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zexy2030(m): 11:20pm On Apr 18, 2019
Saffi:
Okay if this makes you feel better about yourself, then you are free to believe it.
it's not about my ego,or trying to feel better, it's simply real, I, swear kill me, if I don't make u cum during penetration... atleast twice..

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Re: I Have Never Cummed During Sex, What Can I Do?? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Apr 18, 2019
You are too confident. And it’s always those overly confident dudes that are lacking.
zexy2030:

it's not about my ego,or trying to feel better, it's simply real, I, swear kill me, if I don't make u cum during penetration... atleast twice..

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badadvice(f): 11:26pm On Apr 18, 2019
Saffi:
You are too confident. And it’s always those overly confident dudes that are lacking.



you're indeed "hardly deceived"

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Re: I Have Never Cummed During Sex, What Can I Do?? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 18, 2019
Saffi:
Oh shut up. I’m telling you that women rarely cum during penetration. We are talented at lying to you guys, faking moans and shaking leg like one explosion has happened, but in reality it’s all an act. We do it to stroke your ego to make you feel like you have done a good job. Women can enjoy sex, the act of something entering inside of her and the skin to skin , but to cum (have an orgasm) ahbeg it’s hard.

There are things you can't fake dear. It's a shame you haven't experienced orgasm before though. Of all people on this site.

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zexy2030(m): 11:30pm On Apr 18, 2019
Saffi:
You are too confident. And it’s always those overly confident dudes that are lacking.
call me let's meet...DM me..I will call u..I will prove u wrong dear

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badadvice(f): 11:31pm On Apr 18, 2019
401:


There are things you can't fake dear. It's a shame you haven't experienced orgasm before though. Of all people on this site.


hope you dont mind me asking sir.
What do you mean by that@bolded ?

Re: I Have Never Cummed During Sex, What Can I Do?? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 18, 2019
Are you stupid?
zexy2030:

call me let's meet...DM me..I will call u..I will prove u wrong dear
zexy2030(m): 11:35pm On Apr 18, 2019
Saffi:
Are you stupid?
orgasm starved feminist spotted...I'm have fun right now..die off...hahahaha

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chris31(m): 12:30am On Apr 19, 2019
Yes it's hard for someone women to have orgaism during sex but i should shift the blame to men doing the job
Many men are selfish or even inexperienced thinking that is the penetration only will make a woman cum
Try & understand the center of gravity of ur woman then concentrate on it more don't rush then u will see the magic

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Birniwa(m): 12:36am On Apr 19, 2019
Stop masturbating!
tempest01(m): 1:02am On Apr 19, 2019
s95:
I never had a reason to think about this but my husband complains a lot about how he has never seen me cum.
Actually, I enjoy sex but this cumming stuff is bothering me. Are there things I'm supposed to do cos my husband has tried his best to make me experience this but it's not working
Is this normal or something else is involved.
Please ur advises is really needed

Not all women cum readily.

I have been with few women, and only 1 I know was an easy cummer, if you do the right things. Others most times fake it, or so I feel.

What I would advise is to put your mind to it, tell him to do lots of pre-intimacy, talk to him during the process, tell him what sweetens you most. Talk dirty, and encourage him to do same.

Also, you can really get yourself in the mood by seeing some videos prior to the act.

Take to dominating position sometimes, and do what gets you on most. Put your mind to the process. Be selfish in the act, please yourself. It is easier for us to cum. The mere knowledge that you are cumming can make us cum.

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tripleking64(m): 1:23am On Apr 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Stimulation of your clit is another way of reaching orgasm, if penetration doesn't work, he should use his tongue on it, works like magic.

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tripleking64(m): 1:24am On Apr 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Stimulation of your clit is another way of reaching orgasm, if penetration doesn't work, he should use his tongue on it, works like magic.




you know wat you are saying ...Stimulation of clit is another way of reaching orgasm

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RottenBanana: 1:34am On Apr 19, 2019
Saffi:
Are you stupid?

You are suffering from what Freud Sigmund called PEN!S ENVY.
You will never understand how to it feels to be a man.
But I can tell you, in my next life, if I come back as a woman, I will commit sucide in the womb.

