NewStats: 3,263,457 , 8,180,195 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 01:42 AM 2i4mf

SteveOfu:
what's wrong in asking how much your earn?
It's not a descent question you ask an average guy, except you have good rapport..you don't ask a lady for her age, and you don't ask a guy for his wage.... You get the vibe?nice one tho.....

happinezz110:
Unreasonable talk just like when I went on a date with one foolish guy, he told me I would live with his mom when we get married and she wld help me to chose the hospital for my Ante Natal wen I'm pregnant. All he could talk about was his mom, grandmom and sister. Since then, I hate dating only boy of d family especially those with 4sis

My brother isn't like that sha. Only guy with 4 sisters. Not all of them are like that.

franugo:


Learn?? Experience is d best teacher... How about we go watch Chelsea's next game?

Tight schedule.

seunmohmoh:
Never been on a date so let me learn from experienced people.

Let's go on one na, I've never been one either

After dinner we share the bill


quote author=SteveOfu post=84270248]Please
which character do you dislike one not to possess on a first date?

Mine are: Handling your phone 24/7 and always reaching to hold my palm[/quote]

seunmohmoh:
Who would that be?

A good friend. It seems you are still a student

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I ed back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

lovat:
Princess, we both know that you are far from an introvert


You can talk for 24 hrs if your battery is charged to a transformer

Lemme school you my son
When an introvert likes a person they can talk forever and never get tired (only with that person) but with somebody else they don't like they become stubborn, rude and might snub you.


Well, I don't like you so I'm closing the door of this conversation bye

lovat:
A good friend. It seems you are still a student

I'm working.

seunmohmoh:
Tight schedule.

Lol...EPL is quite lengthy....

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I ed back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

Werey o it's on another level

I have learnt how to tolerate people. this xmas/new year the way people disappear go home Everywhere remained so boring , i was like people staying with other people is life. WOAH I CAN'T LEAVE ALONE O ABEG. I MUST LEARN TO ACCEPT PEOPLE THE SMALL GOOD WAY THEY WERE.

tee59:
Eating like an hungry hyena.

LMAO

franugo:


Lol...EPL is quite lengthy....

You said next match, so I assumed it was hull city match.

Divay22:

Lemme school you my son
When an introvert likes a person they can talk forever and never get tired (only with that person) but with somebody else they don't like they become stubborn, rude and might snub you.


Well, I don't like you so I'm closing the door of this conversation bye

You just called me your son


Chai


Nairaland don kee me

Being late!

Bringing a crowd with you.

Being busy with your phone: chatting or talking loudly for long periods.

lovat:
You just called me your son


Chai


Nairaland don kee me

Lol. Loud it

I know we ain't gonna have sex or kiss on a first date but shave da pu§§y just in case

seunmohmoh:
You said next match, so I assumed it was hull city match.

My bad...I'm in yenagoa sef...no way I'll be in lasg for d next game...raincheck?

Asking too many questions like a questionnaire

One thing I hate about dates generally is coming late and ordering without conscience as if no be person pocket go suffer am

campbell118:
I know we ain't gonna have sex or kiss on a first date but shave da pu§§y just in case

Marlians!!

Divay22:

Same here. That's how i know my spirit agrees with such fellow if not i let the conversation RIP.

okay cool

seunmohmoh:
I'm working.

Okay.


Going out on a date for the first time can be anything you want it to be. You can make or Mar it with your demeanor. All you just need to do is being yourself and try to enjoy your time.


You might not like the guy at the end but try to find something to give yourself that joy that Seun just had some fun

chelseamann:
One thing I hate about dates generally is coming late and ordering without conscience as if no be person pocket go suffer am

one more thing, don't ever come with your friends unless if I tell I will be coming with my friends too(that's no longer a date, but coming together of boys and girls to shayoo)

franugo:


My bad...I'm in yenagoa sef...no way I'll be in lasg for d next game...raincheck?

I actually don't know if I'll be available anytime soon.

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I ed back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

Tbh that was a shitty and cowardly attitude of your friend.Hes honestly one of the problems of Nigeria.
If you can't afford what your partner is ordering,SAY IT!!!!!!!!
Las Las they will just hiss and leave the restaurant.
As much as those girls were rude for ordering anyhow,he's actually the more stupid one here

DivineGrace123:


Very true. Most African parents also did not give room for their children to be able to maintain eye . If you don't maintain eye when they are talking, they will see you as being "humble" "polite" and "respectful". The reverse is the case in developed countries such as Canada, the United States and Europe where being able to maintain eye is seen as being bold, confident and that you are 100% interested in what the person is saying. Sometimes, the society one finds him/herself is a contributing factor to one’s trait.

More than these, in Western country I live not maintaining eye is tantamount to lying

SteveOfu:
what's wrong in asking how much your earn?

Everything is so wrong with it

Fisher007:
Lol, People still go on dates

I never knew cause with dating apps everywhere. We know where the main dates venue is

I guess some people will complain about spending or eating too.much or people sizing them.up. or people.asking stupid questions like ' how much you earn' Lmao

Well you choose the wrong venue. Everybody knows what they want immediately you ve seen each other photos and chatted over the phone for few times . Dont let them fool you about getting to know each other. Please go straight to the point.

The more time you.waist the more you loose. The more time you loose the more validation you give. The more validation you give the more it cost you. The more it cost you, the more you.feel.like making it a relationship that might lead to.marriage. when the relationship or marriage fails you feel pained. At the end, you either accept and die with the pain or you come on nairaland after few years of investing in a place that brings more investment and you will still be blamed.

That why I go straight to the point meet me at my place simple. Either you are in or you are out. It cost nothing and doesnt waste my.time cause whatever the case is am at my place. Lol

What.do I know self. Let wait for the elders or white Knight who have been burned to.come and.give us more knowledge on what they dislike or hate about dating. Hmmm

Guy leave there ooo...For guys that have been on these Dating apps u will know that most of the women are bat sheeet....It's pretty pathetic,you see roughly 60 to 90% of their pictures have those stupid filters looking Soft when they actually have dog faces and look like scary movies in real life...Craze women puna dem... Nothing like seeing and meeting someone normal looking in a pub or eatery and having that lengthy conversation even though most times it's a waste of time or eventually they end up being game players.