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Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? (69199 Views)
Chukapage(m): 7:44am On Aug 17, 2019 |
franchasng:No bro the only bring out "LOVE" when they're at the disadvantaged side, men need to be smart although Alot of men are getting smarter but we still need them to be more smarter..while the idea of love sounds sweet and cozy it's a SCAM it doesn't exist it's just an ideology created to manipulate people because what we read ,listen to, and watch affects our view of reality .look at the songs and movies even memes we use it's all about the SCAM LOVE women just know how to use that ideology better especially on this weak generation of men.during the 19th,20th centuries 18year olds went to wars ,they were tough and reasonable they were men but this days 18year olds be like" my girlfriend is cheating on me what should I do"? This is as a result of a generation of men who now "Feel". 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Mrevildoer(m): 7:44am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 7:44am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: Because I want you to Feel inferior & make myself feel superior. shebi that's what you wanted to hear ![]() Women like you are extremely toxic, can't mind thier own business & always trying to discourage others. YES, AM 100% SURE you are a woman, very frustrated one too( Soo sad) wish I could help 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 7:46am On Aug 17, 2019 |
I ain't scared, as long as she ain't broke. Am allergic to broke bitches, no matter how fine or sexy you are...
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Chukapage(m): 7:48am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands:atleast the man will be 20th in her life BECAUSE of HIS children not some kids of some other men.Thats the responsibility of being a parent your child and family comes first I don't mind being 10th in her life as long as it's My children as long as it will favour them more, what no man wants is being 5th in her life because of another man's baggage and Children. 9 Likes |
emmaodet: 7:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Ubunja, you are a God sent. You always amaze me with your replys. How i really wish i knew you 5-10 years ago. 80-90% of what you do say happened in my relationship. I am the good/nice guy type but tbh, it really hurts. How i wish i loved with my head and not my heart and also knowing that the reason why our wives married us is because of what we can provide or finance is really a bitter pill to swallow. I have never seen a relationship or marriage were a man leaves a woman because she lost her job but have heard hundreds of where females leave, insults, disrespects a man because he lost his job. It is a harsh world out there and really saddening. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Chukapage(m): 7:53am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:his father didn't care because he is his "Father" not step father if my wife putting me second will help raise my kids in a healthy then I'm fine because am their father not step father and my responsibility is to take care of them even if I have to come second in their mothers life what men don't want is coming second for another man's baggage. 1 Like |
JADEK01(m): 7:57am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=Mastalo post=81277849]It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them. Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not. They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her. They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand) this is where u get it wrong....how long and how can someone pleases lady’s of this this day....I became vulnerable anytime I’m try to day a young lady....as I was talking to you now,I’m dating a widow with 6 children’s,I find peace,maturity,security in her than any lady’s I have meet so far,in as much God is providing for me,I will married her....she’s satisfy with little I’m giving her and her children’s.....I can’t continue begging a lady to love me....if I beg to married I’ll beg to maintain. Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear tro and shirt, dress SHARP! Girls will be fighting to have you.[/quote |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:01am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:wrong! Feminist want women to be what they want to be. They don't diss virgins, because it's not their business what women want to do with their bodies. Feminist destroy patriarchy not feminity... 1 Like |
franchasng: 8:01am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Tell them 2 Likes 1 Share |
Chukapage(m): 8:03am On Aug 17, 2019 |
joyfullyjoyous:here we go again with the love scam talk women only preach "love" when they are disadvantaged side I bet if na "broke guy" yarn now your story line will change 4 Likes |
JADEK01(m): 8:03am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=24kmagic post=81290116]I[/quotehow long and how can someone pleases lady’s of this this day....I became vulnerable anytime I’m try to date a young lady....as I was talking to you now,I’m dating a widow with 6 children’s,I find peace,maturity,security in her than any lady’s I have meet so far,in as much God is providing for me,I will married her....she’s satisfy with little I’m giving her and her children’s.....I can’t continue begging a lady to love me....if I beg to married I’ll beg to maintain.
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:05am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=Chukapage post=81325331][/quote] So when guys that have bleeped all the girls on a globe want a virgin as wife,why don't you guys diss him since he doesn't equate his choice? 1 Like |
Ugosample(m): 8:06am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage: lmao it takes two to tango That is all I want to hear so the irresponsible man as well has to pay for his irresponsibility which means that he must take care of the kids But the Nigerian society excuses irresponsible baby daddies. You know it and I know it 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage:Have you ever seen a marriage where a woman walks out because of cheating?but many men will walk out because of cheating 2 Likes |
adetunjioludami(m): 8:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Kazeemakeem:This is a myopic thinking. I pity you. Best kor. |
Jfyzee: 8:10am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage: When you cannot bring yourself to do something base on your limited knowledge and someone else comes on to do that same thing and get praised. Will you consider it a failure or a great thing..? So the question you should ask yourself is.. Will you consider Joseph the carpenter a great man for marrying a woman like Mary who was a virgin but was pregnant for an unknown..? (so to speak). So young man, give it a deep thought and find your answer. 1 Like |
princfred(m): 8:14am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Not knowing if she was the reason for her single mumness with bad character namely ( hypergamy, entitlment and being relcaciltrant ) and if she has gotten some sense. Uncertainty over if she is still into her childs Dad and if her allegiance is to you or him/them. Also the allegiance of the step-child you are training las las - to you the new man or to the biological father who wants to toil in vain? The unspoken one -- "how tight is she down there" hey who wants to go roll in and permanently posses a hole he isnt responsible for oversizing when there are tighter options? Too many questions the man can't ask out loud and yet can't answer. 2 Likes |
princfred(m): 8:16am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Apt at the bolded . You catch them there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Chukapage(m): 8:18am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Chukapage(m): 8:20am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:you are just beating around the bush and changing goal post we are talking of baggages that comes with single moms not bad things that happen in marriage. 2 Likes |
Oseh1Gidigba: 8:21am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Single mothers are more respectful. I have one and we are doing well. Those that scare is because they don't want to bear or play the role of step father.