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Mace0lane: 2:06am On Apr 19, 2019
Do you like fore play ?

makydebbie:
Do you get wet enough during sex?
How is his forepla.y like?
BiafranBushBoy: 2:27am On Apr 19, 2019
I wrote a book, how to make a woman orgasm on Amazon.

You can buy it there and let him follow my tactics.

Squirting is something a girl can't deny. It will be visible to all involved.

Wish you well. For direct purchase, send a pm .

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sweetilicious(f): 4:05am On Apr 19, 2019
BoboKush:
I can make u cum.... Ma PM is open
She is married nah
ArticleBeast: 5:01am On Apr 19, 2019
Saffi:
Go and buy a sexx toy easiest way to cum for a woman. Penetration can never make you cum, rarely, I’m so sorry but that’s just the truth.
Not true...Penetration and playing with the clit can make you cum. The question to be asked is if she was circumcised? Those people and cum are enemies
frozen70(f): 5:01am On Apr 19, 2019
s95:
I never had a reason to think about this but my husband complains a lot about how he has never seen me cum.
Actually, I enjoy sex but this cumming stuff is bothering me. Are there things I'm supposed to do cos my husband has tried his best to make me experience this but it's not working
Is this normal or something else is involved.
Please ur advises is really needed

Sex is a thing of the mind

Your state of mind at any time determines if you will climax or have orgasm during sex

It's a thing of psychology

Before sex free your mind of all worries and troubles

As you are a woman, you are expected to tell your man how you want sex to be not him determining how it will be, because come what may, a man will have orgasm but its not like that in women

Try and engage yourself with enough kiss and fundling with your nipples which will help to stimulate and prepare your body for sex

You can stand and let your hubby cuddle you while standing and the same time rub your boobs for you while kissing your
It helps to get wet down there

Don't ever engage in a rush sex, let him take it easy and slowly, with a gentle touch while you close your eyes and concentrate fully in the action

While all these are going on, you will be enjoying the friction but the altimate is the ability to reach orgasm

Watch soft porns in your private it will help stimulate and prepare you

Lastly, there must be enough romance and when I mean enough romance, let hubby know that you need enough romance to put you in the right track.

With the help of enough romance, you will be the one beckoning on him to take control

Don't allow yourself to be rushed because that system doesn't work for people that finds it difficult to reach orgasm

Always be in the mood for sex and you can also make the first move

Choose from all the styles you have watched and find one that suits you, but man in top will give you a good body and control of the game

At times tell him that you want him to suck your boobs especially when you are with him playing or gisting, that's a woman's turning point

Don't encourage fingering it distract a lot

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ArticleBeast: 5:03am On Apr 19, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:
I wrote a book, how to make a woman orgasm on Amazon.

You can buy it there and let him follow my tactics.

Squirting is something a girl can't deny. It will be visible to all involved.

Wish you well. For direct purchase, send a pm .
What can be gotten off the internet. Biko auntie google and wash youtube video. No waste your one naira for copy and paste book

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ArticleBeast: 5:05am On Apr 19, 2019
zexy2030:

I said I have fvcked a woman to orgasm...I can without ur noise...I know when a woman orgasms..on occasions she pushed me...some other occasions struggling to penetrating as her pussy walls grabs my dick, when about removing it, she says wait let the shock go down, then another instance is when u can feel her leg shaking..then the way she moves her body during missionary style, she lifts herself unconsciously without uncontrollable moaning..my dear so sorry u may not understand because u have not had it once during penetration.. the ones pretending.. I tell them to their face.
You have mentioned it all...Leave am make she dey follow dodo guys

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ArticleBeast: 5:08am On Apr 19, 2019
Saffi:
Oh shut up. I’m telling you that women rarely cum during penetration. We are talented at lying to you guys, faking moans and shaking leg like one explosion has happened, but in reality it’s all an act. We do it to stroke your ego to make you feel like you have done a good job. Women can enjoy sex, the act of something entering inside of her and the skin to skin , but to cum (have an orgasm) ahbeg it’s hard.
If you say squirting, I will agree with you. Only few women tend to squirt but if you say orgasm, forgerrit..Just stimulating the clit and hitting the g spot at interval, she will be grabbing, the pussy clenching ur mamba and begging u not to stop...Infact she will push u off.

