NewStats: 3,262,612 , 8,177,694 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 02:45 AM 1k2b25

they are generally selfish...

ubunja:
call it what you want.

All I know is that it makes women drop their panties and open those legs.

GOAT... Those are the kinda girl you'll ever attract... Wh*res

ubunja:
lmfao. Good try

Haha... Just telling you what you are like is all.You craaaaaaazy.

ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.

Preach it ! Ubunja !

When all of una nag finish, una go exit nairaland dey call babe wey una dey beg for centuries.

I dey refer to negroes wey get money oo. No be broke ones.

ubunja:
this is the reason why we always tell guys STOP SIMPING. STOP BEING NICE GUYS. The problem is the sexual market has been oversaturated with Beta Mangina Simps who are competing to worship women.
When we tell Martin0 to stop idolizing women it's like we are bad guys. But worshiping women gets them mentally spoiled. On Social Media, guys desperate for pussy will call an average 5 girl that she's a 10 just to flatter her. And the same idiots complain that average girls on the street are forming like 10s. Yet these same niggahs are responsible for that behaviour in women. Men need to stop simping and everything will revert back to normal.

Stop giving compliments everywhere. Stop validating these whôrés. You're making things difficult for yourselves

Your very right! Women love tough & hard men. Makr you cum get money , gbam!

Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense

Sadly the problem has to do with how guys reason. Most guys are so weak that they beg ladies for attention. If we are dating, we meet halfway

Stillthebest:




You are damn correct. 120% it works like fire. It worked for me like fire. In fact I sent one Gtb staff I was dating out of my house for an offense that she committed which I hate but some nice guys will still tolerate her. She didn't Leave my door oo even after slamming it on her. But you can't form it. It must be inside of you to be a tough guy else ou will misapply it and girls will run away from you because in between you must posses qualities that won't make her want to leave.

I did something worse off o. My own is even an American/Naija chick, 6 months now i don't talk to her. Now i'm feeling bad ..

highcollide:
That is a known fact. Even if you're 30 years older than a woman, or she's your maid, once the two of una don climb bed, una don be mates....

If only men can learn how to control that thing in between their legs, the world will be a better place..

Relationships will be more interesting, marriages would be enjoyable and long lasting like in the days of our fore fathers, ladies will strive hard to earn a living using their 6th Sense above thier shoulders and not that hole beneath their waist.

Don't get it wrong

If you want to act on ladies behaviour, be prepared to be miserable

Just accept them the way you can and if you can't tolerate it, just ignore or look for another one

They are different but with similar attributes

If you remove a cat and bring in a dog, they are all domestic animals

Ginalex:
GOAT... Those are the kinda girl you'll ever attract... Wh*res

hilarious. Why do you think men are always killing themselves over women.
.they finally learn the big lesson. All women are whores

Hoodbilonia:
Nigerian ladies are ungrateful.
The last went away wuth my towel,singlet and wireless charger. Said she liked them.
Bich


I just bang and move on
If u call.u no call..bone me for whatsapp,block me.
Trust me
Ham.
I'm on to the next one

Towel and singlet

Are u sure ur not being used to buy Benz??

fabienjoe:


You expressed my outrage..I mean how twisted can one get? And how does this fit into marriage?..I mean, is she gonna continue this warped game with her husband?

With everyday of this kinda power play the woman relinquishes more of her worth to the man. This goes on until a narcissistic husband is born. You can divide that into physical,mental and emotional abuse. Just because the nigger is too weak to treat her nicely regardless of her issues.

Truth is one can't give what one doesn't have. Be it respect,tenderness,affection whatever. So you can't really blame em. They need help too,they just don't realise it or won't it to it. And so the cycle continues

ubunja:
this just made my day.

What's the ryt way Ubunja?


A chick i love dearly mistook my kindness for weakness. I have starved her off attention for 6 months, now i'm choking. It's making me feel guilty, her eyes are all over me in the church left and right monitoring whom i talk with and whom i do not. How do i recapture that spot Ubunja?

Nigerian men are devils, women should never give then anything back, even love

ubunja:
hilarious. Why do you think men are always killing themselves over women.
.they finally learn the big lesson. All women are whores

Speak for your mum and sisters if you have any... BYE goat

ubunja:
that's the sad part. You don't even see the harm you're doing.

