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Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate..... Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Just an advice: Make sure you smash that Toto before you let her go.



UnaToto

Dem use U dey time. Once whistle blow dem go re-start 2nd half.
My guy, approach the game with TIP TAP FROM BOTH SIDES WITH OCCASIONAL TEAR AWAY.
ATTACK TOO CONSTANTLY FROM FLANKS, BUT DON'T FORGET TO FIRE FROM OUTSIDE THE BOX.
DO I HAVE TO REMIND U TO MAINTAIN DEFENSIVE SOLIDITY, WHILE ENSURING VERSATILITY IN MID FIELD.

UnaToto:

Just an advice: Make sure you smash that Toto before you let her go.



UnaToto

Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all..

aimuan:
Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all..

in other words..u be evening news paper...
And I go advice u to free her for the ex Sha

The game needs you bro, dem dey use you catch cruise you better wake up.

Don't nurse another man's girl. A simple mistake will cost you insomnia when she breaks up with you. Fvck the hole between her legs and free her.

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now,and we just start dating about 3 weeks ago..Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage..

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family.I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind,so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl..

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex,which add credence to the fact that they are still in love,though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back,even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate..... Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

Wake up jor.. Be smart before she go outsmart u

awwfar:
in other words..u be evening news paper...

lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.

U already know what to do

aylive02:
Don't nurse another man's girl. A simple mistake will cost you insomnia when she breaks up with you. Fvck the hole between her legs and free her.

Hmmm.thanks

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now,and we just start dating about 3 weeks ago..Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage..

whats so special that you want to marry this stranger you only know for 3 weeks?!?! ARE YOU OKAY!?

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family.I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind,so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl..

so the reason you want to marry this babe is because her siblings are kind?! ARE YOU OKAY!?

But however, she speaks ionately with her ex,which add credence to the fact that they are still in love,though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back,even though the guy wants her back..I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate.....

so women shouldnt speak nicely to their exes now?! ARE YOU OKAY!?

Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

after 3 weeks of dating, its obvious you are not ready NOR able to be in any r/ship...? dont worry, she wont mind the loss as she probably barely knows you too.

Anotii:
U already know d truth

What's the truth bro.according to her the guy cheated on her,and even have a child with another girl. So she can't go back to him..But I don't know if it's all game on not.

MrBrownJay1:


whats so special that you want to marry this stranger you only know for 3 weeks?!?! ARE YOU OKAY!?



so the reason you want to marry this babe is because her siblings are kind?! ARE YOU OKAY!?



so women shouldnt speak nicely to their exes now?! ARE YOU OKAY!?



after 3 weeks of dating, its obvious you are not ready NOR able to be in any r/ship...? dont worry, she wont mind the loss as she probably barely knows you too.

You really don't need to insult me..if I have an answer to all the question I won't come here seeking for opinion. The best thing to do is just advice me,not insult

fulaniHERDSman:
Dem use U dey time. Once whistle blow dem go re-start 2nd half.
My guy, approach the game with TIP TAP FROM BOTH SIDES WITH OCCASIONAL TEAR AWAY.
ATTACK TOO CONSTANTLY FROM FLANKS, BUT DON'T FORGET FIRE FROM OUTSIDE.
DO I HAVE TO REMIND U TO MAINTAIN DEFENSIVE SOLIDITY WHILE ENSURING VERSATILITY IN MID FIELD.

Thank you.u made a lot of sense.

Let me paint a picture.

She continues to her ex without hiding it from you. You begin to think she’s at the least, honest with you cos she is not concealing this fact. After a while, you get worried at the frequency and nature of their conversations. So you complain about it. She becomes defensive almost immediately. She tells you there’s nothing romantic between them, that they are just friends. She may even imply (or declare outright) that you are insecure. This jab hurts you but “love” compels you to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Little by little, you are conditioned to condone this unusual friendship she shares with her ex. You raise your suspicions and she shuts you down again and again. Then she begins to call you a controlling and intrusive partner. She says you are letting your insecurities drive you.

Meanwhile, she’s having steady sex or going on dates with her ex. But you’ve been browbeaten to accept the lie she feeds you. Until one day she makes a mistake and you catch her red handed and then she gets angry or teary eyed and she walks away from the relationship, claiming that he seduced her in her moment of weakness or some other bullshît like that.

