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Hello nairalanders pls I need ur opinion on this. I started dating this guy I met last 2months. He is really charming, tall, dark and average looking. I wasn't attracted to him at first but when we got familiar with each other, my attraction for him started to grow.

I realized I fell hard for this guy because when he relocated because of his job, I missed him so much and couldn't do a day without thinking of him. We always talked on phone but before he left, he did sth. While we where walking to my place one night, he started initiating the touching tingy. What I felt was so undescribable. He rubbed my upper arm to my wrist and pressed my middle palm and since then I started liking him more.

My point simply is not knowing whether I am being charmed.

We met last month and i was so excited to see him in town so he took me out on a date.

In our discussion I was talking about my annoying boss at work. I don't know if he got pissed because he just got up and left. He stopped picking my calls or answering my messages.

Please I don't know what to do because I've not been myself.

.I think you are truly inlove with him,because u started loving him before that "touch" u are talking about..and why will someone charm a girl when he knows he is relocating to another town?,and he has being avoiding u after the "charm"?..well anythin can happen in today's world.best thin to do is try as much as possible to avoid/forget him.

The council of elders will soon be here

Mtcheeeeew so boring

Normally I don’t like helping females going through matters of the heart. However let me say this.

Forget him.

Why?

It is unfair for him to cease communication with you without stating or giving clear hints at the problem.

If he cannot even reply your message, please forget him. If you continue, you’ll only be irritating him. And trust me, you don’t want a guy to treat you like you’re an irritant.

This is assuming he is alive and well and of sound mind.

If you think is charm, then is not charm.

Finally,, a "I'm in love" thread from a female ...
Just when i was starting to wonder if wimp is the new male on this app...

You haven't been charmed dear, you just don't know..




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Yet

the touching from the arms to the waist is a classic trick you see in romantic movies always.

the walking away was the player doing a genuine nice mind game.

the player just want to talk about both of you and how he can Bleep you, he doesnt give a Bleep about your boss stories or office stories. what he cares about is your pussy.

anyway, he is waiting for your insecurities to get over you so that you can apologise to him and invite him to your apartment for some dick lessons

he just got up and left... without saying a word?!.. and you stood there while watching him leave?!? lol!

[img]https://media./images/c6e20e88d81733460afa585a7fde4772/tenor.gif[/img]

He is a player, be careful. Nothing like charm, some guys do what you have explained above.

I don't think it's ordinary dear

lilwetdick:
the touching from the arms to the waist is a classic trick you see in romantic movies always.

the walking away was the player doing a genuine nice mind game.

the player just want to talk about both of you and how he can Bleep you, he doesnt give a Bleep about your boss stories or office stories. what he cares about is your pussy.

anyway, he is waiting for your insecurities to get over you so that you can apologise to him and invite him to your apartment for some dick lessons

Lol u re sure right because during our conversations he was focused on my waist down
I even thought my skirt tore

MrBrownJay1:
he just got up and left... without saying a word?!.. and you stood there while watching him leave?!? lol!

[img]https://media./images/c6e20e88d81733460afa585a7fde4772/tenor.gif[/img]

What else should I have done fella

AfroKnight:
Normally I don’t like helping females going through matters of the heart. However let me say this.

Forget him.

Why?

It is unfair for him to cease communication with you without stating or giving clear hints at the problem.

If he cannot even reply your message, please forget him. If you continue, you’ll only be irritating him. And trust me, you don’t want a guy to treat you like you’re an irritant.

This is assuming he is alive and well and of sound mind.

Thanks dear your advice was really helpful but easier said than done but I'll try to forget him.

Bluebarbie10:




Lol u re sure right because during our conversations he was focused on my waist down
I even thought my skirt tore

Did he touch your waist or your wrist

Bluebarbie10:
What else should I have done fella

hhhmm let me see:
- ask him where he was going?
- ask him where THE HELL he was going?
- get up and follow him?
- grab him and ask him what the fukc was wrong with him?
- stop him from leaving and making sure he answered your question?

btw: how long did you stood there (waiting for him) before realizing the fool was not coming back....then jejely picking up your legs and leaving?!?!?

[quote author=vanida6 post=84185794]Mtcheeeeew so boring [/quote


Who cares

MrBrownJay1:


hhhmm let me see:
- ask him where he was going?
- ask him where THE HELL he was going?
- get up and follow him?
- grab him and ask him what the fukc was wrong with him?
- stop him from leaving and making sure he answered your question?

btw: how long did you stood there (waiting for him) before realizing the fool was not coming back....then jejely picking up your legs and leaving?!?!?

I swear same catch me I just shock. I can't even he lng

Lightway:


Did he touch your waist or your wrist

That was on the first occasion. He rubbed my arm to my wrist and pressed my middle palm

Are you a virgin?


Haven’t been with a man before?

You need serious fvck to calm you.

stupidity:
Are you a virgin?


Haven’t been with a man before?

You need serious fvck to calm you.

How is that ur business? ur name says it all

You didnt respond to body language your sitting down to talk about ur boss wen all d nigga wana do is f ur brains out...my dear ur already in love but with d wrong person his not in love with u he just wants ur body better dust ur slippers and run...

Bluebarbie10:



How is that ur business? ur name says it all

bia, this girl, respect your self!!

Don’t talk to me like that

I thought you needed advice.

Go get laid!! Serious gbola will help your life right now

stupidity:
bia, this girl, respect your self!!

Don’t talk to me like that

I thought you needed advice.

Go get laid!! Serious gbola will help your life right now

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All u know is gbola I think he was simply iring me dats all

Bluebarbie10:
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All u know is gbola I think he was simply iring me dats all

you are a real JJC. No doubt

Come let me un-charm you. Come for gbola deliverance.

Bluebarbie10:
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All u know is gbola I think he was simply iring me dats all

Lmao!!!

Sorry dear, The guy is a major player. If you hadn't said the guy was dark, I would have sworn that's the same hunku that shred my heart to pieces. Very similar manner.
Take heart....the things women go through.

Bluebarbie10:
Hello nairalanders pls I need ur opinion on this. I started dating this guy I met last 2months. He is really charming, tall , dark and average looking. I wasn't attracted to him at first but when I we got familiar with each other, my attraction for him started to grow.
I realized I fell hard for this guy because when he relocated because of his job, I missed him so much and couldn't do a day without thinking of him. We always talked on phone but before he left, he did sth. While we where walking to my place one night, he started initiating the touching tingy. What I felt was so undescribable. He rubbed my upper arm to my wrist and pressed my middle palm and since then I started liking him more.
My point simply is not knowing whether I am being charmed.
We met last month and i was so excited to see him in town so he took me out on a date.
In our discussion I was talking about my annoying boss at work. I don't know if he got pissed because he just got up and left. He stopped picking my calls or answering my messages. Please I don't know what to do because I've not been myself.

This part really made me laff.

Bluebarbie10:



Thanks dear your advice was really helpful but easier said than done but I'll try to forget him.

You’re welcome.

That your guy is well read he is using the oscillator approach works on girls with high value but need for physical attention you are not charmed just responding to nature