Hia wait wait ooo! abeg nor vex which harm ooo? Oga see as u just dey finish me like say I nor be guy

be right back

Toseenlove:


Ogbeni shut up your fucking stinky mouth. Woman pants drycleaner. Akidanidani Gbewudani. Thunder fire u there mtcheeew.

hahahahahahahah nor go get hot temper like this ooo,Na man u be wait ooo see as u just dey finish me,weitin I do brother?

frozen70:
Don't get it wrong

If you want to act on ladies behaviour, be prepared to be miserable

Just accept them the way you can and if you can't tolerate it, just ignore or look for another one

They are different but with similar attributes

If you remove a cat and bring in a dog, they are all domestic animals

yes. Yes. And yes.

Men need to make peace with female nature. Learn it. Get angry. Then decide. Do you love them as they are or do you walk away

ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.

I dey feel you bro.. I hardly chat with girls wey i dey Straffff. Even like 2 days ago, one girl was crying all because i didnt give her my whatsapp number ever since we got hooked. She said i didnt take her Special bla bla bla. Bro she cried for real, but mih no still Foh for her cry.. But i hate seeing people cry, i just had to pet her & sort things out with her. Zero attention dey work for me wella.

Jodha:
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates...

Yhure not ready at all ...

And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef..

Na dem type be dis

Even if a gal can't give 50/50 at least make she de contribute her little to Amy relationship may not even be money

catwalq:


Dance if you want,play nice,jump,clap,simp if you f**king want to. No one should lead their lives and teach you how to lead yours...

Leave that one... Ubunja says jump, he asks how high... Talk about a simp

Ginalex:
Speak for your mum and sisters if you have any... BYE goat

that's the best you can do? Dragging my family into NL...

Yeah....i stopped bugging girls long time ago...i act like they mean nothing

Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense

The reason is that women ,are in 9ja nd in general, are intoxicated by their vag1nas . They all think everyman that shws an interest in them wants pvssy. And if u wnt pvssy, you'll put up with any insult jst to get it.
If a womn insults u,and u still stay,in her mind she ranks u as very thirsty-for pvssy. She'll then increase the volume of d insult.
If you keep being nice and accomodating- she'll eventually destroy d relationship with insult.
Women are unrealistically proud.
They have an overinflated image of themselves.
So,when they see a man who doesnt take their sh*t,they either let d relationship die -out of pride or they capitulate nd bow.

Lordknowz:



I dey feel you bro.. I hardly chat with girls wey i dey Straffff. Even like 2 days ago, one girl was crying all because i didnt give her my whatsapp number ever since we got hooked. She said i didnt take her Special bla bla bla. Bro she cried for real, but mih no still Foh for her cry.. But i hate seeing people cry, i just had to pet her & sort things out with her. Zero attention dey work for me wella.

give her your WhatsApp next thing they ask "Why am I not your profile pic"

Korllami007:
Dating most Nigerian girls is the same as dating Sex doll.

You do everything.

Pesin....

Even when you are still asking a lady out, she should show a little appreciation (in her unique way) of whatever you are doing in the chyking process to make her happy. That’s a sign that shows that you can keep on with the tempo, she’ll be yours soon. However, if all you are getting from her is pure dryness throughout the short or long period of asking her out, HEY, move on very fast, she’s not worth the time and resources. Never outspend or out wait yourself asking a lady out.

Jodha:
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates...

Yhure not ready at all ...

And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef..

I really dont understand why men cant just act like men anymore. Women are very tricky being in nature. They believe in trickying men to make that way thru. Thats why a man should never deal with a woman with emotions cos once they see that your falling stupidly one kind, they'll bounce on you. Instead, men should use strategies. You can always win over their trick with your strategy. In olden days, the warriors & strong men own the best women, They didnt fall stupidly for them & as you can see, the women served them well. Dont get too brainwashed about men needing women the most, its a fallacy of life! They needed us more. You can make it in life without any help from any woman. You can build your house, get your nice dream cars, travel to your dream places without any help from any woman. If not for kids & fun, they're just another human parasite. Men should stop begging for love, its useless. Dont beg for sex, its stupidity. Once you can control yourself over the 2 bullshit, then your a man for life. You'll live long and and sick less. You know when you keep prospering without worries. You go dey gallant!

Imoh555:



I am very blunt and plain with women especially when criticizing them and telling them they look terrible or they ain't shiit and the good thing is that women love it when you actually don't worship or idolize them,....treat her good and she takes you for granted, treat her like a piece of rag and watch her never wants to depart from you... (boys don't get this logic) it doesn't mean you guys should be women beaters... Thanks for your educations ubunja I hope there are some new stuffs to read from you soon.... I'm starved

You're generalizing too much and it's a problem.