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zexy2030(m): 5:40am On Apr 19, 2019
s95:
I never had a reason to think about this but my husband complains a lot about how he has never seen me cum.
Actually, I enjoy sex but this cumming stuff is bothering me. Are there things I'm supposed to do cos my husband has tried his best to make me experience this but it's not working
Is this normal or something else is involved.
Please ur advises is really needed
tell him to allow u ride him, then u concentrate on the gspot and grind ur clit simultaneously, I don't how long he is hard..if he is hard for atleast 15mins why won't u cum..then as u r up and he down..locate the sweet part that the dick touches that makes it sweeter..concentrate on that and tell him to hit u harder on that spot...u may not be able to explain what happens to u...do different styles..but it's obvious either ur hubby doesn't last long, or no much pre-intimacy, or he is hitting the wrong place on ur walls or his dick is now smaller compared to hole after childbirth..position urself such that he can hit the upper wall 2inches inside u very very fast...I bet u will not know what is happening....

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zexy2030(m): 5:45am On Apr 19, 2019
ArticleBeast:

If you say squirting, I will agree with you. Only few women tend to squirt but if you say orgasm, forgerrit..Just stimulating the clit and hitting the g spot at interval, she will be grabbing, the pussy clenching ur mamba and begging u not to stop...Infact she will push u off.
pls forget that poor girl with the wrong dude..let's help op...tell her reasons she is not cumming.
makeitijn: 6:02am On Apr 19, 2019
Jesus is coming soon.
If she ain't a virgin ,then ain't worth it
BoboKush(m): 6:11am On Apr 19, 2019
OkaNaUbe:


Person wife?

Cough
I thought she want to cum

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BoboKush(m): 6:13am On Apr 19, 2019
sweetilicious:
She is married nah

grin
femi4: 6:20am On Apr 19, 2019
s95:
I never had a reason to think about this but my husband complains a lot about how he has never seen me cum.
Actually, I enjoy sex but this cumming stuff is bothering me. Are there things I'm supposed to do cos my husband has tried his best to make me experience this but it's not working
Is this normal or something else is involved.
Please ur advises is really needed
May be you ve not explore other styles.

Some styles make some woman come quickly, you guys should try doggy or cow girl style.

Also, he should change the tempo while thrusting, the G spot is not down there but just after the vjay entrance.

He should learn how to thrust back and forth halfway
placeofallure(f): 6:52am On Apr 19, 2019
Saffi:
Go and buy a sexx toy easiest way to cum for a woman. Penetration can never make you cum, rarely, I’m so sorry but that’s just the truth.

Experience is key here. Know what works for you and how to always get to that tipping point. intimacy gadgets are good but I've never used them, my husband has aversions for them and I cum many times during penetration, multiple orgasm a couple of times even.

The OP and her hubby should take extra pain to study each other's body. The lady may be the shy type who don't discuss sex in marriage, they keep looking for fancy name to call it. Some can't even use the "F" word. Tell him your fetishes, help him to find your mumu button and let him press to satisfaction. You too, take his microphone and sing jolly tunes with it so he can hit the "G" spot harder. Sex in marriage should be without any inhibitions. I get raw and dirty with my husband and we get results.

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rex444(m): 7:08am On Apr 19, 2019
I don't give sex advise on any platform but lemme break this rule just once......while he's doing the deed, from behind he will get the opportunity to place one hand on your spot if you know what I mean , then stroke your clit with a finger simultaneously.......he has to be acrobatic to achieve this feat that's why I jog every two days ....he should

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funmijoyb(f): 7:12am On Apr 19, 2019
Saffi:
Okay if this makes you feel better about yourself, then you are free to believe it.
You're a man not a woman... Ur comment is not ladylike imagine that boy knows a woman sexuality than you. Go grab your toys...more women don't use toys I cannot even touch it.

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