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Girls offer things beyond sex. Some of these things are tangible while some are intangible but they still offer a lot.

If you are with a lady that doesn't add value to you pls QUIT

Why

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

lol

This is why majority of them are gold diggers looking for where to save their heads from hard life. they think their private part is the solution to their problems, no wonder they prioritize their private

It's a good topic, but the points are weak. As a sane woman too, I don't think a woman should be propelled or compelled to show what she's made of, even in the coming over to clean and cook, this content and what she has to offer should show.

I think saying a woman can't offer anything apart from sex in a relationship is wrong, but I don't think the man should be the one to kind of force it out or give her opportunities to show it. As a boss chick, any Lady ought to know how to work that out.

I strongly disagree with the above statement

This table you want to shake, my hand no dey oo.

Rd

Okay

Very big lie.

This complain will not take anyone anywhere. Men and women lived together to conquer nature and bring civilization to this chaotic globe. All you feminists and complainers are just delusional

Yes. We are not the same. I AM A MARSHAL.

If you know you know.

you think because you have not been doing the positive things you mentioned to your wife others are not doing?


Women can help ya life

they have better things to offer than sex

so respect and value woman nko amekop??

Just like a lot of men equally have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from swinging big diicks... Stop stereotyping, it's not healthy...


There a great women out there doing great things, change your circle...

Carnal mindedness is ur problem. A woman is a helper and can do something u can never think of. My friend go and rethink ur thoughts

If you believe the above that means your mother don't have any other thing to offer

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

ATTRACTING LADIES OF THEIR TYPE (YES). BUT OFFERING NOTHING BUT SEX IS A HELL NOOOOO.


THEY OFFER ALOT OF MONEY , WHILE THE LADY OFFER SEX

Excuse you, women are NOT sex-tools for males who respect God's view of why he brought forth the female gender. My girlfriend visits me, and guess what? She doesn't launder my clothes (she is not my maid), she is not opted to cook (I cook), and we don't have sex (I respect marriage). Be on the look for things pleasing to God alone.

The day I want sex so badly from her is the day I will make her my wife.

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

I told my babe to me so we attend a forex seminar together because we want to invest with some traders.

She told me that someone invited her to an all-night church program, so she's already booked.

Well, women kept themselves where they are today, and they will always be the biggest casualties of religion.

Ok

Access agree with and conditions!

...and watching what is trending on Instagram and tried to copy them "yeyebrities" ....if the BF cannot affoord it she will call her a "broke guy" and be cheating on him in tow!...calling it runs. Only few are intelligent and would care for a discussion. Las las na sex that is all.

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

Muhylonaire:
Ok... We have heard this before, can you please say something else.

Let's kuku settle this, if you have heard this countless time hit the LIKE button... If you are seeing this for the first time, Oya SHARE button.

To what end

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

I dab for you ,my ex girlfriend won't even understand my language except the words money or promise is inlove

Go and tell ur mother this. When u marry u will know sex is nothing

Booking space anyhow

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Honestly majority of 9ja girls have zero communication skills. Their IQ is very Iow when you initiate a meaningful convo they see you as a jonzing man and make you feel like a Dumbo.

The only thing that fascinate an average 9ja girl is Food, fashion and money. Very few of them have sense.

When I was younger I marvel seeing handsome men marrying girls who are not that pretty but I understand better now that Brains is very important not just beauty. I'll rather go for a lady who's 50% beautiful, 75% intelligent and above than going for a Bimbo 100% beautiful and 0% sense.

The truth is that most beautiful girls are less intelligent and fool themselves.

Now, this debate is becoming stale

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

the truth is youve disagreed but agreed.

Those who say a woman has nothing to offer but sex probably mean the drama and stress that comes with most women is so much that but for the fact that men need sex, we'd do away with them. Thats why some men look for transactional relationships or women who can be "bought".

you talk about giving room to show potential, thats the drama, nobody got time for that in Nigeria. If you have potential better display it upfront.

A man has a very simple mind, most women make simple things complicated for no reason. A man has enough stress navigating a living in this country called Nigeria, without undue drama.

Sometimes I do have pity on guys of this present generation. Most Nigerian ladies are dumb af. Sometimes I look at some of them on my chat list and say 'wetin I wan follow this one talk?". I end up posting memes and go offline. Some of them will still come and start saying" I don't understand this meme"

Once e don ' come and take me out, can do me a favour "etc just forget it

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

lillyval, is that you? I am pleased to see you are back. You know I miss your preachments.