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Bro, you are leading yourself to this bus stop. It is the worst feeling, when your gut tells you something and you fold your arms and watch it metamorphose into a nightmare. Make it a binary solution. She either limits her with her ex drastically or you breakup. If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you.

aimuan:
lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.

Look at this one

So all the people given u advice here are fornicators abi

Well collect her ex number and start speaking with him also

Nzuzu

aimuan:
lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.

you better let her go,so you will not come back here for advice again

aimuan:
What's the truth bro.according to her the guy cheated on her,and even have a child with another girl. So she can't go back to him..But I don't know if it's all game on not.

pls wake up from your slumber

aimuan:
lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.

oh..lol I can relate, but u ghas free that babe to save yourself heartache ...it possible you don dey love up already now sef but it's better now than later cos the ache go brutal that time

All women with exes communicate with them.
A L L !

If you want peace of mind, marry a virgin with no ex.

Post video/pic of her communicating with her ex or go and look for one corner to sob
Since you are a monumental ..... You know the rest...

awwfar:
in other words..u be evening news paper...
And I go advice u to free her for the ex Sha

Thank you bro.

awwfar:
oh..lol I can relate, but u ghas free that babe to save yourself heartache ...it possible you don dey love up already now sef but it's better now than later cos the ache go brutal that time

Thank you bro.

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now,and we just start dating about 3 weeks ago..Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage..

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family.I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind,so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl..

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex,which add credence to the fact that they are still in love,though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back,even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate..... Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

so you want to marry somebody you are just seeing for 3 weeks
naa soo!

AfroKnight:
Let me paint a picture.

She continues to her ex without hiding it from you. You begin to think she’s at the least, honest with you cos she is not concealing this fact. After a while, you get worried at the frequency and nature of their conversations. So you complain about it. She becomes defensive almost immediately. She tells you there’s nothing romantic between them, that they are just friends. She may even imply (or declare outright) that you are insecure. This jab hurts you but “love” compels you to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Little by little, you are conditioned to condone this unusual friendship she shares with her ex. You raise your suspicions and she shuts you down again and again. Then she begins to call you a controlling and intrusive partner. She says you are letting your insecurities drive you.

Meanwhile, she’s having steady sex or going on dates with her ex. But you’ve been browbeaten to accept the lie she feeds you. Until one day she makes a mistake and you catch her red handed and then she gets angry or teary eyed and she walks away from the relationship, claiming that he seduced her in her moment of weakness or some other bullshît like that.

---

Bro, you are leading yourself to this bus stop. It is the worst feeling, when your gut tells you something and you fold your arms and watch it metamorphose into a nightmare. Make it a binary solution. She either limits her with her ex drastically or you breakup. If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you.

God bless you..I really appreciate this.

You are simply a sideboyfriend and if you don't end it now, you'll end up as a sidehusband too

u are dating urself guy
she and her so called ex are still together
since u say u are about to marry her then its obvious u already spending heavily on her henceshe and her so called ex are busy eating ur money while he is still nacking her
u just being scammed

aimuan:
lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.

why not marry from ur jehovah witness fold.there is a high chance u would have met a good girl dere.its obvious this one is a street girl who wants to use u as atm.

J111333:
You are simply a sideboyfriend and if you don't end it now, you'll end up as a sidehusband too

nahh i dont think the girl will marry op.she is just using marriage to deceive him.she would eat his money and still run to her ex except maybe her ex is playing games with her as well just to chop her and op"s money she is sending to him and dump her in the end then she might have no option than to marry op.

Dude, like I always say... Nothing is Guaranteed.
Always have a plan B, and if possible a plan C.
God knows I can still smash any of my exes if we still communicating regularly, 'cause of our history.
Until you wife her, don't go all in. Don't. Emotionally and financially. Real G's know this.

lefulefu:
why not marry from ur jehovah witness fold.there is a high chance u would have met a good girl dere.its obvious this one is a street girl who wants to use u as atm.

I think that will be the best for me now..I may go back there to search for one..Thanks bro.