called to follow (not to be confused with objectified, while the man leads, the woman follows but not blindly, not like a slave), to help and to love. A faithful and ive partner is pure bliss (not talking about the biscuit brand o, lol, forgive my very dry sense of humour). Scout and choose widely!

Na wa ooo sis, na who vex you now

emmaodet:


Abi oooo, now all ladies are running away from struggling guys.
It is really a shame how we got here.
My parent married in one room face you i slap you.
Funny enough, the money they made on the wedding day is what they used to buy mattress to sleep that wedding night 1983.
But these present ladies??
Spit*

Some men are not even willing to take any step. They are so comfortable eating mama thank you. Tufiakwa!

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

You are a rich man

Nooil:



Some men are not even willing to take any step. They are so comfortable eating mama thank you. Tufiakwa!

Believe me, a lot of guys are trying their best. What else do you want them to do? Steal or push drugs?

Hmm, interesting.

Richardmary:


That one follow shaa.

But,

Lass lass many guys nogo marry.
Women men in number

Some people's future husbands don die for battle field while SARS don kill some.

emmaodet:


Believe me, a lot of guys are trying their best. What else do you want them to do? Steal or push drugs?

Expand their thinking. You don't have to die in a job that doesn't pay well. Be bold and take steps.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

You cant blame this on men tho

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Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

O shey Agba omo