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Chukapage(m): 8:25am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Ugosample:I don't know it nobody makes any excuses for irresponsible men infact they're heavily criticized here in Nigeria society condemns them too the only problem is the weak laws and judiciaries in Nigeria to enforce child but would you blame them? Even the president disobeys court orders. |
Chukapage(m): 8:28am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:Aunty I'm not a virgin Hunter and what I never do is to criticize people for their own opinions I can't attack a man because he says he wants a virgin that's his opinion not mine I can't go around criticising or blackmailing them for their own opinions and beliefs which they are responsible for. 2 Likes 1 Share |
DonEd(m): 8:30am On Aug 17, 2019 |
zinaunreal: It's not a must to comment. If u dont know something, be quiet 1 Like |
SilasNwude: 8:34am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Votukpa(m): 8:35am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands: Let me get this straight. You walked out of your marriage because you found out your husband was a manwhore? You decided to deny your child its right to a family to be brought up in because you couldn't manage your husband? Let me ask you these.. You made the conscious decision to marry him, did you not? Did u not at least perceive he had manwhore tendencies before you decided to become an item with him? I'm very sure you did. Show me a woman (or man) who is unhappily married or divorced and i'll show you someone who ignored many blatant warning signs/red flags and ignored all of them. Please follow my logic (if you will): It goes without saying that women who walk out of their marriage on of infidelity or got knocked up by a man whom she isn't married to are prime examples of women who are very poor decision makers and are therefore unfit to be responsible wives; or were desperate for marriage (which makes them poor decision makers yet still). So, why should any intelligent and rational male submit himself to picking up the pieces of a woman's broken relationship that she stupidly entered into and consciously broke? Why would any man want to be with a woman who brought forth a child in a marriage but couldn't remain in it inspite of the challenges; or a woman who easily spreads her legs open for premarital raw sex without thinking through the consequences and implications? If a woman decides to walk out of a marriage with a child or had a child out of wedlock (worse) and any man agrees to date or marry her afterwards-she will never respect that man. Ever. She will forever resent him for his stupidity. She may pretend to love him (she has to since he will be footing bills and giving her social proof as well as being a step dad), but on the inside, she will loathe him for tolerating to be with her-thinking, "so, this is (me) the best you can do". Every woman (including single moms) wants a man to be better than her her in every sense. Any man agreeing to be with a divorced woman communicates to her that he isn't better than her, but only willing to be a tool. Why do you think God hates divorce? divorce destroys marriages and homes and children. God hates that. Bottom line. No single man should cut a covenant of any sort with a single mother who walked out of her own marriage or wasn't intelligent enough to judge whether her sex partner would wife her up-- for his own sanity and safety. Marrying such women is like going into a business deal with someone whom he knows dealt business with another person, and the deal was resoundingly unsuccessful for very bad reasons. Better safe than sorry. For all divorced single mothers out there, marry your Bible and dedicate your lives to repentance and building your child. If God sees that you're ready and mature at heart, he knows how to bring a good man to you, who will show you love. 10 Likes |
larryking540: 8:37am On Aug 17, 2019 |
dumahi: e weak me too, but na d truth, there are lot's of tradition in Africa, u can't just see a lady (single mother) and over night u wan do wedding with am,na over night u go still die, I day watch TV Joshua the other day when one woman was called out say she don marry reach 6 times all d husband day die, after 2 years, only to discover dat d first husband put some stuff inside her unknown to her, they call it "MAGU" leave some grammerians make day day speak English here, they know nothing about African tradition, |
babyfaceafrica: 8:38am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:sorry which patriarchy is destroyed?...are u speaking from Cameroon?..in Nigeria it is waxing stronger |
princfred(m): 8:47am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Oseh1Gidigba:Thank God you got one that has got sense some of them are still towing thesame lane that got them to single mumhood. 1 Like |
MachadoPreto: 8:48am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Mwhy do people prefer brand new cars to Tokunbo?
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princfred(m): 8:50am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:And when they succeed creating single mamas in their wake only to wail about how men are no longer being overly responsible they open threads like this asking why. You feminists are a confused lot aswe. Better focus on improving women than destroying patriarchy cause you only end up destroying feminity as men are still the greatest source of income and societal joy to women - If you argue this then tell ; between men and women who train, shelter and feed women for higher institution and society? 1 Like |
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